Throwing Major Shade! Rihanna Instagrams Subliminal Message to Chris Brown

Rihanna and Chris Brown via Bossip.com

Chris Brown did an interview where he was asked about his relationship with Rihanna and his other ex Karrueche. He was questioned whether he was with one of them or not. Chris quickly dispelled the rumors and explained he's not with either one but he's good friends with them both.


Well shortly after the interview went public Rihanna took to Instagram to express her feelings. Meme picture below:

It's hilarious to me. If this meme was a shot at Chris Brown, Just let it go. Got damn! You're a grown ass women get the eff over it! Find another dude to obsess over or rather date you've done it before i.e. Matt Kemp, Drake, etc. L.I.G. it Rihanna, seriously! It needs to be a done deal. Your relationship was toxic. Chris ended up in court and you ended up with a black eye. Leave it and him alone. Period!

Source: Bossip

A Letter to George Zimmerman....from Lance Gross, Look Inside and See What He Said

Lance Gross isn't lying this is the absolute truth. Again we need to just let Trayvon's family grieve. So rest easy Trayvon we gotcha back. #RIPTrayvon

Source: NewsOne

Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 2, Sigh

Kirk has been under fire for his disrespectful and hurtful antics on last weeks episode of LHHATL. Now he's eating humble pie via Nicki Minaj. Let me explain......

You see last week Nicki took to twitter and told everyone how she felt about Kirk and his cheating. Everyone including me agreed with her tweets. Here's some of what she said:

“Damn my n***a, after 15 yrs u wld embarrass the mother of your child while she’s pregnant on nat’l tv like that? cornballs on deck. for reality tv tho? My n—a…that s–t ain’t worth it,” the curvy rapper tweeted. “If you’re trying to convince someone you’re not gay that’s the wrong way to go about it. Your wife is pregnant. U do that on nat’l tv? GTFOH.”

“Having problems is one thing, broadcasting it on a tv show for some air time is another. That woman stayed by your side. how dare u? And i dare u to say it ain’t none of my business. u done sold it to vh1. Its everybody business,” the Twitter rant continued. “Its levels to this s–t…lol…the lower level minds will never understand that. You’re willing to ruin a 15 yr bond for vh1? el stupido.”

Kirk has decided to break his silence about her tweets. TMZ talked with Kirk and asked him what he felt about it, here's what he said:

“Nicki Minaj is a woman and she was speaking about me doing inappropriate things. I can’t fault her for that. Every woman in America who watched felt the way Nicki did,” he said. 

“Not only was doing it on the show inappropriate, but it was inappropriate period. And I hurt my wife.”

Kirk even told TMZ that Rasheeda is "DONE" with him. This is all reported by TMZ, considered a rumor to me until confirmed. I don't know if she officially left Kirk or not. Probably won't know that until the reunion. The fact that he did this to her on television I think is hardest part for people to understand. Cheating is bad enough but he did it on a grand scale. Guess we'll have wait on the reunion.

Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta airs every Monday @ 8pm on VH1 (Channel 335 on DirecTV)

Sources: VH1 & TMZ

Oh What A Tangled Web We Weave...The Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 1

Alexis Miller is allegedly pregnant and is telling everyone to "Hide their Husbands". Kirk you are such an idiot. You have royally screwed yourself and have embarrassed your wife 30x over.

On MadameNoire.com its being reported that model and self professed lover of married men Alexis Miller was not shy about her recent sexual trist on Monday's episode of LHHATL. She had no regard for a pregnant Rasheeda and her feelings or the fact that Kirk was married. In fact she preferred it that way. In the hot tub she was the main one instigating that Kirk have his fun with them and worry about his wife later. It was disgusting and just flat out wrong.

But Ms. Miller didn't give a damn. After the show aired she was tracked down by "#BlackTwitter" and basically massacred called everything from a hoe to a home wrecker. She defended herself against the flood of hatred she righfully deserved by saying:

“F**k how u feeling cause business is business, its Strictly financial…”
“Best thing to do is fall back Stay in ur lane and ima stay in mine… Cause this not what u want!!!”
“2 for that Team! Lmao guess its ok to kiss once cast member one day then another the next Who’s a h*e again? Ohh right.” “Stop tweeting me just Hide Your Husbands…”
“I’ll be the BAD gyrl…” -See more at: MadameNoire.com

And on top of all of that. There are pictures of Alexis and Rasheeda actually being friendly or rather cordial before all this went down. SMDH.

On the flip end of that HelloBeautiful is reporting [via Mediatakeout] that she telling friends and family that she's PREGNANT. And in talks with the shows producers to get on the show as a part of the storyline for next season. This is alleged and none of it has been confirmed.

Personally this entire story is messed up. Kirk was dead ass wrong for what he did. He has been asked about his alleged cheating in countless interviews and he has dodged answering the questions and even blamed it on something being put in his drink. Ridiculous. Kirk and Rasheeda have been out promoting her song "Hit it from the Back" on popular radio stations around the country. They always say the same thing when asked about the cheating scandal and their relationship. "We're trying to make work." "Kirk has a lot of work to do to get back into my good graces. And he's been trying." Always something along those lines.

As a married woman this kind of behavior by other women doesn't surprise me. I've seen women like that with my husband, just the thrill of being able to take a man from his wife is enthralling to them. That chick Alexis knew what she was doing. She also knew that Kirk was married and Rasheeda was pregnant. And they were somewhat friends. Your trifling and its sad that you could do that to a friend or someone you know.

Money or not, real or not this was broadcasted all over the United States. You look like a tramp that was willing to do anything for fame and fortune. You look like a home wrecker and a hoe. I think this entire thing, encouraging Kirk to cheat by condoning his carefree attitude and her entire attitude toward the situation is a ploy to be a reality star. She wants her own fame and fortune and she had to be the other woman in order to do that. Think about it she said it herself: "This is business. Strictly Financial". I don't know sounds real suspect to me. Mona Scott-Young hasn't said a word about putting the woman on the show but knowing Mona I wouldn't put it past her if she wanted to or did. Because drama pushes ratings and high ratings brings in the money. Point Blank Period!

Kirk if this is real, your bastard and deserve to be by yourself. Rasheeda I hope you get yourself together go back to Deb hire her as your manager and get your music out there for everyone to hear.

Sources: Mediatakeout, HelloBeautiful, WordOnDaStreet, & MadameNoire

Today in the Ratchet Chronicles We Have...The Real Baby Mamas Of Richmond VA? WTF????

Now I know ya'll looking at this blog like for real Tiffany? You joking right? And I can honestly say with my head hung low that NO I AM NOT JOKING THIS IS FOR REAL!!!!

Cast Members of Internet Reality Show

I can't, I don't have much to say.  I know everybody wants to tell their story but are you serious? Instead of the Real Baby Mamas of Richmond, why couldn't it be called the Single Mothers of Richmond or just Single Mothers/Moms whatever something other than baby mama. It just seemed pointless for the show. I understand that every form of a woman should be represented. But not like this.

I'm sorry I just don't like this. I reading some of the comments for this show on YouTube and they were supporting the show. First off all the women have ignorant ass nicknames like Ms. Coco, Ms. Glamor, Big Red, Ms. Drama or the most ghetto nickname of all Ms. Twerk. When the lady begins the show she's showing her kids. She's talking in Ebonics a ghetto form of English. She's showing her children which by the way from what she says they are great kids. Smart, driven, strong kids its just their mother is being exploitative of herself and her children. This is just STUPID! There is no need to showcase the women in Richmond in this way. I'm glad this show isn't a nationally syndicated show and doesn't appear on any network. I just don't want another reality show on TV. Scripted TV shows still exist and honestly they need to start creating more scripted TV shows for real actors. *By the way: No disrespect to NeNe Leakes or anything but the reason why the New Normal didn't last was because of her horrible acting. If they would've chosen someone with serious acting chops or at least some acting skill the show probably would've gotten better reviews and been on longer. I can't be the only one to feel this way but those segments on the show where she was playing her mother and her father. Were absolutely ridiculous. It was something that should've been done, period. Just a MESS. But I digress...

Reality shows like this are stupid. It makes no since to create a show like this and actually put out there for the world to see and then get upset when people judge it. Listen here people I'm not supporting nothing like this ever! If they wants to put this on internet I will never watch this. I got as far as the opening credits of this show and then changed the channel. Oh and another thing you put your children in this show. Never mind the fact that this is on the internet and will never ever be able to be deleted truly. Just thought I would put that out there.

I'm all for showing facets of life and because statistics say that just about 2 out of 5 children come from a single-parent home I can see how this form of parenting can want to be represented but it needs to be done in a better way. In a classier way. Seriously this is terrible and as I said I'm not watching it ever. You can if you like I will put the videos in blog for you to see. Deuces y'all #ICant #Dead #NotaFan

Sources: RealityWives

In Facebook News.....Woman Catches Her Man In Bed with Another Man!

Saw this on Facebook and I just couldn't discuss it here. So here's the skinny:

This man below cheated on his wife with a man while she was at work. 

Check out her recount of the whole ordeal below and then see what I have to say.

HER WORDS ARE HERE BELOW:

This is a real pix. I live in 5 minutes from Atlanta, but I work 2 hours away. A month ago my supervisor let me off early because there was damage to the ceiling from a rain storm.

I walked in my house and saw clothes on the hallway floor. I walked in my bedroom and saw what you are seeing.

The man with the thumb in his mouth is my husband. I have no idea who the other man is. I took this pix with my camera. I did not wake my husband. I just left. He has not seen me since. He has not attempted to call me or even drive to my work place.

My 2 Cents...

This is just sad. As a woman you already have insecurities or are threatened by another woman who is prettier, more confident, the list goes on and on. Now having to deal with men too, is too much. I'm an avid believer in the saying "To Each His Own". I believe who your attracted to is your business. But if your a married man sleeping with men on low, that's messed up. Its difficult for a woman to deal with a man cheating on them with another woman. Your parts are the same, they work, probably so the question is always "What does she have, that I don't?". Its a whole different ball game when you catch your man in bed with another MAN! Nothing that this man has can be provided by a woman. 

How can you be so disrespectful that you would bring another person into your marital home and bed. The nerve of this man to do something so trifling and disrespectful. Then the woman left and never returned home, but the crazy part about that is he never contacted her after that. So no divorce proceedings, no phone calls, no text messages, no nothing. I couldn't believe what I read and saw. Why wouldn't you just divorce your wife and leave it at that? Instead you go out and cheat with another man? Not ACCEPTABLE!

I know some people agree with cheating, but to me cheating is about greed and selfishness. Your not willing to let go of your spouse or partner and let them be free. No you need to hang on to them and bang out on some side piece. Nothing about that says Good Idea! Everything about that screams insecure, selfish, greedy, hurtful; the list goes on and on. It just seems like your trying to punish them. Cheating is a ripple effect of emotion that can turn into a tsunami and consume a person. Some people will forever question every person in their life and never fully trust anyone because of one incident. How powerful is that? 

The woman posted the picture on Facebook to forever put the man on blast for his disrespectful ways. I don't blame her. Honestly what really shocked me the most is that this guy didn't try to track down his wife or even call her after she left without a warning. It worries me when my husband goes to the store up the street! This story is sad and disappointing. I hope and pray that another woman never has to go through this type of idiotic bullshit again. 


Tell me what you think about this story and what would you do if this is what you came home to?

Kirk the Jerk Explains All...Personally I Don't Give A Damn, But I'm a Tell It Anyway

Its no secret that Kirk has been acting like a total JERK toward his pregnant wife Rasheeda and unborn child. Now honestly I'm not a big fan of Rasheeda's but she is a real chick and real recognize real. And in this case I would be a damn fool to side with Kirk. But I'm a break it down for those who are unclear why everyone has been raging against Kirk in this season of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta.

Since the beginning of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta they have not been the perfect couple. In the 1st Season everyone sided with Kirk. Rasheeda was being completely unreasonable with Kirk as her manager. She completely disrespected him by going behind his back and seeking management somewhere else. And on top of all of that she neglected him to focus on what she called her rising career. Personally I thought she was being selfish spoiled and ignorant. She wanted this independent label career and she got it but what was unhappy with the result. Rasheeda wasn't willing to work with Kirk, she expected everything to be completed the way she wanted by Kirk without her being involved behind the scenes. But anyway the problem got resolved and everything was fine or so people thought.

Season 2 begins and I admit I missed many of the episodes but the jest of the situation is Rasheeda is pregnant and the way she told him to me was crazy. She tells she's pregnant like it's a burden and something she didn't want. Which I'm sure in her eyes it was. Her career was beginning to move again and they were making moves in her favor. But none the less she is pregnant. And instead of Kirk consoling his wife and being there for her. You know like saying something along the lines of "Baby I know its something you didn't want right now, but its okay we gone work through it let's try and focus on what we can while your pregnant and put a few other things on hold until you give birth." But Kirk just went off like Rasheeda got pregnant on her own. Telling her to get an abortion and being really just flat out evil towards her. She was holding her own though but it was terrible to see Kirk's stupidity play out on TV like that. Going to Benzino's house with strippers in the background talking about how he pulled out and used condoms. Just a big idiota!



Recently on Streetz Morning Grind, Kirk and Rasheeda stopped by to talk up some of their projects and of course their drama on Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta. Here's some excerpts of what he said:

“I mean if you feeling a certain kind of way…At that moment in time, it was a lot going on. It’s so long to explain. It was one of them things where I was saying what’s on my mind, I was pissed off about a few things. Then Rasheeda mom all in the marriage. I mean I was like ‘Come on, it’s between me and you [Rasheeda.] You paying some bills over here? Let me handle mine.” - See more at: Bossip.com

Rasheeda and Kirk go back forth about the accusations of her cheating (including his admitted infidelity) and Rasheeda explained why she went to see her mother about her relationship with Kirk. When the topic was brought up about the DNA test; he explains it by recalling an DNA test he had with another woman over the paternity of her child who she claimed was his. Here's what he said:

“Here’s an example for me. This is one of my examples. And I know everybody gone be like ‘Ahh, what that got to do with…’ Let’s see, three years ago, all of a sudden, I get a phone call right? Somebody says ‘Yo, I need you to go take a blood test. I think this child may be yours.’ So another man is raising a child, I go take the little swab test, come back and it’s my son. So I found out I had a kid three years ago. But for me, as a guy…You can’t just always believe in what a woman tell you just because [she's your wife.]…Somebody else just raised my kid ’til he was almost 18 years old. He just found out that I’m his father…It’s women in general. You gotta understand…Listen, why not check and make sure a child is yours? Why not?” - See more at: Bossip.com

Here's the interview below:




It's really sad actually. Kirk is an absolute clown. There is no reason for a man to be that old and that stupid. Rasheeda girl you've really bagged a good one, I GUESS. But I'm not hating. Because you know what marriage is hard work. It takes time, dedication, love and trust. A child is a huge responsibility and should never be aborted over anything trivial. It is important that every decision regarding a child is well thought out. If you didn't want a baby then you should've stayed wrapped up at all times. Plenty of performers have gotten pregnant had their children and still been able to do what they do everyday. Its hard true enough but with some clear level headed thinking it can be done.

First off it seems like Waka Flocka's mother Deb knows what she's doing. She told Rasheeda that the video basically looked ratchet with her being pregnant, rapping about hitting it from the back (at least thats what I thought about it and took from what she said). And for the record it was ratchet be it a metaphor or truth. Further more Deb is also right about Rasheeda focusing on the endorsement deals. You can still do meet ups, grand openings, all of that. And your studio time will be focused, you'll have better quality music all that. But Rasheeda is not aware of how to do this on her own and she's making mistakes that can't be undone. I thought the photo shoot was a good idea. But the video was not. She looked pregnant and it just seemed so wrong to shoot a video about sex when your pregnant. I don't know but if I was Rasheeda's manager and I found out she was pregnant I would have made sure she was clear on the circumstances and laid out a clear plan for her while she was pregnant and then after she had the baby about 3 or 4 months depending on she feels then we can start the videos and photo shoots again.

I hope Kirk has been on his hands and knees apologizing to Rasheeda for the stupidity and idiotic attitude he has had lately. He is a true dope and no matter what he says everyone will view him as the biggest jerk in the world. Point, Blank, Period.

Rasheeda I hope everything works out for you, your unborn baby, and dumb ass Kirk too. Girl marriage is a marathon not a sprint probably one of the best things to remember when your in a marriage. Trials and tribulations is par for the course.

Source: Bossip.com

Kordell v. Porsha - Round 2

Well I knew it was coming, it was just a matter of time. According to Bossip [via TMZ], Kordell Stewart has locked his soon to be ex-wife Porsha out of the house and changed the locks!

This divorce between them is getting really ugly. Apparently Porsha had to move in with her mother because Kordell locked Porsha out of the house and changed the locks. Porsha had to ask her attorney to persuade Kordell's people to give her a copy of the key but he won't budge. Porsha has filed new documents in family court asking the judge to force Kordell to ensure she has a key made or fork over some dough so that she can have a suitable residence to live in. But Kordell ain't having it. Recently Porsha tried to be amicable with Kordell but he wouldn't play ball, he called it "a waste of every ones time".

Porsha honey you better do battle. Kordell I don't know what the hell is going and personally I don't care. You wanted a woman who was at home with you and waiting on you, well baby you got it! Your very old fashioned and insecure it seems. Funny now you blindside this woman publicly with this divorce and refuse to pay her any alimony or anything. Porsha you need to pull yourself together. Fight for everything you deserve. The judge should and probably will side with you. Kordell wanted a stay at home wife and he got it.

Porsha you need to further your education in media since you are a reality star. Go another route beyond what most reality stars do (beyond the clothing lines, cosmetics, shoes, etc). Find a niche in television that you like. Be it in front or behind the camera. You'd be a great TV personality. Seriously, I think you need clean Kordell out! Get everything you can out of this divorce and then move on with your life.

Good Luck Porsha!

Source: Bossip.com & TMZ.com

Mimi's Pulling a Kenya?! Well Nikko's Talking And You'd Be Surprised What He Has to Say...

Mimi Faust & Ex-Boyfriend Nikko

Well the BlogSphere is all a buzz this morning because apparently Mimi and her boyfriend of almost a year Nikko have broken up. Many bloggers are saying the relationship was fake from the start! Just in time for the premiere of Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta next week. Mimi has apparently gone back to her on again, off again boyfriend Stevie J. 

Well the left out party of this love quad (Constant circle between Joseline, Stevie J, & Mimi) is Nikko. And he is not happy. In a interview on March 5 with S2SMagazine.com, he is setting the record straight about the gay rumors that were allegedly started by K. Michelle and his issue with her. He claimed that K. Michelle was jealous and didn't want to see Mimi happy. 

Hmm...My Oh, Oh My, have the tides changed. Ms. Mimi decided to break up her wonderful, happy relationship with Nikko and go back to the dysfunction that is...the Almighty (and I use that term very LOOSELY) Stevie J!  They broke up last month and Nikko has decided to talk about it. According to HelloBeautiful.com, Nikko is crushed by their recent breakup. In a report done by SandraRose, Nikko told his friends and family that he feels betrayed and humiliated by Mimi. Here's a quote of his exact words via HelloBeautiful.com:

“Now he knows the show is scripted; it’s not reality,” says the source who added, “Nikko feels betrayed.”

“Now he thinks [Mimi] was playing him or she’s just playing stupid,” said my source. 

I'm sure all of this will play out on the show, well part of it! What do I think about this? Well I knew that she was going back to Stevie J it was just a matter of time. I didn't think it would happen so soon though. I thought things would go sour with him, Che Mack (and somebody tell me where the hell that chick came from? she is one weird looking broad) and Joseline. And then he would be crawling back to Mimi again and like a sap she'll take him back. 

Mimi Faust & Current Boyfriend Stevie J

Unless Mimi is willing to accept the fact that Stevie J is always and I mean always going to sleep around, then she will forever be trapped in this nonsense. Now if she accepts that's who he is and wants him anyway than well I can't be mad at her. I know ya'll probably like WHAT?! Well let me explain. If she goes into the situation with her eyes open she can no longer play victim and just has to accept what ever comes her way.

As far as her and Nikko goes, yeah he got played like a sucker. According to SandraRose.com Nikko feels like Stevie J and Mimi never broke up. It was just a stunt to boost the ratings of the show. He even went further to say that Stevie J's relationship with Joseline was fake. And Mona Scott is the puppet master behind the scenes. I can believe it. It sounds plausible and if you manipulate things enough you can make it appear to be reality.

Poor Nikko. Next time you'll be more careful.

Cardinal Rule #135: Never Date a Reality Star. How would you know if they truly want you or not? They could simply be using you for their show or to get one.

Listen up Nikko! If you feel as though you were played then 99% of the time you were. I feel bad for you. But here's some free advice: Move on, don't dwell on it. Seriously Nikko its not worth it. Your a very attractive guy. Plenty of Fish in the SEA!

Besides When You Look Like This:

YOU WON'T BE SINGLE FOR LONG, TRUST!!!!!!!

Sources: SandraRose.com, HelloBeautiful.com, & S2SMagazine.com

K. Michelle is Leaving Love & Hip Hop: ATL!

K. Michelle claims she's tired of the drama on Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta. And on several occasions she has mentioned that this season will be her last on the hard hitting reality drama. During a DC concert K. Michelle made a big announcement about her departure and had a little message for her co-stars as well. Here's what she said via Madamenoire.com: 

“I’m announcing that, I won’t be on ‘Love & Hip Hop’…I just feel like when God is brining you to the positive, it’s very hard to say ‘Thank you Jesus and f**k you b****es’,” she told fans during a D.C. concert. 

Read more at http://madamenoire.com/272533/k-michelle-nabs-spin-off-with-vh1/#1gXjTx8gq5zFWmAq.99 

There was a rumor that K. Michelle was getting her own show on VH1 and she confirmed that on a radio station during an interview in February via Madamenoire.com:

“God is just bringing me to a whole different place. My mouth is still bad. I drink and act a fool. But, I just don’t think that [Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta] is where I need to be. I do have my own show coming on VH1. You guys are gonna like that one a lot. You really are,” she said before going into her popular “I Just Wanna F**k” track.
Read more at http://madamenoire.com/272533/k-michelle-nabs-spin-off-with-vh1/#1gXjTx8gq5zFWmAq.99 

Its also being reported by theJasmineBrand, that K. Michelle (as well as Lil Scrappy & Karlie Redd) was a no show to a premiere party for Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta Season 2.

K. Michelle...K. Michelle, oh lawd you are just a mess but I love that about you! Listen, I actually dig K. Michelle. She's brash, outlandish, and her mouth has no filter. But thats one of the things I love about her. She's an awesome singer and entertainer. But sometimes if people don't understand it they will get offended. I just think she needs to tone it down for a little bit. Her strong opinion and I don't care attitude is what making her look like a true "villain" on the show. Most of the time the things she says are true and need to be said but she doesn't sugar coat what she says it just comes out and you have to accept it regardless. 

I'm glad she's moving on. It really doesn't do her justice to be on the show. Its a messy show with a lot of drama and back biting. If it was scripted it would be a show that you watch like Scandal or the Good Wife. But because its reality it really does look BAD! On Mona Scott for putting it out there and for the cast members of the show. Case in point: When Flavor of Love and I Love New York were popular it was because of the devious nature of these people to win. They were never in love with the man or the woman of the show. They were in love with being on tv. It got so bad that VH1 shied away from those types of shows and began what I call the "Housewive/Frenemy" format. Throw a set group of people into a situation some of them are around each other on occasion, others are meeting for the first time. And just let them have it out. Force them to throw a few parties, go on vacation together and just let the cameras roll. People would believe it more if these people were TRUE friends. For them to turn on each other the way they do I don't think they were ever real friends. 

K. Michelle, Im glad this show is all about you and no one else. It should chronicle your love life and career. Just get away from Rasheeda, Mimi and the other women (no offense to any of them but you guys have to admit that mixing K. Michelle in with those women is a recipe for disaster). Do your thing, which is music. I can't wait for the album and the show. 

Good Luck K.K. and in your words "Rock Out wit Yo Cock Out" LMAO!

Sources: MadameNoire.com & TheJasmineBrand.com

Tyrese is Putting All Us Fatties on Notice!

Apparently Tyrese knows the key to losing weight! Its no special potion or magic wand that people can wave to make it disappear. Unfortunately it takes dedication, hard work, and strong will, to those of us who are lazy those are daggers in our heart LMAO. Tyrese had some pretty strong statements about people who are fat and consistently complain about it. Here's what he said: 

"If you are fat and nasty and you don’t like the way you look, do something about it. It’s simple," said the well-sculpted actor, adding in detail:

"When you take a shower and you put your fat, nasty body in the shower and by the time you get out, the mirrors are all steamed up so you don’t look at what you did to yourself.

"That may sound offensive or insensitive but ultimately, you are big as hell because you have earned that s-it. You worked your ass off to eat everything in sight to get big as hell.

"If you got a problem with the way you look, then you need to do something about it. Excuses sound best to the people that’s making them up."

See more at: http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2013/04/tyrese-blasts-fat-people-its-your-fault/#sthash.p4FOon9F.dpuf

The question everyone is asking is: Was he out of line for what he said? Are you offended? The answer is No. Surprisingly I am not offended. In a sense he is very right. In my case I have gained weight and I have tried to lose it in many ways. I am lazy though and idiotically enough I expect miracles after one day of exercising. I understand that it is my fault why I am the way that I am. I don't blame anyone but myself. 

Could it have been said better? Yea I'm sure it could have. I'm not going to lie it hurt me. It stung a little bit when I read it. I'm guessing he's just tired of hearing the complaints from everyone about their weight. Many people don't understand that the issue is not always over eating. People always associate obesity = overeating. Not so. 

Listen as long as he meant no malice in what he was saying I'm not mad at him. He feels strong about it and that's okay. 



But listen to me when I say this: I will not lose weight just to appease you or anyone else. I'm not saying I'm going to kill myself because I want to make a point either. I'm simply saying that I am not trying to make you happy with my looks and body. You can either not look or simply deal. Oh and another thing. The weight will not come off in a day. So if I eat right and exercise yet your still running your mouth about my weight don't get upset when I run down your flaws. Or if you piss me off enough you might get knocked the HELL OUT! #imjustsayin #andimthrough






Source: TheHollywoodGossip.com

DJ Clue's Been Arrested?! SMDH Seriously Though?

Interesting famous longtime Hip Hop tycoon DJ Clue was arrested early Wednesday morning for criminal possession of a controlled substance and aggravated unlicensed operator of a vehicle. DJ Clue's license had been suspended when he was pulled over in Manhattan. 

DJ Clue was stopped at a checkpoint. They ran a background check and found out that his license had been suspended proceeded to arrest him, searched his vehicle and found 3 unmarked pill on his person. 

He was set to appear in court later on Wednesday evening. 

Source: Wonderwall.com

Update on RHOA Divorce: Porsha Fires Back!

This divorce between Kordell and Porsha is getting worse. Porsha is fighting back and she's gut punching that fool! She filed papers in court to get the house and alimony. Kordell had already filed a document with his divorce documents, in court saying that she was able bodied and didn't need support of any kind. Newsone.com reports Porsha and her legal team claim that Porsha gave up her life/career. Devoted herself to him and to being a stepmother for his son from a previous relationship. While Kordell was deceiving and conniving about divorcing Porsha. Porsha was committed to working on their marriage and remained loyal.

There are so many different reports it's hard to keep this story straight. First I was researching to find an update on Porsha and Kordell's divorce I found several reports that they are reconciling. What?! Reconciling after all that, that can't be true. There was one report saying that Kordell is divorcing her because she can't get pregnant. WOW! I hope that this is not true. Because if it is that would be the most despicable and disgusting thing I have heard. Then I read another report saying that Kordell had a new woman just days after the divorce! OMG! You can't be serious!

Let me put this way: I don't know one way or the other if these reports are actually true. I'm going play devils advocate here and say that they are all false and this divorce is happening. Kordell and Porsha are going to fight naturally because of the way this divorce went down. I hope Kordell does right by Porsha.

My initial thoughts of Porsha was that she was naive and inexperienced. That hasn't changed and but this will give her the opportunity to be stronger and become wiser. I think being on the show will really give Porsha the time she needs to find herself. It's sad that it had to happen this way but  things happen for reason. And now its time for Porsha to stop walking in Kordell's shadow and stand on her own two feet. It'll be a liberating experience and she'll never want to go back to being subservient. I promise you that!

Source: Newone.com

Love & Hip Hop: ATL is Returning in April!

I can admit when Love & Hip Hop initially came out I was not a fan. I didn't understand the reasoning for the show. It looked very staged and unreal. It still does.
 But after Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta reared its ugly head last season I became hooked on it. I watched it faithfully. I couldn't believe the drama that unfolded on that show. The blatant disrespect and constant lying, it just unreal. Now the that Love & Hip Hop: NY is over, Season 2 of Love & Hip Hop: ATL is about to start!

Here's the trailer (Via MadameNoire.com) ya'll its JUICY:

Get More: Love & Hip Hop Atlanta

Source: MadameNoire.com

Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta Premiere's April 22, 2013 @ 8pm on Vh1

SWV Gets a Reality Show!

Like many former R&B artists and current R&B artists. SWV "Sisters With Voices" seems to in talks with WEtv network to get their own reality show. SWV is an R&B power group from the 90s. They were responsible for hits like "Right Here" a remake of Michael Jackson's Human Nature, "I'm So Into You", "Weak", "Rain", "You're Always On My Mind", "Downtown" & "Anything". 

Coko, "Taj" Tamara Johnson-George, & Leanne "Lelee" Lyons the original and only members of SWV disbanded in 1998 to pursue personal projects. Coko pursued a promising and somewhat stagnant career in gospel music (which was the groups original direction), Taj Tamar Johnson-George married then Tennessee Titan football player Eddie George, starred in a 2 reality shows Survivor: Tocantins, and I Married a Baller, Leanne "Lelee" Lyons pursued music and personal endeavors. 

The show is going to chronicle the groups return to music and the reasoning for their initial breakup. The show is produced by eOne Entertainment group. Its rumored that WEtv would be the network to run the show but according to RealityFab.com nothing is being confirmed or denied about the shows run. 

SWV has already shot the pilot for the show last fall. Hopefully a release date will be set and the show will run. 

I'm PUMPED about this! I've expressed my severe disdain for reality tv on many occasions but in this case I'm excited, I loved SWV as a kid. I'm a 90s kid so music for me was the New Jack Swing style R&B and the transition of Hip Hop/Rap from gangster life to fun party music. And SWV was the most successful R&B group of their time. They were better than Xscape, Brownstone, Jade, 702, Changing Faces, and Total. That's just my opinion not knocking the other groups, I'm just making a personal statement. They had the harmony, melody, the look, and they were just FREAKING AWESOME! I can't wait until they come out with their television show! 

If they do have the show on WEtv they will join the Braxtons and Mary Mary as alums on the network. WEtv is building a superior lineup of reality shows and turning into a female powerhouse for reality TV. Keep it Up WEtv, I'll be watching for sure.

No word on when the show is set to be released. If the network like the pilot I expect the show to run promos and be released later on this year or next year. This is just a guess!

SWV released an album in 2011 called I Missed Us. Its available now on iTunes, Amazon.com, and Google Play! 

Source: RealityFab.com

Unbelievable! Aries Spears Gives Custody of His Son to His Estranged Wife

Aries Spears reportedly relinquished full custody of his son to his soon to be ex-wife Elisa Larregui. Apparently this occurred after a domestic dispute between the estranged couple. Elisa and Aries have been married for a little more than 2 years. Their relationship according to his wife was less than perfect. She alleges that Aries swung a bat at her (nearly killing her) recently during a spat the couple was having. She also claimed that Aries was verbally abusive to her child from a previous relationship. 

Aries Spears has been court ordered to stay at least 100 yards away from his estranged wife and children. Elisa filed for divorce last month and has plans to move to Florida which Mr. Spears will paying for. Her reasoning for divorce is "irreconcilable differences".  A common reasoning for divorce in Hollywood. 

Aries Spears lawyer released a statement saying (via NewsOne.com):

“The family is mending and for the moment, they have chosen to place some distance between themselves. Aries and Elisa have been communicating peaceably and have worked things out between themselves. Aries looks forward to spending quality time with his son.”

I'm glad things are working out for him. I'm a big fan of Aries Spears, I think he's hilarious. But its unfortunate that he and his ex-wife have to go through this problems. I don't know what he was thinking with the bat situation, if that's true. If it is that's messed up. I hope that he's communicating with his ex-wife peacefully and worked everything out. For the sake of the kids, I hope he gets himself together so that he doesn't react like this again if put in the same situation. 

Good luck to you Aries and Elisa! I hope everything works out with you and your kids. 

Source: NewsOne.com

Janet Hubert Ain't Having! She Served Wendy Williams!

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Wendy Williams is no stranger to controversy. In fact there are several popular artists and actors that refuse to appear on her show because of her keen ability to spew stupidity and spread vicious rumors. As a result she has made herself a very controversial figure in pop culture amongst celebs and fans.

Now Wendy is feuding with Janet Hubert. If don't know who she is, she was the original Aunt Vivian a.k.a. Aunt Viv on Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. Its no secret that Janet Hubert was a huge part of the shows success and when she was replaced it was hard to get used to the new Aunt Vivian. Honestly, I lost interest in the show when she left. I felt like it lacked something.

This one-sided feud started because of an appearance made by Tatyana Ali on Wendy's show. She
appeared to talk to Wendy about rumors of her dating Drake and one night stands. But Wendy changed the convo to her child star days on Fresh Prince of Bel-Air,  listen to the interview below:




Janet Hubert was not pleased with the interview and she took to her Facebook and BlogTalkRadi.com to express her frustrations in letter form (via NewsOne.com):

Dear Wiggy, I’m sorry, Wendy,

Recently, you found the need to put an end to the mystery surrounding my departure from a show that I did so damn long ago that I don’t even remember why I departed.

Wendy Williams, or whatever you are supposed to be, I’m not quite sure. I’m writing you yet again, to appeal to your sense of womanhood or manhood as some suggest. Please close your mouth about things that you know nothing of.

Now, I watched your show to see dear Tatyana Ali sadly to say, fall into your trap. She even brought pictures of our days on the show from the Fresh Prince of Bel Air. You know most people watch you just to see what heinous things your mouth will say compared to what an overflowing volcano will spew forth on that day.

Now perhaps other black women have allowed you to berate them and continued to support you in this manner of madness and rewarding hatefulness. It seems to become the norm and has taken over our society completely. But I, Janet Hubert, sat there and watched you tell the world that I was not a nice mother. I’m thinking to myself, the only person who has the right to say that is my child. So I sat there and watched you like some devilish sinkhole swallow up Tatyana Ali. You reduced her to a child sitting their tempting to keep some symbolism of dignity about her as you pried and invaded her life until you got what you wanted.

You are such a demon Wendy. You are wicked, awful, conniving, sinister, spiteful, jealous of every other woman. Simply put, Wendy you are a virus. You are not nor have you ever been a true woman. It seems as though your audience thirsts for the blood of others, as they are prompted to clap and hoop and holler at your shows and wigs and clothes.

Girl you will have some stars on your show and demean them before they even make it back home. I just would like to know who died and told you that you were reborn as Oprah. You want to be Oprah so bad that you would kill for it and you will kill anyone to achieve success. Sister, you will never be another Oprah. Oprah lifted her audience up and exuded an air of class.

But you know what Wendy, you are not even in my league. It is so beneath me to even bother with someone like you, but you asked for it. Didn’t nobody tell you to say my name on your show? You will not destroy all of the hard work that I went through for the last decade to clear my good name. I simply will not allow you to do so. I’m a lady and a real one. Wendy girlfriend you just messed with the wrong sista.

Now it’s funny for all that you and the world claim that I’ve done, I should have my own show like you. Darling there is nothing that I could have ever done in this lifetime in my career that would equal the vulgarity and ugliness and hatred that you spew on your show in one single day.

So, here is my advice to you Wendy. I want to help you. Learn to sit in a chair and stop fidgeting with yourself on camera. Wipe your giant teeth off camera, and don’t smear the spit on the chair. Please put some sweat pits under your arms, and darling if your sweater is pulling until there are lines across your chest, its too tight. You might want to deflate those tremendous breast. Take off the fake blonde hair. You have to stop playing the race card because you are coming off like a want to be white girl who will never be white.

Now, I have never seen anything besides hogs slobber at the mere mention of food, so I question your humanism at times. I have never seen a display of such self-hatred.

Just a couple more suggestions for you, please would you stop dissing all of us who’ve embraced our natural hair as many others and I have? And yes Wendy natural hair does belong on the red carpet whether you like it or not.

I kind of feel sorry for you. You sit there on your big-footed tacky throne everyday while millions of people are laughing at you not with you. There is a big difference. Nobody cares about what you think about his or her lives. But we do care about what you put out there about us. My heart saddens that women, especially black women, have embraced her evil after all of our struggles in society. You and your kind have set us back a hundred years or so. How dare you chastise anyone when you are such a travesty?

Now take that, chew it my dear and stick it on your lord have mercy you are disgusting fly ridden gum wall. And that’s the advice I have for you my sister.

Peace. 

 

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I feel Ms. Hubert somewhat on what she was saying but she kind of painted Tatyana as a helpless child who didn't know what to say or how to respond. I felt like Tatyana answered the questions and really turned the interview back around to something positive. She worked the interview properly and didn't speak bad of anyone or anything about Fresh Prince of Bel-Air. This was so long ago and its obvious its still a sore subject for Ms. Hubert. I would hope that one day all can be forgiven so that everyone can rest easy. I think that holding on to grudges does nothing for you its just feeds into your enemies ego and pride everyday sucking you dry. L.I.G it Ms. Hubert with all due respect if you haven't already done so, please just let it go!

As for Wendy, she's been a drama queen her entire career. She's not going to stop. She feeds off of Gossip and hearsay. Let her have her moment. Don't respond to that craziness cause you do nothing but give what she wants. She likes seeing her name in the papers, social media blogs, etc. Any good PR rep would say all publicity is good publicity. So let her have it. If people stop responding to her ignorance then eventually she'll fade away or at least stick to the truth instead of fabricating stories.

Janet Hubert I was a huge fan of yours on Fresh Prince of Bel-Air and if I was a producer of a television show I would definitely put you in for a role. I think you were and are underrated.

*On a Positive Note: 

My favorite Fresh Prince of Bel-Air episode with Ms. Janet Hubert was the one where she turned 40 and wanted to pursue her dream to become a dancer.

This is the best video I've found on the net for it. Enjoy!

Source: NewsOne.com & BlogTalkRadio.com