Showing posts with label Domestic Dispute. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Domestic Dispute. Show all posts

Friday, 28 June 2013

Kirk the Jerk Explains All...Personally I Don't Give A Damn, But I'm a Tell It Anyway

Its no secret that Kirk has been acting like a total JERK toward his pregnant wife Rasheeda and unborn child. Now honestly I'm not a big fan of Rasheeda's but she is a real chick and real recognize real. And in this case I would be a damn fool to side with Kirk. But I'm a break it down for those who are unclear why everyone has been raging against Kirk in this season of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta.


Since the beginning of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta they have not been the perfect couple. In the 1st Season everyone sided with Kirk. Rasheeda was being completely unreasonable with Kirk as her manager. She completely disrespected him by going behind his back and seeking management somewhere else. And on top of all of that she neglected him to focus on what she called her rising career. Personally I thought she was being selfish spoiled and ignorant. She wanted this independent label career and she got it but what was unhappy with the result. Rasheeda wasn't willing to work with Kirk, she expected everything to be completed the way she wanted by Kirk without her being involved behind the scenes. But anyway the problem got resolved and everything was fine or so people thought.

Season 2 begins and I admit I missed many of the episodes but the jest of the situation is Rasheeda is pregnant and the way she told him to me was crazy. She tells she's pregnant like it's a burden and something she didn't want. Which I'm sure in her eyes it was. Her career was beginning to move again and they were making moves in her favor. But none the less she is pregnant. And instead of Kirk consoling his wife and being there for her. You know like saying something along the lines of "Baby I know its something you didn't want right now, but its okay we gone work through it let's try and focus on what we can while your pregnant and put a few other things on hold until you give birth." But Kirk just went off like Rasheeda got pregnant on her own. Telling her to get an abortion and being really just flat out evil towards her. She was holding her own though but it was terrible to see Kirk's stupidity play out on TV like that. Going to Benzino's house with strippers in the background talking about how he pulled out and used condoms. Just a big idiota!



Recently on Streetz Morning Grind, Kirk and Rasheeda stopped by to talk up some of their projects and of course their drama on Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta. Here's some excerpts of what he said:
“I mean if you feeling a certain kind of way…At that moment in time, it was a lot going on. It’s so long to explain. It was one of them things where I was saying what’s on my mind, I was pissed off about a few things. Then Rasheeda mom all in the marriage. I mean I was like ‘Come on, it’s between me and you [Rasheeda.] You paying some bills over here? Let me handle mine.” - See more at: Bossip.com
Rasheeda and Kirk go back forth about the accusations of her cheating (including his admitted infidelity) and Rasheeda explained why she went to see her mother about her relationship with Kirk. When the topic was brought up about the DNA test; he explains it by recalling an DNA test he had with another woman over the paternity of her child who she claimed was his. Here's what he said:
“Here’s an example for me. This is one of my examples. And I know everybody gone be like ‘Ahh, what that got to do with…’ Let’s see, three years ago, all of a sudden, I get a phone call right? Somebody says ‘Yo, I need you to go take a blood test. I think this child may be yours.’ So another man is raising a child, I go take the little swab test, come back and it’s my son. So I found out I had a kid three years ago. But for me, as a guy…You can’t just always believe in what a woman tell you just because [she's your wife.]…Somebody else just raised my kid ’til he was almost 18 years old. He just found out that I’m his father…It’s women in general. You gotta understand…Listen, why not check and make sure a child is yours? Why not?” - See more at: Bossip.com
Here's the interview below:




It's really sad actually. Kirk is an absolute clown. There is no reason for a man to be that old and that stupid. Rasheeda girl you've really bagged a good one, I GUESS. But I'm not hating. Because you know what marriage is hard work. It takes time, dedication, love and trust. A child is a huge responsibility and should never be aborted over anything trivial. It is important that every decision regarding a child is well thought out. If you didn't want a baby then you should've stayed wrapped up at all times. Plenty of performers have gotten pregnant had their children and still been able to do what they do everyday. Its hard true enough but with some clear level headed thinking it can be done.

First off it seems like Waka Flocka's mother Deb knows what she's doing. She told Rasheeda that the video basically looked ratchet with her being pregnant, rapping about hitting it from the back (at least thats what I thought about it and took from what she said). And for the record it was ratchet be it a metaphor or truth. Further more Deb is also right about Rasheeda focusing on the endorsement deals. You can still do meet ups, grand openings, all of that. And your studio time will be focused, you'll have better quality music all that. But Rasheeda is not aware of how to do this on her own and she's making mistakes that can't be undone. I thought the photo shoot was a good idea. But the video was not. She looked pregnant and it just seemed so wrong to shoot a video about sex when your pregnant. I don't know but if I was Rasheeda's manager and I found out she was pregnant I would have made sure she was clear on the circumstances and laid out a clear plan for her while she was pregnant and then after she had the baby about 3 or 4 months depending on she feels then we can start the videos and photo shoots again.

I hope Kirk has been on his hands and knees apologizing to Rasheeda for the stupidity and idiotic attitude he has had lately. He is a true dope and no matter what he says everyone will view him as the biggest jerk in the world. Point, Blank, Period.

Rasheeda I hope everything works out for you, your unborn baby, and dumb ass Kirk too. Girl marriage is a marathon not a sprint probably one of the best things to remember when your in a marriage. Trials and tribulations is par for the course.

Source: Bossip.com

Tuesday, 18 June 2013

Drake v. Chris Brown No More! Drake Wants to Talk it Out! Time for Peace

Now usually I'm all for the drama. But in this case I'm tired of it! Chris Brown and Drake have been feuding over Rihanna and other DISS topics for years and its getting old. Chris tried to extend an olive branch once before but Drake wasn't having it and feud continued. Now Drake is on the giving end, he's officially ready to talk it out with Chris and end their feud. Although there have been reports that Chris Brown has said that he will continue to blast Drake, I don't believe that. I believe after he was denied the peace the first time Chris is not going to be suckered into no pissing match with anyone again. The last time that happened people were injured and people sued! Drake has also said that he doesn't want another confrontation, but if he it happens he's not going to back down.


Never the less I think a sit down is a great idea. These two guys are the biggest stars on the planet right now. Fortunately it wouldn't be nothing just say "Look lets let by bygones be bygones and start fresh. No diss tracks, no ill talk in the media nothing. Let's just do what we do best and work on building a friendship. If there is no friendship to be had then let's be professional and cordial. I respect you and you respect me." That's how you do it. Real Men, don't fight over a Woman. I'm sorry but there are millions of women in the world and as far as I'm concerned Rihanna was not the one for either one of you. It's time for y'all to grow up! Stop acting like cavemen and act like the gentlemen I know you both can be.




June Issue of GQ: Drake Clean Cut, LOVE IT!
Drake, I just want to say this to you whether you read this or not. You are a man of many talents your music is awesome (sometimes) and I can listen to just about all of your albums all day long. But your attitude sucks. I don't know if that's how people are portraying you or if this is how you present yourself to the world but I feel like you need to have some humility. The first time you were in GQ magazine I was stoked! I was like YES! One of my favorite rappers/actors is in my favorite men's fashion magazine. I'm copping it 100%! Then I get it on my iPad and you look GOOD, nice smile, scruffy hair but that's OK lol, and you had a on a good looking suit. So far so good right? But then I read your interview and every other word was Mutha****** this and S*** that. It was horrible. Listen as a black man you have too many strikes against you. There is a way to conduct yourself in public. Don't act like your mother didn't teach you any manners. Conduct yourself like a gentlemen, act all times. Its time out for this rude rapper persona. Lil Wayne, brilliant artist but no one is going to tolerate that thug mentality all the time (let's hope in this month's issue of GQ you have curbed that). You have to EVOLVE. You idolize Jay-Z then take your cues from him. Do you see him cussing and acting like he ain't got no home training? No! Jay-Z conducts himself like a well educated business man, because that's what he is PERIOD. I think you trying to end this drama between you and Chris is a great idea. But you are just now seeing the light. You did an interview on the radio a couple months ago blasting the man. So I wouldn't expect the sit down to happen any time soon. You should've done this a while ago instead holding on to your ego like its prize to be won. Just L.I.G. it Drake. It's time to grow up.

January Issue of XXL Magazine: Chris Brown, It's Hot!!
Chris, I think your music is awesome. But you also have work to do. I was watching Fuse a couple days ago and you were answering questions (on the set of Tanks new video Shots Fired) about people taking shots at you through the social/media. It amazed me how you said you didn't care about it. You have made some questionable decisions in your youth. Decisions that you will probably have to pay for the rest of your life. It's time to just accept it. Don't get me wrong I think you have grown so much and you've tried to shake that image that people have of you. Its been a long hard road. You owned up to your mistakes and you've continued to pay the price for what happened between you and Rihanna. It's sad but true. As a man you need to let it go with Drake. Stop and think for a second, Drake would never have been able to be with Rihanna unless she welcomed it. Nobody ever steals a mate, they usually go willingly. You have to understand that that was a long time ago. Your feelings, Drake's and Rihanna's have changed drastically. You need to make up with him not for the world or him but for yourself. When you carry around all that hatred, it takes its toll on your body and mind. It affects you. Its a burden that doesn't need to be carried. Just forgive, don't forget. Start fresh with Drake. You don't have to be buddy buddy, but I think you should at least make an effort to squash this ridiculous feud between you two.


There is no need for this to even be going on. Hip Hop and R&B are so competitive. Why can't you guys work together like Country Western artists do. Most of them are really good friends with each other. They work well with each other. Its so simple and easy to do. And by the way all of them, all of them have their multi-platinum albums, Grammy awards, and world wide tours just like you. Trust me being civil towards each other is the best route to go. It will be better than the alternative: being thrown out or banned from clubs for fighting, being sued for damages, constantly having to answer questions about your feud, debating whether your going to an event because the other guy might be there, constantly being angry for NOTHING, never ending media amping up the feud, etc. Just L.I.G. it! For Real!

I say these things out of love for the both of you. I don't think I can go a day without either one of your music on my phone, computer, iPad or iPod. I listen both of you at least once a day both old and new music (including mixtapes). Seriously I wish you both the best of luck and I hope that you two work it out!

Source: RollingOut.com

Monday, 20 May 2013

Kordell v. Porsha - Round 2

Well I knew it was coming, it was just a matter of time. According to Bossip [via TMZ], Kordell Stewart has locked his soon to be ex-wife Porsha out of the house and changed the locks!


This divorce between them is getting really ugly. Apparently Porsha had to move in with her mother because Kordell locked Porsha out of the house and changed the locks. Porsha had to ask her attorney to persuade Kordell's people to give her a copy of the key but he won't budge. Porsha has filed new documents in family court asking the judge to force Kordell to ensure she has a key made or fork over some dough so that she can have a suitable residence to live in. But Kordell ain't having it. Recently Porsha tried to be amicable with Kordell but he wouldn't play ball, he called it "a waste of every ones time".



Porsha honey you better do battle. Kordell I don't know what the hell is going and personally I don't care. You wanted a woman who was at home with you and waiting on you, well baby you got it! Your very old fashioned and insecure it seems. Funny now you blindside this woman publicly with this divorce and refuse to pay her any alimony or anything. Porsha you need to pull yourself together. Fight for everything you deserve. The judge should and probably will side with you. Kordell wanted a stay at home wife and he got it.
Porsha you need to further your education in media since you are a reality star. Go another route beyond what most reality stars do (beyond the clothing lines, cosmetics, shoes, etc). Find a niche in television that you like. Be it in front or behind the camera. You'd be a great TV personality. Seriously, I think you need clean Kordell out! Get everything you can out of this divorce and then move on with your life.

Good Luck Porsha!


Source: Bossip.com & TMZ.com

Sunday, 21 April 2013

Televanglist & "Prophet" Juanita Bynum was Arrested!

The prophetess known as Juanita Bynum was arrested in Dallas Thursday night. Ms. Bynum was being sued by play promoter Al Wash of ALW Entertainment. She received a $100,000 pay out to appear in the play. She took the money but failed to appear in the play. Al Walsh sued and won a recovery of $140,000. She was ordered to begin making payments and she defaulted. After Juanita Bynum missed a scheduled court appearance to explain her failure to make payments, a warrant was issued for her arrest and she was then arrested.

Juanita Bynum has divulged to Wash's attorney's her assets and her business dealings. Which is a sign that payments will follow.




Mugshot of Ms. Juanita Bynum's Arrest
This is really sad because she had a really great ministry going. She was very good at singing god's word as well as preaching the word. But after that fiasco with her husband (abuse) hit the news and the fact that she was claiming she was a prophet, that was beginning of her demise. Then obviously business began to pick up again. She was asked to star in a play and was paid $100,000 to do it. But she reneged on the deal and ended doing time for it. I don't understand why she didn't do the play or what happened. None of that was explained in the report. Were there creative differences? I don't know. But taking money and not following through on your end of the deal is pretty messed up. Considering your a public figure for God and everyone is going to judge and scrutinize you. I hope Ms. Bynum pulls it together. Prayer and a whole lot of humility is in order!


Source: Madamenoire.com

Saturday, 30 March 2013

Unbelievable! Aries Spears Gives Custody of His Son to His Estranged Wife




Aries Spears reportedly relinquished full custody of his son to his soon to be ex-wife Elisa Larregui. Apparently this occurred after a domestic dispute between the estranged couple. Elisa and Aries have been married for a little more than 2 years. Their relationship according to his wife was less than perfect. She alleges that Aries swung a bat at her (nearly killing her) recently during a spat the couple was having. She also claimed that Aries was verbally abusive to her child from a previous relationship. 


Aries Spears has been court ordered to stay at least 100 yards away from his estranged wife and children. Elisa filed for divorce last month and has plans to move to Florida which Mr. Spears will paying for. Her reasoning for divorce is "irreconcilable differences".  A common reasoning for divorce in Hollywood. 

Aries Spears lawyer released a statement saying (via NewsOne.com):
“The family is mending and for the moment, they have chosen to place some distance between themselves. Aries and Elisa have been communicating peaceably and have worked things out between themselves. Aries looks forward to spending quality time with his son.”

I'm glad things are working out for him. I'm a big fan of Aries Spears, I think he's hilarious. But its unfortunate that he and his ex-wife have to go through this problems. I don't know what he was thinking with the bat situation, if that's true. If it is that's messed up. I hope that he's communicating with his ex-wife peacefully and worked everything out. For the sake of the kids, I hope he gets himself together so that he doesn't react like this again if put in the same situation. 

Good luck to you Aries and Elisa! I hope everything works out with you and your kids. 

Source: NewsOne.com