OMG! In Gross News...Pedophiles and SOME Psychiatrists Are Asking for the Same Rights As Homosexuals?!

Hurbert Van Gijseghem, psychologist and
retired professor
of the University of Montreal

This is probably one of the most disgusting and downright creepy blogs I will ever write. I was on Facebook this morning trolling through my timeline and I came across a news article about Pedophiles fighting to be able to legally have sex with children. Their claim is that their "lifestyle" should be considered a sexual orientation not a crime. Here's an excerpt from the article that I want you guys to see so its going to in BIG BOLD LETTERS, here it is:

In 1998 The APA issued a report claiming “that the ‘negative potential’ of adult sex with children was ‘overstated’ and that ‘the vast majority of both men and women reported no negative sexual effects from childhood sexual abuse experiences.”

When asked if he should be comparing pedophiles to homosexuals, Van Gijseghem replied, “If, for instance, you were living in a society where heterosexuality is proscribed or prohibited and you were told that you had to get therapy to change your sexual orientation, you would probably say that that is slightly crazy. In other words, you would not accept that at all. I use this analogy to say that, yes indeed, pedophiles do not change their sexual orientation.”

The IASHS lists, on its website, a list of “basic sexual rights” that includes “the right to engage in sexual acts or activities of any kind whatsoever, providing they do not involve nonconsensual acts, violence, constraint, coercion or fraud.” Another right is to, “be free of persecution, condemnation, discrimination, or societal intervention in private sexual behavior” and “the freedom of any sexual thought, fantasy or desire.” The organization also says that no one should be “disadvantaged because of age.” - To read the entire article click here

First off this is just wrong on so many levels. I saw this story and I just couldn't believe what I was reading. It weighed heavy on mind and I couldn't not post this to my blog. So here it is: You would have to be an idiot to believe that this okay? First off, homosexuality is between consenting adults. A child can not consent to something that it can not understand. Sex is a very complex physical action that can bring about emotions that are difficult to comprehend and navigate. Hell most adults have difficulty dealing with the emotions of sex so I know for a fact that children cannot understand it at all. Not to mention the physical aspect, it would be too much for a child to take on at one time and it simply destroys their innocence and sense of safety.

Being a pedophile is a sickness not a sexual preference. It is something that probably cannot be controlled and honestly that doesn't matter to me. But it is a dangerous and highly damaging sickness to the person who has it and the child that has to be subject to his or her perverse thoughts and fantasizes. To even consider this normal behavior would be absolutely destructive. And you would be doing an extreme disservice to victims who are mentally and physically affected by these individuals.

If this were ever to be considered it would be a travesty. And speaking of homosexuality as a something that is as perverse as molestation is wrong. Just because you don't agree with a person's lifestyle doesn't mean you have to disrespect them. Being gay whether a person chose it or not is not a perverse act. What CONSENTING ADULTS do in their bedroom is their business. There is no need for any of us to judge. That is up to god. So leave the gay community out of this discussion.

But I will stand up for children who may be subjected to a sexual perversion like this. I understand the psychologist are trying to understand but not at the risk of innocent children. I hope that this story is not getting any legs to move past just a discussion amongst colleagues. Thousands of innocent children are molested everyday by close family members, friends, other children. This has to stop somewhere. It may not be able to be treated but damn it don't subject innocent children to their perversions.

This is a insane gesture and should not even be considered. I AM 100% AGAINST THIS 100%!!!!!!!!

Y'all this ain't right! Read the articles, I'm telling you its crazy!

Source: Northern Colorado Gazette and Pat Dollard

Shots Fired: Lil Mo Digs at Stevie Wonder's Boycotting Florida's "Stand Your Ground Law"

Lil Mo has decided to make a statement about the recent boycott of artists against the verdict of George Zimmerman, but made a particular dig at Stevie Wonder. Look I'm all for freedom of speech and she shouldn't be stifled simply because people don't like what was said. But you have to be respectful. Lil Mo took to twitter to voice her disdain about the recent boycotts of Florida by celebrities.

She tweeted:

“Ever since the verdict, a certain artist is boycotting the state of Florida. The fans don't deserve to be deserted,” she tweeted. “If the coin was right, would HIS staff accept or deny the gig? And if so how would he know? They could say it’s sumpter, sc or nah?”

“TBH some artists have staff that dedicate their LIFE to that artist so when that artists expires the TEAM outta work. Think abt it b4 u buck,” - See more at: Cocoafab

Really Lil Mo? Really? This is disrespectful and unacceptable. First off he has a right to assert himself for something he believes in. I don't think boycotting Florida will hurt him in anyway he could be in any country in the world and make twice as much as he would in a concert in Florida. He's not doing this to hurt his staff or anyone he's doing this to make a point. Stevie Wonder is a world wide artist and phenomenon. Furthermore there were plenty of other artists who are refusing to have concerts or anything in Florida, people like Kanye West, Alicia Keys, Madonna, and Justin Timberlake just to name a few. But you didn't make any snide comments at any of them in your twitter rant, No. You singled out Stevie Wonder in a roundabout way.

Second let these artists deal with the consequences of their actions. If its hurting them they will just have to eat that cost. Why are you concerned your not boycotting this way so L.I.G. Its not about what you said its how you said it. You weren't sounding concerned you sounded like you were trying to put someone on blast. Like they were just doing this boycotting thing for publicity. I do understand your frustration but this how they feel taking a stand would benefit the community and make Florida understand that the people do have a voice. And by the way there are artists who are doing small benefit concerts and showing up to vigils, but others feel that this is a better way to show their severe disdain for the injustice of Trayvon Martin.

Let's be real here, Stevie Wonder didn't have to boost his career by getting on reality TV. So he's not missing a beat by boycotting Florida His music is timeless. No matter how many breaks he takes, he can always come back with new music or old music and out sell you and everyone else in the world without even trying. So fall back Lil Mo and in the words of The Rock: "Know Your Role and Shut Your Mouth" Let them express their voice the way they want. If you don't want to boycott this way that's your business. I'm not judging you but you can't judge them for what they decide to do for themselves and their community. #imjussayin

What do y'all think?

Source: Cocoafab

In Alleged News....Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom May Be Divorcing, Due to Lamar's Infidelity

THIS IS ALL ALLEGED! KHLOE DISPUTES BUT I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY SO I'M GOING TO TELL THE STORY AS IS AND GIVE MY TWO CENTS!!!!!! CAUSE I'M GONNA 100% I'M VERY SKEPTICAL. 


 Okay so here is the story. Radaronline and Star magazine are reporting that Khloe and Lamar may be ending their marriage over a year long affair Lamar had with a stripper (it's questionable whether she is a stripper or not) named Jennifer Richardson. Apparently the affair started in January of 2012 while Lamar was in Washington, D.C. after a game he had with the Dallas Mavericks. According to a friend of Jennifer's he took her out to dinner that night that they met. He took off her shoes and rubbed her feet a the table. She was smitten and he was smitten. Then at 3am that morning Lamar called her to his hotel room and of course she showed up. He took her phone and broke it down into pieces including removing the battery. According to her friend Jennifer assumed he was protecting himself from photos or recordings (Sidebar: WTF?) . Well once he broke down her phone he began caressing her and kissing her. Jennifer told her friend he was an amazing kisser (Sidebar Again: Right?!). She also claimed they didn't have sex, but they did everything else ;). They talked for hours apparently and really connected. Well Lamar left town after that, but before he did he gave her $3,000 (Sidebar: For Her Troubles I Assume? LOL) and promised to see her again. 


But with Lamar's hectic schedule and his trade to the Los Angeles Clippers it was awhile before Jennifer saw her lover again, 11 months to be exact. Until the Clippers had a game in Charlotte and they "happened" to run into each other at the Ritz-Carlton in the Lobby (Sidebar: YEAH RIGHT, Hmm). Sources for Radaronline and Star Mag say that Lamar ran up to her and gave her a big hug exclaiming that he had been looking for her and was glad to see her. Well right after that they had consummated their "love" and had sex all night. Lamar couldn't enough of his new love, he was insatiable says a friend of Jennifer's. That began the actual affair that went on for several months. Flying Jennifer all over the country so that he can see her. He even went so far as to tell Jennifer he wanted a threesome which she obliged with one of her friends. 


As the Clippers entered in the playoffs and filming for Keeping Up with Karshadians began it was difficult for Lamar to find time to see Jennifer and their relationship tapered off. Causing heartbreak for Jennifer. But when the Clippers were put out of the playoffs he reportedly ran back to her only to find an angry heartbroken woman who wanted nothing to do with him. 

Well Khloe got wind of the tryst and threw Lamar out! This story is alleged and Khloe's rep denies the cheating at all. Says this never happened. Since this story broke Lamar and Khloe have tried to make it work but it was Lamar who walked out and moved out of Khloe's home. Apparently he's tired of being a "Kardashian".

The mistress claims she has proof of the affair. Hotel invoices, ticket stubs, plane tickets, and more. She says that Lamar put her up in hotels and used his friend Anthony McNair as a cover. All the hotel stays, tickets, etc were put in McNair's name to cover his tracks. Jennifer claims she didn't do this for fame but I beg to differ.

My 2-Cents

First off if Lamar was cheating that's terrible for Khloe. I feel really bad for her. And if he was tired of being a "Kardashian" I can understand that too. But that doesn't condone his behavior or his actions. As for this woman Jennifer I have to say this seems to be a lot of BS. I'm sorry but her friend says this was not a ploy to be famous this was "love". Love? How can you fall in love with a married man? And why would you put yourself in a position where you are coming between a man and his wife? If they are having problems then tell him to either shit or get off the pot as my mother would say. No use in straddling the fence. 

When I read this article I was so angry not at Lamar but at Jennifer. She entered into the relationship under the guise of knowing that Lamar was married. His marriage is very public and we all know who he was married too. But she decided to see him anyway. You may have fallen in love, Jennifer I'll give you that but your intentions were not good by any means. All you cared about was yourself. You damn sure didn't give a damn about Khloe. 

And this whole "Kardashian" thing is BS. If Lamar didn't like the fact that the Kardashian name is major and overpowers their marriage or that he had to participate in the show Keeping Up With the Karsdashian's, Khloe would've done anything to make him feel comfortable and secure in their marriage. She took his last name when she married him. Kim didn't even do that in her 72 year marriage (SideBar: I wonder if Kim will take Kanye's last name if they get married? Hmm anyway I bet it won't be on tv, believe that). Khloe seems to be very good at assuring her man that she gonna ride for him. She does it all the time on the show. Think about? If you watch Keeping Up With The Kardashian's Khloe is very vocal about ensuring that she is an Odom. She understands that she is a married woman and that comes with responsibilities to him and your household. 

I just don't see this being true. If it was then why did she wait until now to come out with it? Why didn't she just cut her losses with Lamar after she allegedly told him off for being MIA for several months? And by the way you can't get territorial over a man that wasn't even yours in the first place. Know your place. If you constantly put yourself in a Sideline Hoe position that's what you will get treated like: SIDELINE HOE, PERIOD. 

I don't mean to be mean but its strange to me how you can act like he treated you so bad and did all these things but you ALLOWED THIS TO HAPPEN TO YOU. This wasn't a mistake or he lied to you. You knew what you were getting into and you tried to take Khloe position. But it didn't work and now your bitter and trying to get even. And just to be clear I AM NOT TAKING UP FOR LAMAR. BECAUSE HE CAUSED ALL THIS DRAMA ALL HE HAD TO DO WAS COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE OR LEAVE IF HE DIDN'T FEEL LIKE IT WAS WORKING OUT. BUT NO HE COULDN'T DO THAT, CAUSE #REALTALK LAMAR WOULD NOT BE FAMOUS WITHOUT KHLOE! HE'S MEDIOCRE BASKETBALL PLAYER AND HAS THE PERSONALITY OF A WET BLANKET #ImJusSayin if all this is true then you have truly embarrassed your wife and your family.

Pull together Lamar. If this isn't true then fight tooth and nail to prove it! Protect your family and your wife. Ensure that this is refuted to the end!

Source: RadarOnline

Oh What A Tangled Web We Weave...The Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 1

Alexis Miller is allegedly pregnant and is telling everyone to "Hide their Husbands". Kirk you are such an idiot. You have royally screwed yourself and have embarrassed your wife 30x over.

On MadameNoire.com its being reported that model and self professed lover of married men Alexis Miller was not shy about her recent sexual trist on Monday's episode of LHHATL. She had no regard for a pregnant Rasheeda and her feelings or the fact that Kirk was married. In fact she preferred it that way. In the hot tub she was the main one instigating that Kirk have his fun with them and worry about his wife later. It was disgusting and just flat out wrong.

But Ms. Miller didn't give a damn. After the show aired she was tracked down by "#BlackTwitter" and basically massacred called everything from a hoe to a home wrecker. She defended herself against the flood of hatred she righfully deserved by saying:

“F**k how u feeling cause business is business, its Strictly financial…”
“Best thing to do is fall back Stay in ur lane and ima stay in mine… Cause this not what u want!!!”
“2 for that Team! Lmao guess its ok to kiss once cast member one day then another the next Who’s a h*e again? Ohh right.” “Stop tweeting me just Hide Your Husbands…”
“I’ll be the BAD gyrl…” -See more at: MadameNoire.com

And on top of all of that. There are pictures of Alexis and Rasheeda actually being friendly or rather cordial before all this went down. SMDH.

On the flip end of that HelloBeautiful is reporting [via Mediatakeout] that she telling friends and family that she's PREGNANT. And in talks with the shows producers to get on the show as a part of the storyline for next season. This is alleged and none of it has been confirmed.

Personally this entire story is messed up. Kirk was dead ass wrong for what he did. He has been asked about his alleged cheating in countless interviews and he has dodged answering the questions and even blamed it on something being put in his drink. Ridiculous. Kirk and Rasheeda have been out promoting her song "Hit it from the Back" on popular radio stations around the country. They always say the same thing when asked about the cheating scandal and their relationship. "We're trying to make work." "Kirk has a lot of work to do to get back into my good graces. And he's been trying." Always something along those lines.

As a married woman this kind of behavior by other women doesn't surprise me. I've seen women like that with my husband, just the thrill of being able to take a man from his wife is enthralling to them. That chick Alexis knew what she was doing. She also knew that Kirk was married and Rasheeda was pregnant. And they were somewhat friends. Your trifling and its sad that you could do that to a friend or someone you know.

Money or not, real or not this was broadcasted all over the United States. You look like a tramp that was willing to do anything for fame and fortune. You look like a home wrecker and a hoe. I think this entire thing, encouraging Kirk to cheat by condoning his carefree attitude and her entire attitude toward the situation is a ploy to be a reality star. She wants her own fame and fortune and she had to be the other woman in order to do that. Think about it she said it herself: "This is business. Strictly Financial". I don't know sounds real suspect to me. Mona Scott-Young hasn't said a word about putting the woman on the show but knowing Mona I wouldn't put it past her if she wanted to or did. Because drama pushes ratings and high ratings brings in the money. Point Blank Period!

Kirk if this is real, your bastard and deserve to be by yourself. Rasheeda I hope you get yourself together go back to Deb hire her as your manager and get your music out there for everyone to hear.

Sources: Mediatakeout, HelloBeautiful, WordOnDaStreet, & MadameNoire

Today in the Ratchet Chronicles We Have...The Real Baby Mamas Of Richmond VA? WTF????

Now I know ya'll looking at this blog like for real Tiffany? You joking right? And I can honestly say with my head hung low that NO I AM NOT JOKING THIS IS FOR REAL!!!!

Cast Members of Internet Reality Show

I can't, I don't have much to say.  I know everybody wants to tell their story but are you serious? Instead of the Real Baby Mamas of Richmond, why couldn't it be called the Single Mothers of Richmond or just Single Mothers/Moms whatever something other than baby mama. It just seemed pointless for the show. I understand that every form of a woman should be represented. But not like this.

I'm sorry I just don't like this. I reading some of the comments for this show on YouTube and they were supporting the show. First off all the women have ignorant ass nicknames like Ms. Coco, Ms. Glamor, Big Red, Ms. Drama or the most ghetto nickname of all Ms. Twerk. When the lady begins the show she's showing her kids. She's talking in Ebonics a ghetto form of English. She's showing her children which by the way from what she says they are great kids. Smart, driven, strong kids its just their mother is being exploitative of herself and her children. This is just STUPID! There is no need to showcase the women in Richmond in this way. I'm glad this show isn't a nationally syndicated show and doesn't appear on any network. I just don't want another reality show on TV. Scripted TV shows still exist and honestly they need to start creating more scripted TV shows for real actors. *By the way: No disrespect to NeNe Leakes or anything but the reason why the New Normal didn't last was because of her horrible acting. If they would've chosen someone with serious acting chops or at least some acting skill the show probably would've gotten better reviews and been on longer. I can't be the only one to feel this way but those segments on the show where she was playing her mother and her father. Were absolutely ridiculous. It was something that should've been done, period. Just a MESS. But I digress...

Reality shows like this are stupid. It makes no since to create a show like this and actually put out there for the world to see and then get upset when people judge it. Listen here people I'm not supporting nothing like this ever! If they wants to put this on internet I will never watch this. I got as far as the opening credits of this show and then changed the channel. Oh and another thing you put your children in this show. Never mind the fact that this is on the internet and will never ever be able to be deleted truly. Just thought I would put that out there.

I'm all for showing facets of life and because statistics say that just about 2 out of 5 children come from a single-parent home I can see how this form of parenting can want to be represented but it needs to be done in a better way. In a classier way. Seriously this is terrible and as I said I'm not watching it ever. You can if you like I will put the videos in blog for you to see. Deuces y'all #ICant #Dead #NotaFan

Sources: RealityWives