OMG! In Gross News...Pedophiles and SOME Psychiatrists Are Asking for the Same Rights As Homosexuals?!

Hurbert Van Gijseghem, psychologist and
retired professor
of the University of Montreal

This is probably one of the most disgusting and downright creepy blogs I will ever write. I was on Facebook this morning trolling through my timeline and I came across a news article about Pedophiles fighting to be able to legally have sex with children. Their claim is that their "lifestyle" should be considered a sexual orientation not a crime. Here's an excerpt from the article that I want you guys to see so its going to in BIG BOLD LETTERS, here it is:

In 1998 The APA issued a report claiming “that the ‘negative potential’ of adult sex with children was ‘overstated’ and that ‘the vast majority of both men and women reported no negative sexual effects from childhood sexual abuse experiences.”

When asked if he should be comparing pedophiles to homosexuals, Van Gijseghem replied, “If, for instance, you were living in a society where heterosexuality is proscribed or prohibited and you were told that you had to get therapy to change your sexual orientation, you would probably say that that is slightly crazy. In other words, you would not accept that at all. I use this analogy to say that, yes indeed, pedophiles do not change their sexual orientation.”

The IASHS lists, on its website, a list of “basic sexual rights” that includes “the right to engage in sexual acts or activities of any kind whatsoever, providing they do not involve nonconsensual acts, violence, constraint, coercion or fraud.” Another right is to, “be free of persecution, condemnation, discrimination, or societal intervention in private sexual behavior” and “the freedom of any sexual thought, fantasy or desire.” The organization also says that no one should be “disadvantaged because of age.” - To read the entire article click here

First off this is just wrong on so many levels. I saw this story and I just couldn't believe what I was reading. It weighed heavy on mind and I couldn't not post this to my blog. So here it is: You would have to be an idiot to believe that this okay? First off, homosexuality is between consenting adults. A child can not consent to something that it can not understand. Sex is a very complex physical action that can bring about emotions that are difficult to comprehend and navigate. Hell most adults have difficulty dealing with the emotions of sex so I know for a fact that children cannot understand it at all. Not to mention the physical aspect, it would be too much for a child to take on at one time and it simply destroys their innocence and sense of safety.

Being a pedophile is a sickness not a sexual preference. It is something that probably cannot be controlled and honestly that doesn't matter to me. But it is a dangerous and highly damaging sickness to the person who has it and the child that has to be subject to his or her perverse thoughts and fantasizes. To even consider this normal behavior would be absolutely destructive. And you would be doing an extreme disservice to victims who are mentally and physically affected by these individuals.

If this were ever to be considered it would be a travesty. And speaking of homosexuality as a something that is as perverse as molestation is wrong. Just because you don't agree with a person's lifestyle doesn't mean you have to disrespect them. Being gay whether a person chose it or not is not a perverse act. What CONSENTING ADULTS do in their bedroom is their business. There is no need for any of us to judge. That is up to god. So leave the gay community out of this discussion.

But I will stand up for children who may be subjected to a sexual perversion like this. I understand the psychologist are trying to understand but not at the risk of innocent children. I hope that this story is not getting any legs to move past just a discussion amongst colleagues. Thousands of innocent children are molested everyday by close family members, friends, other children. This has to stop somewhere. It may not be able to be treated but damn it don't subject innocent children to their perversions.

This is a insane gesture and should not even be considered. I AM 100% AGAINST THIS 100%!!!!!!!!

Y'all this ain't right! Read the articles, I'm telling you its crazy!

Source: Northern Colorado Gazette and Pat Dollard

In Facebook News.....Woman Catches Her Man In Bed with Another Man!

Saw this on Facebook and I just couldn't discuss it here. So here's the skinny:

This man below cheated on his wife with a man while she was at work. 

Check out her recount of the whole ordeal below and then see what I have to say.

HER WORDS ARE HERE BELOW:

This is a real pix. I live in 5 minutes from Atlanta, but I work 2 hours away. A month ago my supervisor let me off early because there was damage to the ceiling from a rain storm.

I walked in my house and saw clothes on the hallway floor. I walked in my bedroom and saw what you are seeing.

The man with the thumb in his mouth is my husband. I have no idea who the other man is. I took this pix with my camera. I did not wake my husband. I just left. He has not seen me since. He has not attempted to call me or even drive to my work place.

My 2 Cents...

This is just sad. As a woman you already have insecurities or are threatened by another woman who is prettier, more confident, the list goes on and on. Now having to deal with men too, is too much. I'm an avid believer in the saying "To Each His Own". I believe who your attracted to is your business. But if your a married man sleeping with men on low, that's messed up. Its difficult for a woman to deal with a man cheating on them with another woman. Your parts are the same, they work, probably so the question is always "What does she have, that I don't?". Its a whole different ball game when you catch your man in bed with another MAN! Nothing that this man has can be provided by a woman. 

How can you be so disrespectful that you would bring another person into your marital home and bed. The nerve of this man to do something so trifling and disrespectful. Then the woman left and never returned home, but the crazy part about that is he never contacted her after that. So no divorce proceedings, no phone calls, no text messages, no nothing. I couldn't believe what I read and saw. Why wouldn't you just divorce your wife and leave it at that? Instead you go out and cheat with another man? Not ACCEPTABLE!

I know some people agree with cheating, but to me cheating is about greed and selfishness. Your not willing to let go of your spouse or partner and let them be free. No you need to hang on to them and bang out on some side piece. Nothing about that says Good Idea! Everything about that screams insecure, selfish, greedy, hurtful; the list goes on and on. It just seems like your trying to punish them. Cheating is a ripple effect of emotion that can turn into a tsunami and consume a person. Some people will forever question every person in their life and never fully trust anyone because of one incident. How powerful is that? 

The woman posted the picture on Facebook to forever put the man on blast for his disrespectful ways. I don't blame her. Honestly what really shocked me the most is that this guy didn't try to track down his wife or even call her after she left without a warning. It worries me when my husband goes to the store up the street! This story is sad and disappointing. I hope and pray that another woman never has to go through this type of idiotic bullshit again. 


Tell me what you think about this story and what would you do if this is what you came home to?

The Paula Deen Saga...The TRUTH...Research, READING IS KEY!

Paula Deen is being accused of being a racist. She has been dropped from every endorsement deal she has had. Its really sad. This whole situation started because of a lawsuit that began in 2012. A disgruntled employee had filed a complaint against Paula Deen and her brother Bubba. She (meaning the employee) claimed she was sexually harassed and discriminated against.

I've read all the claims that have been said about her through every social media outlet, blogger site, and news. Here's one from HelloBeautiful.com:

This statement is completely false. It was not said like this at all.

“The whole entire waiter staff was middle-aged black men, and they had on beautiful white jackets with a black bow tie. I mean, it was really impressive. That restaurant represented a certain era in America… after the Civil War, during the Civil War, before the Civil War… It was not only black men, it was black women… I would say they were slaves.”

The southern wedding bit also false!

 “What I would really like is a bunch of little n******s to wear long-sleeve white shirts, black shorts and black bow ties. You know in the Shirley Temple days, they used to tap dance around. Now, that would be a true Southern wedding wouldn’t it?” “It’s just what they are — they’re jokes…most jokes are about Jewish people, rednecks, black folks…I can’t determine what offends another person.” “I think black people feel the same prejudice that white people do.” 

This quote is wrong! This absolutely bogus. Its not what she said. Here is an excerpt from her deposition, what she really said:

The deposition Deen gave on May 17, taken by Atlanta attorney Matthew Billips and filed June 17, was in preparation for trial of the Jackson case before U.S. District Judge William T. Moore Jr.
“Have you ever used the ‘N’ word yourself?” Billips asked.
“Yes, of course,” Deen responded, referring to the fact it happened in reference to a black man who put a gun to her head during a bank robbery where she worked.
“Have you used it since then?”
“I’m sure I have, but it’s been a very long time.”
There is no time frame associated with the response.
“Miss Deen, have you ever told racial jokes?”
“No, not racial.”
Deen went on to say the “N” word is not one she used as time passed.
“Things have changed since the ’60s in the South,” she said. “And my children and my brother object to that word being used in any cruel or mean behavior.”
In another exchange, Deen discussed jokes targeting groups, conceding that “most jokes target. ... They usually target, though, a group. Gays or straights, black, redneck, you know. ... I can’t determine what offends another person.”
“And would you consider telling jokes, racial jokes, to be an example of using the ‘N’ word in a way that’s not mean?
“No I wouldn’t — I wouldn’t tell it. ... I mean, that’s not my style.”
Later in the deposition, Deen was questioned about plans for her brother’s wedding and a restaurant she and her husband visited in “Tennessee or North Carolina or somewhere.”
“The whole entire wait staff was middle-aged black men and they had on beautiful white jackets with a black bow tie. I mean it was really impressive.
“And I remember saying I would love to have servers like that, I said, but I would be afraid that somebody would misinterpret.”
She told Billips she would use the word “black” to describe the race of what she called “professional black men doing a fabulous job,” adding, “I don’t usually use African-Americans.”
She went on to testify she had said, “I would love for Bubba to experience a real Southern-style wedding,” referring to the food. Deen denied using the word “n---” to describe the servers.
“Before the Civil War, those black men and women who were waiting on white people were slaves, right?” Billips asked.
“Yes, I would say that they were slaves,” she responded. “But I did not mean anything derogatory by saying I loved their look and their professionalism.”
“Is there any possibility, in your mind, that you slipped and used the word ‘n-----’?”
“No, because that’s not what these men were. They were professional black men doing a fabulous job,” she responded.
When asked about racial harassment, Deen said she thought she would recognize it and said, “We don’t tolerate that.”

Don't believe me read the deposition your self. You have to research everything now a days. Here's the Paula Deen deposition:

Paula Deen's deposition

Before you judge please do your research. The media is completely wrong. This quote seen above consistently reprinted by many other blogger sites including the listed HelloBeautiful.com is a compilation of words that were used during the deposition but they are being misinterpreted and pieced together to make Paula Deen appear to be racist. That is not what she said at all. If you don't believe me read the deposition in full you will see that this quote is a compilations of questions and answers by the attorney and Paula Deen. They are not her full statements given during her time on the witness stand or what she has said throughout her time as a public figure. With all the controversy surrounding Paula Deen she was dropped from the Food Network one day after her public apology (which by the way I didn't think she needed to do). She was also dropped by Wal-Mart (they no longer want to carry her products) and her Smithfield Ham endorsement deal has also been killed. All this happened within a week of the rumors surfacing about Paula Deen. Her children have rallied for her and they have also been crucified for defending her. I think they were damned if do and damned if they don't. She defended herself and people are still saying "Oh your apology is baseless and not sincere at all." When her children Jamie and Bobby stepped up to defend her people called it a stunt and chastised the boys, including that gossipy queen Wendy Williams. She said that they did more damage to their mother by speaking out. Not to mention the day before she said that the kids have to step up and be responsible for the parents when things like this happen. So like I said the Deen's would have been damned if they did or damned if they didn't.

I did not watch her interview with Matt Lauer I saw pieces of it from some of the news channels. She was being sincere and I know a lot people are going to be mad at me but I'm going record saying I believe that she is not a racist. I think people have a tendency of judging others and doing anything they can to latch on to anything that turns into a major controversy when in all honesty this is not anything to call the dogs on. Seriously, rappers both white and black, normal people use the n-word daily. I don't see anyone chastising them for their poor choice in words.

Its funny to me with my people. I am an African American and and I wear my skin color proudly. I know that racism exists and I'm fully aware of the world I live in. But you have to also believe that not everyone in the world is that ignorant to people with different views and looks. We as African Americans are ready to crucify this woman for something that I know for sure we just heard our brothers, sisters, cousins, mother and many others say. Some of us have even called each other the n-word. Variation or no variation (ga or ger) on the end it still means the same thing. We repeat it everyday, in our comedy, in our television programs, in our music, or even just in a passing fancy. Not even just African Americans I know for a fact there are Caucasian, Hispanic, Asian, etc people who have used the n-word but haven't admitted to it and probably never will. I've heard people call asian chinks, hong kong phooey, I've heard caucasians being called hill billy's, red necks, white trash, crackers, honkys, and I've heard Hispanics being called wetbacks, beaner, border hopper, burrito, and the list goes on and on. These are not things that are said by just opposite races but they are said to people about their own race. Its just sad all the way around. Stop being judgmental unless your prepared to crack the hammer on yourself.

*And another thing Wendy Williams if your really about giving your opinion and being straight forward telling like it is then do your research first. If your hot topics team is good enough they would have found the same deposition I found and would have seen that these racist statements are untrue and honestly just a bunch of BS! But your not about giving your opinion your about drama and juicy gossip so I'm not even mad at you for that cause you never claim to be a true source of information. You just deliver the gossip and your opinion on it. So, that is all!

Below is Paula Deen's interview with Matt Lauer. She defended herself adamantly. 

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Paula I don't believe your a racist. But one thing I agree with Wendy Williams about on this whole story is to end your publicity coverage for this. There is no need for you to be out and about speaking about this anymore. You've done enough. Everything that has been said or said is done and over with. Wash your hands of this and let it go. 

*FYI - Split hairs if you like the n-word is not just used to describe african american people. It can be used to describe anyone. Seriously. Just saying. 

Good Luck, Paula don't worry everything will work out in the end.

Source: SavannahNow.com, HelloBeautiful.com, HuffingtonPost.com & WendyShow.com

K. Michelle & Chad Johnson are DATING! Why?!

K. Michelle and Chad Johnson are dating. K. Michelle confirmed it. Well K. Michelle has another single coming out and she was on Power 105 The Breakfast Club this morning. She was asked about the rumor that her and Chad Johnson were dating. She stated the following [via HelloBeautiful.com]:

“We are going to dinner and we are being friends, and we’re talking on the phone, and he’s courting,” said K., who clarified that they’ve not crossed the line into a physical relationship.
“We have not slept together. I’ve been through a lot with this dating thing,” she explained. “We are friends and I think that’s what it needs to be. I think I hopped into something that I shouldn’t have hopped into so quickly last time, and I feel like now I have to pace it.”

Well K. Michelle I'm not mad at you. I'm just thinking with the drama that went down between him and Evelyn and her accusations of abuse, I figured you would steer clear of that situation because of your experience in domestic violence. But its obvious you know something I don't about the situation so I'm a keep it short and sweet.

I hope this new route for you works. I really do. Chad may be the one for you. MAYBE! Just keep your eyes open and think with your head not your heart. Thinking with your can get you into trouble. It blinds you from thinking clearly. So just stay in the friend zone for now. If its meant to be it'll develop into a lasting relationship . Any good relationship has a good solid foundation. Hope it works out for ya K.

Source: HelloBeautiful.com

Kordell v. Porsha - Round 2

Well I knew it was coming, it was just a matter of time. According to Bossip [via TMZ], Kordell Stewart has locked his soon to be ex-wife Porsha out of the house and changed the locks!

This divorce between them is getting really ugly. Apparently Porsha had to move in with her mother because Kordell locked Porsha out of the house and changed the locks. Porsha had to ask her attorney to persuade Kordell's people to give her a copy of the key but he won't budge. Porsha has filed new documents in family court asking the judge to force Kordell to ensure she has a key made or fork over some dough so that she can have a suitable residence to live in. But Kordell ain't having it. Recently Porsha tried to be amicable with Kordell but he wouldn't play ball, he called it "a waste of every ones time".

Porsha honey you better do battle. Kordell I don't know what the hell is going and personally I don't care. You wanted a woman who was at home with you and waiting on you, well baby you got it! Your very old fashioned and insecure it seems. Funny now you blindside this woman publicly with this divorce and refuse to pay her any alimony or anything. Porsha you need to pull yourself together. Fight for everything you deserve. The judge should and probably will side with you. Kordell wanted a stay at home wife and he got it.

Porsha you need to further your education in media since you are a reality star. Go another route beyond what most reality stars do (beyond the clothing lines, cosmetics, shoes, etc). Find a niche in television that you like. Be it in front or behind the camera. You'd be a great TV personality. Seriously, I think you need clean Kordell out! Get everything you can out of this divorce and then move on with your life.

Good Luck Porsha!

Source: Bossip.com & TMZ.com

Kim K. Afraid Her Man and the Father of Her Child Might Be GAY!

Listen there is nothing wrong with being gay. But when your in a relationship with a man and about to have his baby and you suspect that he may leave you for a MAN, that has to be DEVASTATING!

Allegedly Kanye West is gay. ALLEGEDLY he's seeing the designer (Riccardo Tisci) of the Givenchy dress Kim K. wore to the met gala earlier this month. Now I was watching Wendy Williams and she reported that Kanye has an apartment in New York and Riccardo just bought one a block from Kanye. And Kanye is reportedly constantly in Paris because of his friendship with Riccardo. Wendy also mentioned that Kanye has decided to go back on a full on tour right after the baby is born. All Speculated!!!!! Anyway Kim is freaking out! According to one of her friends Kim is deathly afraid of the humiliation and embarrassment that this type of news will cause her and her baby.

Well...Kim K. Let's Talk...

First off I don't think Kanye West is Gay. I think they are just trying to make a mountain out of a mole-hill. Seriously. Second I think you need to take time to understand the man you are with. If what these people who are close to you are saying is true (by the way you need new people if they are constantly going to report everything that your going through) then honey you've got bigger problems than this. Kim K. honey pull it together. Seriously choose a man that is compatible with you. It doesn't seem like you Kanye mesh well together. Be smart about who you are going to be with, everyone has a match and Kanye I'm sorry just isn't yours. 

Honey your pregnant, PREGNANT. With a child, an innocent child. You are bringing a baby into a world where people will do nothing but exploit and scrutinize. Its time you stop thinking about yourself and worry about your baby. Yes, Kanye is the father and currently your boyfriend but if you feel and I mean this If YOU FEEL like things aren't going the way they should then END IT! Don't buy into this crap about being gay and all that. Cause seriously its stupid. And even if he is that has nothing to do with you at all. Just focus on the child that is getting ready to come into this world. And if he's thinking of leaving right after the baby is born there is seriously something wrong with this picture. I couldn't see Kanye just leaving the baby and not being around them just to tour. Fans v. Baby, yea I'm gonna go with baby!

By the Way....

On the topic of your swollen ankles and feet...I don't care. If you are alright and not killing yourself for vanity I'm alright with it. Obviously its not that bad other wise you would opt for flats. But if flats aren't your thing try wedge heels (or kitten heels) that are like 4" or less. You'll still have the height but not the pain.

Anyway, Kim pull yourself together honey. Its time to GROW UP!!! 

Sources: WendyShow.com & intouchweekly.com

So You Wanna Cheat...Well I Got Something For YA! Saw this and I Had to Talk About it!

Screen Shot from NoWayGirl.com

See when you trifling like this dude and girl here you get SCREWED! This woman soaked her boyfriend's condoms in habanero sauce! And well the rest is history! Although I think she went too far with the poking of the holes. I mean she could've brought a child into a unwanted situation. That would kill the psyche of a child if they knew thats how they were conceived. Under trickery, devious, conniving, hatred acts. It would kill me so I know if it someone else it devastate them. And another thing: Facebook is the death of all relationships! Please just stop. I'm a married woman I have a Facebook just like the rest of the world. But you are an idiot if you have a girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband, or fiance' and you shop for a new lover on Facebook. When you start blocking your partner or turning down friend requests lol they're going to be suspicious. Seriously just stop it!

Life Lesson #125: Keep Your D*** in Your Pants! Its ok to look but acting on temptation is where you get into to trouble. In this instance this dude slept with his wife's best friend. How can you be so treacherous and deceitful to cross that line?! Your Best Friend's Husband!? You have no boundaries, no care for your friend.

Cardinal Rule #69: Never Sleep Your Friend or Family Members Ex (Or Baby's Mother/Father)! Too many variables too much drama. There are plenty of men and women in the world for you to date besides someone that you know has been intimate with your friend or family member. Its rude and just plain wrong. Unless your friend ok's (which lets be honest is never true when dealing with women).

Here's a piece of advice for all you cheaters out there: STOP BEING A COWARD AND JUST END THE RELATIONSHIP. TELL THE TRUTH!!!! NO NEED TO BE A SNAKE AND CHEAT! JUST BE REAL!

Ya'll Discuss This Below! Would You Do This To Your Mate If You Found Out They Were Cheating? Talk to ME!

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Source: NoWayGirl.com

Televanglist & "Prophet" Juanita Bynum was Arrested!

The prophetess known as Juanita Bynum was arrested in Dallas Thursday night. Ms. Bynum was being sued by play promoter Al Wash of ALW Entertainment. She received a $100,000 pay out to appear in the play. She took the money but failed to appear in the play. Al Walsh sued and won a recovery of $140,000. She was ordered to begin making payments and she defaulted. After Juanita Bynum missed a scheduled court appearance to explain her failure to make payments, a warrant was issued for her arrest and she was then arrested.

Juanita Bynum has divulged to Wash's attorney's her assets and her business dealings. Which is a sign that payments will follow.

Mugshot of Ms. Juanita Bynum's Arrest

This is really sad because she had a really great ministry going. She was very good at singing god's word as well as preaching the word. But after that fiasco with her husband (abuse) hit the news and the fact that she was claiming she was a prophet, that was beginning of her demise. Then obviously business began to pick up again. She was asked to star in a play and was paid $100,000 to do it. But she reneged on the deal and ended doing time for it. I don't understand why she didn't do the play or what happened. None of that was explained in the report. Were there creative differences? I don't know. But taking money and not following through on your end of the deal is pretty messed up. Considering your a public figure for God and everyone is going to judge and scrutinize you. I hope Ms. Bynum pulls it together. Prayer and a whole lot of humility is in order!


Source: Madamenoire.com

Mimi's Pulling a Kenya?! Well Nikko's Talking And You'd Be Surprised What He Has to Say...

Mimi Faust & Ex-Boyfriend Nikko

Well the BlogSphere is all a buzz this morning because apparently Mimi and her boyfriend of almost a year Nikko have broken up. Many bloggers are saying the relationship was fake from the start! Just in time for the premiere of Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta next week. Mimi has apparently gone back to her on again, off again boyfriend Stevie J. 

Well the left out party of this love quad (Constant circle between Joseline, Stevie J, & Mimi) is Nikko. And he is not happy. In a interview on March 5 with S2SMagazine.com, he is setting the record straight about the gay rumors that were allegedly started by K. Michelle and his issue with her. He claimed that K. Michelle was jealous and didn't want to see Mimi happy. 

Hmm...My Oh, Oh My, have the tides changed. Ms. Mimi decided to break up her wonderful, happy relationship with Nikko and go back to the dysfunction that is...the Almighty (and I use that term very LOOSELY) Stevie J!  They broke up last month and Nikko has decided to talk about it. According to HelloBeautiful.com, Nikko is crushed by their recent breakup. In a report done by SandraRose, Nikko told his friends and family that he feels betrayed and humiliated by Mimi. Here's a quote of his exact words via HelloBeautiful.com:

“Now he knows the show is scripted; it’s not reality,” says the source who added, “Nikko feels betrayed.”

“Now he thinks [Mimi] was playing him or she’s just playing stupid,” said my source. 

I'm sure all of this will play out on the show, well part of it! What do I think about this? Well I knew that she was going back to Stevie J it was just a matter of time. I didn't think it would happen so soon though. I thought things would go sour with him, Che Mack (and somebody tell me where the hell that chick came from? she is one weird looking broad) and Joseline. And then he would be crawling back to Mimi again and like a sap she'll take him back. 

Mimi Faust & Current Boyfriend Stevie J

Unless Mimi is willing to accept the fact that Stevie J is always and I mean always going to sleep around, then she will forever be trapped in this nonsense. Now if she accepts that's who he is and wants him anyway than well I can't be mad at her. I know ya'll probably like WHAT?! Well let me explain. If she goes into the situation with her eyes open she can no longer play victim and just has to accept what ever comes her way.

As far as her and Nikko goes, yeah he got played like a sucker. According to SandraRose.com Nikko feels like Stevie J and Mimi never broke up. It was just a stunt to boost the ratings of the show. He even went further to say that Stevie J's relationship with Joseline was fake. And Mona Scott is the puppet master behind the scenes. I can believe it. It sounds plausible and if you manipulate things enough you can make it appear to be reality.

Poor Nikko. Next time you'll be more careful.

Cardinal Rule #135: Never Date a Reality Star. How would you know if they truly want you or not? They could simply be using you for their show or to get one.

Listen up Nikko! If you feel as though you were played then 99% of the time you were. I feel bad for you. But here's some free advice: Move on, don't dwell on it. Seriously Nikko its not worth it. Your a very attractive guy. Plenty of Fish in the SEA!

Besides When You Look Like This:

YOU WON'T BE SINGLE FOR LONG, TRUST!!!!!!!

Sources: SandraRose.com, HelloBeautiful.com, & S2SMagazine.com

Tyrese is Putting All Us Fatties on Notice!

Apparently Tyrese knows the key to losing weight! Its no special potion or magic wand that people can wave to make it disappear. Unfortunately it takes dedication, hard work, and strong will, to those of us who are lazy those are daggers in our heart LMAO. Tyrese had some pretty strong statements about people who are fat and consistently complain about it. Here's what he said: 

"If you are fat and nasty and you don’t like the way you look, do something about it. It’s simple," said the well-sculpted actor, adding in detail:

"When you take a shower and you put your fat, nasty body in the shower and by the time you get out, the mirrors are all steamed up so you don’t look at what you did to yourself.

"That may sound offensive or insensitive but ultimately, you are big as hell because you have earned that s-it. You worked your ass off to eat everything in sight to get big as hell.

"If you got a problem with the way you look, then you need to do something about it. Excuses sound best to the people that’s making them up."

See more at: http://www.thehollywoodgossip.com/2013/04/tyrese-blasts-fat-people-its-your-fault/#sthash.p4FOon9F.dpuf

The question everyone is asking is: Was he out of line for what he said? Are you offended? The answer is No. Surprisingly I am not offended. In a sense he is very right. In my case I have gained weight and I have tried to lose it in many ways. I am lazy though and idiotically enough I expect miracles after one day of exercising. I understand that it is my fault why I am the way that I am. I don't blame anyone but myself. 

Could it have been said better? Yea I'm sure it could have. I'm not going to lie it hurt me. It stung a little bit when I read it. I'm guessing he's just tired of hearing the complaints from everyone about their weight. Many people don't understand that the issue is not always over eating. People always associate obesity = overeating. Not so. 

Listen as long as he meant no malice in what he was saying I'm not mad at him. He feels strong about it and that's okay. 



But listen to me when I say this: I will not lose weight just to appease you or anyone else. I'm not saying I'm going to kill myself because I want to make a point either. I'm simply saying that I am not trying to make you happy with my looks and body. You can either not look or simply deal. Oh and another thing. The weight will not come off in a day. So if I eat right and exercise yet your still running your mouth about my weight don't get upset when I run down your flaws. Or if you piss me off enough you might get knocked the HELL OUT! #imjustsayin #andimthrough






Source: TheHollywoodGossip.com

Omarosa is being Investigated? Why? Because of Michael Clark Duncan's Altered Will!

Source: WENN via Madamenoire.com

So Omarosa is being investigated for the drastic change in Michael Clark Duncan's will just months before he died. When Omarosa appeared on the Wendy Wiliams Show last month she was asked by Wendy if she was left anything in the will. Omarosa replied

“Let me just tell you that Michael was just the most incredible, generous soul and probably the most shocking aspect of this is that he did want to make sure that I was cared for, very, very well.”

Well Michael's sister Judy is implying that Omarosa isn't as "shocked" as she's letting on. According to TMZ, Judy Duncan hired a lawyer and is investigating the change in the will that occured in April, a couple months prior to his death. The big change was that Omarosa was named the main beneficiary in will. Judy goes on to explain that she thinks her brother was not fully coherent to understand the decision that he was making. She goes on to further explain that his speech was slurred and he had been stumbling.

Omarosa says otherwise. Here’s her statement to TMZ, “I don’t control the estate or the finances and Judy knows it. If you saw all of her emails and texts to me you would see that she is just trying to get money from me, and threatened going to press if I did not give it to her and that is a crime!” she told TMZ.

OMG! Then Judy revealed that Omarosa sold a lot of Michael's belongings including his cars, watches, awards, The Godfather Memorabilia, and his director's chair from The Green Mile. She did this without informing his family. Very distasteful!

Read more at http://madamenoire.com/271247/michael-clarke-duncans-family-believes-omarosa-may-have-coerced-him-into-adjusting-his-will-just-before-his-death/#BiBVm4XJMKe7zvh3.99 

 I have NEVER been a fan of Omarosa. But I never knew or thought she was really how she portrayed herself. I always thought she just loved the spotlight and did everything she could to be in it! But with the stories that are being told about her, I believe it. If these stories that Claudia Jordan, LaToya Jackson, and Judy Duncan are saying is true then I would have to say that Omarosa is probably one of the most disgusting people I've ever seen in my life. A man is dying and instead of caring for him and loving him, you decide this is your opportunity to get everything you think you deserve.

I'm severely angry and this isn't even my family. I hope and pray that this is not true and that she is just misunderstood or something like that. Cause if it is she'll be the most hated woman in america. She's earned that moniker once before when she was on the Apprentice the first time. But I again I hope this is not true. I hope Omarosa is better than this.

Source: Madamenoire.com

Halle Berry is Pregnant! And She's Having A....

Halle Berry Shopping w/ Friends Photo via People.com

Halle Berry is PREGNANT, AGAIN! Happy times for the iconic actress. She's in a loving relationship with her fiance Olivier Martinez and her daughter is happy in a good place. Congrats Ms. Berry!

UPDATE:

Ms. Halle Berry is having a Boy! Again Congratulations and Ms. Berry is wearing her pregnancy well! I hope you have a beautiful bouncing baby boy!

DJ Clue's Been Arrested?! SMDH Seriously Though?

Interesting famous longtime Hip Hop tycoon DJ Clue was arrested early Wednesday morning for criminal possession of a controlled substance and aggravated unlicensed operator of a vehicle. DJ Clue's license had been suspended when he was pulled over in Manhattan. 

DJ Clue was stopped at a checkpoint. They ran a background check and found out that his license had been suspended proceeded to arrest him, searched his vehicle and found 3 unmarked pill on his person. 

He was set to appear in court later on Wednesday evening. 

Source: Wonderwall.com

Update on RHOA Divorce: Porsha Fires Back!

This divorce between Kordell and Porsha is getting worse. Porsha is fighting back and she's gut punching that fool! She filed papers in court to get the house and alimony. Kordell had already filed a document with his divorce documents, in court saying that she was able bodied and didn't need support of any kind. Newsone.com reports Porsha and her legal team claim that Porsha gave up her life/career. Devoted herself to him and to being a stepmother for his son from a previous relationship. While Kordell was deceiving and conniving about divorcing Porsha. Porsha was committed to working on their marriage and remained loyal.

There are so many different reports it's hard to keep this story straight. First I was researching to find an update on Porsha and Kordell's divorce I found several reports that they are reconciling. What?! Reconciling after all that, that can't be true. There was one report saying that Kordell is divorcing her because she can't get pregnant. WOW! I hope that this is not true. Because if it is that would be the most despicable and disgusting thing I have heard. Then I read another report saying that Kordell had a new woman just days after the divorce! OMG! You can't be serious!

Let me put this way: I don't know one way or the other if these reports are actually true. I'm going play devils advocate here and say that they are all false and this divorce is happening. Kordell and Porsha are going to fight naturally because of the way this divorce went down. I hope Kordell does right by Porsha.

My initial thoughts of Porsha was that she was naive and inexperienced. That hasn't changed and but this will give her the opportunity to be stronger and become wiser. I think being on the show will really give Porsha the time she needs to find herself. It's sad that it had to happen this way but  things happen for reason. And now its time for Porsha to stop walking in Kordell's shadow and stand on her own two feet. It'll be a liberating experience and she'll never want to go back to being subservient. I promise you that!

Source: Newone.com