Oh Wendy...Wendy Williams Goes In on Kirk and Rasheeda!

Wendy Williams show yesterday was pretty I actually watch it regularly. Sometimes I agree with what she said and sometimes I don't. But I can honestly say that her show is very entertaining.

Basically on Wednesday's episode of Wendy she confessed that she regularly watches Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. She was obviously embarrassed to say that she watches the show but her focus was on the Kirk and Rasheeda saga that has been dominating the show. For the most part on the first season of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, the relationship between Joseline, Mimi and Stevie J was the main storyline. Adding in some fights between Karlie Redd, Rasheeda, and K. Michelle as well as the secondary storyline which was the relationship with Scrappy and Erica along with Scrappy sideline chick Shay.

Well Wendy decided to speak her mind and tell the nation that the story behind Kirk's infidelity was a ploy to get more face time on the show and put some of the other cast members to back. Making them the stars of the show. Anyway here's Wendy, take a look at the clip:

Well I can't say that I don't agree with Wendy. Cause in this instance I do. Kirk and Rasheeda had small drama on the show last season. It wasn't explosive like this season. But it was drama. This is far beyond what anyone expected from Kirk. He seemed so much better than that, and on the first season he seemed to genuinely love his wife. So for him to do a complete 180 like that is mind boggling. Another reason I can kind of agree with Wendy is that when people tracked down Mary Jane on twitter and started just ripping her to shreds, she responded to one of the tweets by saying "This is all about making money. This is strictly business." That kind of made me say "Hmmm, business huh."


Now let's SPECULATE: Maybe Rasheeda and Kirk wanted more relevance on the show, so on their down time they got in contact with Mary Jane and came up with this plan to make up a fight. But that's far fetched. like I said I was just SPECULATING but it could explain why Mary Jane is so callous about the situation. And Kirk's nonchalant attitude would also be explained. It just seemed messed up. But on the flip side Rasheeda is pregnant and I don't think she would involve her unborn child in some mess like that. I'm just saying.

Hopefully Wendy is just talking and none of this is true. What made me laugh a little bit at the show though was when Wendy's talking to the TV and telling the cast members of Love and Hip Hop ATL: "Don't call to ask for an interview. You are not the caliber of guests that I want for my show except for my Puerto Rican princess Joseline. Only I can't understand a word she's saying so we'll just use the close captioning." As ratchet and messy as Wendy is, if she don't want you on her show you know something is wrong. #RealTalk

I hope this isn't true and that this played out in front of the cameras due to the fact the Kirk is a jerk. I hope and pray. For Real.


Source: MadameNoire & WendyShow

In Alleged News....Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom May Be Divorcing, Due to Lamar's Infidelity

THIS IS ALL ALLEGED! KHLOE DISPUTES BUT I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY SO I'M GOING TO TELL THE STORY AS IS AND GIVE MY TWO CENTS!!!!!! CAUSE I'M GONNA 100% I'M VERY SKEPTICAL. 


 Okay so here is the story. Radaronline and Star magazine are reporting that Khloe and Lamar may be ending their marriage over a year long affair Lamar had with a stripper (it's questionable whether she is a stripper or not) named Jennifer Richardson. Apparently the affair started in January of 2012 while Lamar was in Washington, D.C. after a game he had with the Dallas Mavericks. According to a friend of Jennifer's he took her out to dinner that night that they met. He took off her shoes and rubbed her feet a the table. She was smitten and he was smitten. Then at 3am that morning Lamar called her to his hotel room and of course she showed up. He took her phone and broke it down into pieces including removing the battery. According to her friend Jennifer assumed he was protecting himself from photos or recordings (Sidebar: WTF?) . Well once he broke down her phone he began caressing her and kissing her. Jennifer told her friend he was an amazing kisser (Sidebar Again: Right?!). She also claimed they didn't have sex, but they did everything else ;). They talked for hours apparently and really connected. Well Lamar left town after that, but before he did he gave her $3,000 (Sidebar: For Her Troubles I Assume? LOL) and promised to see her again. 


But with Lamar's hectic schedule and his trade to the Los Angeles Clippers it was awhile before Jennifer saw her lover again, 11 months to be exact. Until the Clippers had a game in Charlotte and they "happened" to run into each other at the Ritz-Carlton in the Lobby (Sidebar: YEAH RIGHT, Hmm). Sources for Radaronline and Star Mag say that Lamar ran up to her and gave her a big hug exclaiming that he had been looking for her and was glad to see her. Well right after that they had consummated their "love" and had sex all night. Lamar couldn't enough of his new love, he was insatiable says a friend of Jennifer's. That began the actual affair that went on for several months. Flying Jennifer all over the country so that he can see her. He even went so far as to tell Jennifer he wanted a threesome which she obliged with one of her friends. 


As the Clippers entered in the playoffs and filming for Keeping Up with Karshadians began it was difficult for Lamar to find time to see Jennifer and their relationship tapered off. Causing heartbreak for Jennifer. But when the Clippers were put out of the playoffs he reportedly ran back to her only to find an angry heartbroken woman who wanted nothing to do with him. 

Well Khloe got wind of the tryst and threw Lamar out! This story is alleged and Khloe's rep denies the cheating at all. Says this never happened. Since this story broke Lamar and Khloe have tried to make it work but it was Lamar who walked out and moved out of Khloe's home. Apparently he's tired of being a "Kardashian".

The mistress claims she has proof of the affair. Hotel invoices, ticket stubs, plane tickets, and more. She says that Lamar put her up in hotels and used his friend Anthony McNair as a cover. All the hotel stays, tickets, etc were put in McNair's name to cover his tracks. Jennifer claims she didn't do this for fame but I beg to differ.

My 2-Cents

First off if Lamar was cheating that's terrible for Khloe. I feel really bad for her. And if he was tired of being a "Kardashian" I can understand that too. But that doesn't condone his behavior or his actions. As for this woman Jennifer I have to say this seems to be a lot of BS. I'm sorry but her friend says this was not a ploy to be famous this was "love". Love? How can you fall in love with a married man? And why would you put yourself in a position where you are coming between a man and his wife? If they are having problems then tell him to either shit or get off the pot as my mother would say. No use in straddling the fence. 

When I read this article I was so angry not at Lamar but at Jennifer. She entered into the relationship under the guise of knowing that Lamar was married. His marriage is very public and we all know who he was married too. But she decided to see him anyway. You may have fallen in love, Jennifer I'll give you that but your intentions were not good by any means. All you cared about was yourself. You damn sure didn't give a damn about Khloe. 

And this whole "Kardashian" thing is BS. If Lamar didn't like the fact that the Kardashian name is major and overpowers their marriage or that he had to participate in the show Keeping Up With the Karsdashian's, Khloe would've done anything to make him feel comfortable and secure in their marriage. She took his last name when she married him. Kim didn't even do that in her 72 year marriage (SideBar: I wonder if Kim will take Kanye's last name if they get married? Hmm anyway I bet it won't be on tv, believe that). Khloe seems to be very good at assuring her man that she gonna ride for him. She does it all the time on the show. Think about? If you watch Keeping Up With The Kardashian's Khloe is very vocal about ensuring that she is an Odom. She understands that she is a married woman and that comes with responsibilities to him and your household. 

I just don't see this being true. If it was then why did she wait until now to come out with it? Why didn't she just cut her losses with Lamar after she allegedly told him off for being MIA for several months? And by the way you can't get territorial over a man that wasn't even yours in the first place. Know your place. If you constantly put yourself in a Sideline Hoe position that's what you will get treated like: SIDELINE HOE, PERIOD. 

I don't mean to be mean but its strange to me how you can act like he treated you so bad and did all these things but you ALLOWED THIS TO HAPPEN TO YOU. This wasn't a mistake or he lied to you. You knew what you were getting into and you tried to take Khloe position. But it didn't work and now your bitter and trying to get even. And just to be clear I AM NOT TAKING UP FOR LAMAR. BECAUSE HE CAUSED ALL THIS DRAMA ALL HE HAD TO DO WAS COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE OR LEAVE IF HE DIDN'T FEEL LIKE IT WAS WORKING OUT. BUT NO HE COULDN'T DO THAT, CAUSE #REALTALK LAMAR WOULD NOT BE FAMOUS WITHOUT KHLOE! HE'S MEDIOCRE BASKETBALL PLAYER AND HAS THE PERSONALITY OF A WET BLANKET #ImJusSayin if all this is true then you have truly embarrassed your wife and your family.

Pull together Lamar. If this isn't true then fight tooth and nail to prove it! Protect your family and your wife. Ensure that this is refuted to the end!

Source: RadarOnline

Like Sand Through the Hourglass....The Jumpoff of Kirk the Jerk, Mary Jane was on Big Tigger's Show

Shocker....(Note the Sarcasm), Mary Jane AKA Alexis is on every radio outlet and she's just talking talking talking! Her nonchalant attitude is crazy. Tigger asks her did you know he was married. Her response "Of course I knew. But she gave him a pass, they were on a break" She know damn well that's not even how it went down. But doesn't matter she doesn't keep this "nice girl" facade up for long once Bambi shows up! Watch in VIDEO BELOW:

This isn't the first time Ms. Mary Jane has struck up with the likes of Shaq during his marriage to Basketball Wives Queen Shaunie O'Neal. Back in 08 she filed a restraining against Shaq claiming he threatened her. In a radio interview she was quoted saying "A Man is Either Going to Marry a Hoe or Cheat on His Wife With One." Her former makeup artist and friend classified her as borderline Bi-Polar and a young mother. Claiming Shaq hurt her badly and strung her along under the guise that she would be his woman and he was leaving his wife. This charade continued for more than 2 years! Anyway that was a little insight into Ms. Mary Jane.


Now Lets Look at this Situation....

As a woman you expected a married man to be honest with you and committed to you while he was in a full blown relationship with his WIFE? Mistake #1. You then go on national TV about 5 years later (who knows how many married men you've been with in that time frame) and publicly PUBLICLY sleep with a man you know damn well is having issues in his marriage and on top of that you know HIS WIFE AND SHES PREGNANT WHICH U ALSO KNEW!! Mistake #2. Then you get upset because people are judging you and chastising you because of your disrespect for someones marriage. And decide to tell everyone in the world to "Hide you Husbands" Mistake #3. Then you capitalize on your trifling ways by going on every blog, radio and or TV show that will have you and discussing it like your talking about walking down the street. That's sad.

You are a poster child for women put their stock in a man. Stupidity is written all over your face. Basically putting a sign on your ass that says FOR SALE. Why couldn't you be a classy hoe and be private about it? Keep your panties on until the doors close or rather the cameras are off. You are constantly in a hustle state always looking for a man who has money to take care of you. Honey you are ratchet as hell. Do I think your Bi-Polar HELL NO! Until I see some proof of the documents you'll just be a dumb hoe, PERIOD. I'm sorry for the harsh words but you are not even trying to be remorseful for the woman whose life you just RUINED ON NATIONAL TV! Rasheeda may be a lot of things but at least she's real. I can't take that from her. I have to give her that. She's also pregnant with his child, have some respect for their relationship good or bad and keep your ASS out of it. And I'M THROUGH!

Sources: NecoleBitchie & zHipHopCleveland

Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 2, Sigh

Kirk has been under fire for his disrespectful and hurtful antics on last weeks episode of LHHATL. Now he's eating humble pie via Nicki Minaj. Let me explain......

You see last week Nicki took to twitter and told everyone how she felt about Kirk and his cheating. Everyone including me agreed with her tweets. Here's some of what she said:

“Damn my n***a, after 15 yrs u wld embarrass the mother of your child while she’s pregnant on nat’l tv like that? cornballs on deck. for reality tv tho? My n—a…that s–t ain’t worth it,” the curvy rapper tweeted. “If you’re trying to convince someone you’re not gay that’s the wrong way to go about it. Your wife is pregnant. U do that on nat’l tv? GTFOH.”

“Having problems is one thing, broadcasting it on a tv show for some air time is another. That woman stayed by your side. how dare u? And i dare u to say it ain’t none of my business. u done sold it to vh1. Its everybody business,” the Twitter rant continued. “Its levels to this s–t…lol…the lower level minds will never understand that. You’re willing to ruin a 15 yr bond for vh1? el stupido.”

Kirk has decided to break his silence about her tweets. TMZ talked with Kirk and asked him what he felt about it, here's what he said:

“Nicki Minaj is a woman and she was speaking about me doing inappropriate things. I can’t fault her for that. Every woman in America who watched felt the way Nicki did,” he said. 

“Not only was doing it on the show inappropriate, but it was inappropriate period. And I hurt my wife.”

Kirk even told TMZ that Rasheeda is "DONE" with him. This is all reported by TMZ, considered a rumor to me until confirmed. I don't know if she officially left Kirk or not. Probably won't know that until the reunion. The fact that he did this to her on television I think is hardest part for people to understand. Cheating is bad enough but he did it on a grand scale. Guess we'll have wait on the reunion.

Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta airs every Monday @ 8pm on VH1 (Channel 335 on DirecTV)

Sources: VH1 & TMZ

Oh What A Tangled Web We Weave...The Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 1

Alexis Miller is allegedly pregnant and is telling everyone to "Hide their Husbands". Kirk you are such an idiot. You have royally screwed yourself and have embarrassed your wife 30x over.

On MadameNoire.com its being reported that model and self professed lover of married men Alexis Miller was not shy about her recent sexual trist on Monday's episode of LHHATL. She had no regard for a pregnant Rasheeda and her feelings or the fact that Kirk was married. In fact she preferred it that way. In the hot tub she was the main one instigating that Kirk have his fun with them and worry about his wife later. It was disgusting and just flat out wrong.

But Ms. Miller didn't give a damn. After the show aired she was tracked down by "#BlackTwitter" and basically massacred called everything from a hoe to a home wrecker. She defended herself against the flood of hatred she righfully deserved by saying:

“F**k how u feeling cause business is business, its Strictly financial…”
“Best thing to do is fall back Stay in ur lane and ima stay in mine… Cause this not what u want!!!”
“2 for that Team! Lmao guess its ok to kiss once cast member one day then another the next Who’s a h*e again? Ohh right.” “Stop tweeting me just Hide Your Husbands…”
“I’ll be the BAD gyrl…” -See more at: MadameNoire.com

And on top of all of that. There are pictures of Alexis and Rasheeda actually being friendly or rather cordial before all this went down. SMDH.

On the flip end of that HelloBeautiful is reporting [via Mediatakeout] that she telling friends and family that she's PREGNANT. And in talks with the shows producers to get on the show as a part of the storyline for next season. This is alleged and none of it has been confirmed.

Personally this entire story is messed up. Kirk was dead ass wrong for what he did. He has been asked about his alleged cheating in countless interviews and he has dodged answering the questions and even blamed it on something being put in his drink. Ridiculous. Kirk and Rasheeda have been out promoting her song "Hit it from the Back" on popular radio stations around the country. They always say the same thing when asked about the cheating scandal and their relationship. "We're trying to make work." "Kirk has a lot of work to do to get back into my good graces. And he's been trying." Always something along those lines.

As a married woman this kind of behavior by other women doesn't surprise me. I've seen women like that with my husband, just the thrill of being able to take a man from his wife is enthralling to them. That chick Alexis knew what she was doing. She also knew that Kirk was married and Rasheeda was pregnant. And they were somewhat friends. Your trifling and its sad that you could do that to a friend or someone you know.

Money or not, real or not this was broadcasted all over the United States. You look like a tramp that was willing to do anything for fame and fortune. You look like a home wrecker and a hoe. I think this entire thing, encouraging Kirk to cheat by condoning his carefree attitude and her entire attitude toward the situation is a ploy to be a reality star. She wants her own fame and fortune and she had to be the other woman in order to do that. Think about it she said it herself: "This is business. Strictly Financial". I don't know sounds real suspect to me. Mona Scott-Young hasn't said a word about putting the woman on the show but knowing Mona I wouldn't put it past her if she wanted to or did. Because drama pushes ratings and high ratings brings in the money. Point Blank Period!

Kirk if this is real, your bastard and deserve to be by yourself. Rasheeda I hope you get yourself together go back to Deb hire her as your manager and get your music out there for everyone to hear.

Sources: Mediatakeout, HelloBeautiful, WordOnDaStreet, & MadameNoire

In Facebook News.....Woman Catches Her Man In Bed with Another Man!

Saw this on Facebook and I just couldn't discuss it here. So here's the skinny:

This man below cheated on his wife with a man while she was at work. 

Check out her recount of the whole ordeal below and then see what I have to say.

HER WORDS ARE HERE BELOW:

This is a real pix. I live in 5 minutes from Atlanta, but I work 2 hours away. A month ago my supervisor let me off early because there was damage to the ceiling from a rain storm.

I walked in my house and saw clothes on the hallway floor. I walked in my bedroom and saw what you are seeing.

The man with the thumb in his mouth is my husband. I have no idea who the other man is. I took this pix with my camera. I did not wake my husband. I just left. He has not seen me since. He has not attempted to call me or even drive to my work place.

My 2 Cents...

This is just sad. As a woman you already have insecurities or are threatened by another woman who is prettier, more confident, the list goes on and on. Now having to deal with men too, is too much. I'm an avid believer in the saying "To Each His Own". I believe who your attracted to is your business. But if your a married man sleeping with men on low, that's messed up. Its difficult for a woman to deal with a man cheating on them with another woman. Your parts are the same, they work, probably so the question is always "What does she have, that I don't?". Its a whole different ball game when you catch your man in bed with another MAN! Nothing that this man has can be provided by a woman. 

How can you be so disrespectful that you would bring another person into your marital home and bed. The nerve of this man to do something so trifling and disrespectful. Then the woman left and never returned home, but the crazy part about that is he never contacted her after that. So no divorce proceedings, no phone calls, no text messages, no nothing. I couldn't believe what I read and saw. Why wouldn't you just divorce your wife and leave it at that? Instead you go out and cheat with another man? Not ACCEPTABLE!

I know some people agree with cheating, but to me cheating is about greed and selfishness. Your not willing to let go of your spouse or partner and let them be free. No you need to hang on to them and bang out on some side piece. Nothing about that says Good Idea! Everything about that screams insecure, selfish, greedy, hurtful; the list goes on and on. It just seems like your trying to punish them. Cheating is a ripple effect of emotion that can turn into a tsunami and consume a person. Some people will forever question every person in their life and never fully trust anyone because of one incident. How powerful is that? 

The woman posted the picture on Facebook to forever put the man on blast for his disrespectful ways. I don't blame her. Honestly what really shocked me the most is that this guy didn't try to track down his wife or even call her after she left without a warning. It worries me when my husband goes to the store up the street! This story is sad and disappointing. I hope and pray that another woman never has to go through this type of idiotic bullshit again. 


Tell me what you think about this story and what would you do if this is what you came home to?

So You Wanna Cheat...Well I Got Something For YA! Saw this and I Had to Talk About it!

Screen Shot from NoWayGirl.com

See when you trifling like this dude and girl here you get SCREWED! This woman soaked her boyfriend's condoms in habanero sauce! And well the rest is history! Although I think she went too far with the poking of the holes. I mean she could've brought a child into a unwanted situation. That would kill the psyche of a child if they knew thats how they were conceived. Under trickery, devious, conniving, hatred acts. It would kill me so I know if it someone else it devastate them. And another thing: Facebook is the death of all relationships! Please just stop. I'm a married woman I have a Facebook just like the rest of the world. But you are an idiot if you have a girlfriend, boyfriend, wife, husband, or fiance' and you shop for a new lover on Facebook. When you start blocking your partner or turning down friend requests lol they're going to be suspicious. Seriously just stop it!

Life Lesson #125: Keep Your D*** in Your Pants! Its ok to look but acting on temptation is where you get into to trouble. In this instance this dude slept with his wife's best friend. How can you be so treacherous and deceitful to cross that line?! Your Best Friend's Husband!? You have no boundaries, no care for your friend.

Cardinal Rule #69: Never Sleep Your Friend or Family Members Ex (Or Baby's Mother/Father)! Too many variables too much drama. There are plenty of men and women in the world for you to date besides someone that you know has been intimate with your friend or family member. Its rude and just plain wrong. Unless your friend ok's (which lets be honest is never true when dealing with women).

Here's a piece of advice for all you cheaters out there: STOP BEING A COWARD AND JUST END THE RELATIONSHIP. TELL THE TRUTH!!!! NO NEED TO BE A SNAKE AND CHEAT! JUST BE REAL!

Ya'll Discuss This Below! Would You Do This To Your Mate If You Found Out They Were Cheating? Talk to ME!

Check Out How Karma Can Comeback to Bite You in Keyshia Cole's Video "Trust & Believe"

Source: NoWayGirl.com