Oh Wendy...Wendy Williams Goes In on Kirk and Rasheeda!

Wendy Williams show yesterday was pretty I actually watch it regularly. Sometimes I agree with what she said and sometimes I don't. But I can honestly say that her show is very entertaining.

Basically on Wednesday's episode of Wendy she confessed that she regularly watches Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. She was obviously embarrassed to say that she watches the show but her focus was on the Kirk and Rasheeda saga that has been dominating the show. For the most part on the first season of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, the relationship between Joseline, Mimi and Stevie J was the main storyline. Adding in some fights between Karlie Redd, Rasheeda, and K. Michelle as well as the secondary storyline which was the relationship with Scrappy and Erica along with Scrappy sideline chick Shay.

Well Wendy decided to speak her mind and tell the nation that the story behind Kirk's infidelity was a ploy to get more face time on the show and put some of the other cast members to back. Making them the stars of the show. Anyway here's Wendy, take a look at the clip:

Well I can't say that I don't agree with Wendy. Cause in this instance I do. Kirk and Rasheeda had small drama on the show last season. It wasn't explosive like this season. But it was drama. This is far beyond what anyone expected from Kirk. He seemed so much better than that, and on the first season he seemed to genuinely love his wife. So for him to do a complete 180 like that is mind boggling. Another reason I can kind of agree with Wendy is that when people tracked down Mary Jane on twitter and started just ripping her to shreds, she responded to one of the tweets by saying "This is all about making money. This is strictly business." That kind of made me say "Hmmm, business huh."


Now let's SPECULATE: Maybe Rasheeda and Kirk wanted more relevance on the show, so on their down time they got in contact with Mary Jane and came up with this plan to make up a fight. But that's far fetched. like I said I was just SPECULATING but it could explain why Mary Jane is so callous about the situation. And Kirk's nonchalant attitude would also be explained. It just seemed messed up. But on the flip side Rasheeda is pregnant and I don't think she would involve her unborn child in some mess like that. I'm just saying.

Hopefully Wendy is just talking and none of this is true. What made me laugh a little bit at the show though was when Wendy's talking to the TV and telling the cast members of Love and Hip Hop ATL: "Don't call to ask for an interview. You are not the caliber of guests that I want for my show except for my Puerto Rican princess Joseline. Only I can't understand a word she's saying so we'll just use the close captioning." As ratchet and messy as Wendy is, if she don't want you on her show you know something is wrong. #RealTalk

I hope this isn't true and that this played out in front of the cameras due to the fact the Kirk is a jerk. I hope and pray. For Real.


Source: MadameNoire & WendyShow

In Alleged News....Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom May Be Divorcing, Due to Lamar's Infidelity

THIS IS ALL ALLEGED! KHLOE DISPUTES BUT I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY SO I'M GOING TO TELL THE STORY AS IS AND GIVE MY TWO CENTS!!!!!! CAUSE I'M GONNA 100% I'M VERY SKEPTICAL. 


 Okay so here is the story. Radaronline and Star magazine are reporting that Khloe and Lamar may be ending their marriage over a year long affair Lamar had with a stripper (it's questionable whether she is a stripper or not) named Jennifer Richardson. Apparently the affair started in January of 2012 while Lamar was in Washington, D.C. after a game he had with the Dallas Mavericks. According to a friend of Jennifer's he took her out to dinner that night that they met. He took off her shoes and rubbed her feet a the table. She was smitten and he was smitten. Then at 3am that morning Lamar called her to his hotel room and of course she showed up. He took her phone and broke it down into pieces including removing the battery. According to her friend Jennifer assumed he was protecting himself from photos or recordings (Sidebar: WTF?) . Well once he broke down her phone he began caressing her and kissing her. Jennifer told her friend he was an amazing kisser (Sidebar Again: Right?!). She also claimed they didn't have sex, but they did everything else ;). They talked for hours apparently and really connected. Well Lamar left town after that, but before he did he gave her $3,000 (Sidebar: For Her Troubles I Assume? LOL) and promised to see her again. 


But with Lamar's hectic schedule and his trade to the Los Angeles Clippers it was awhile before Jennifer saw her lover again, 11 months to be exact. Until the Clippers had a game in Charlotte and they "happened" to run into each other at the Ritz-Carlton in the Lobby (Sidebar: YEAH RIGHT, Hmm). Sources for Radaronline and Star Mag say that Lamar ran up to her and gave her a big hug exclaiming that he had been looking for her and was glad to see her. Well right after that they had consummated their "love" and had sex all night. Lamar couldn't enough of his new love, he was insatiable says a friend of Jennifer's. That began the actual affair that went on for several months. Flying Jennifer all over the country so that he can see her. He even went so far as to tell Jennifer he wanted a threesome which she obliged with one of her friends. 


As the Clippers entered in the playoffs and filming for Keeping Up with Karshadians began it was difficult for Lamar to find time to see Jennifer and their relationship tapered off. Causing heartbreak for Jennifer. But when the Clippers were put out of the playoffs he reportedly ran back to her only to find an angry heartbroken woman who wanted nothing to do with him. 

Well Khloe got wind of the tryst and threw Lamar out! This story is alleged and Khloe's rep denies the cheating at all. Says this never happened. Since this story broke Lamar and Khloe have tried to make it work but it was Lamar who walked out and moved out of Khloe's home. Apparently he's tired of being a "Kardashian".

The mistress claims she has proof of the affair. Hotel invoices, ticket stubs, plane tickets, and more. She says that Lamar put her up in hotels and used his friend Anthony McNair as a cover. All the hotel stays, tickets, etc were put in McNair's name to cover his tracks. Jennifer claims she didn't do this for fame but I beg to differ.

My 2-Cents

First off if Lamar was cheating that's terrible for Khloe. I feel really bad for her. And if he was tired of being a "Kardashian" I can understand that too. But that doesn't condone his behavior or his actions. As for this woman Jennifer I have to say this seems to be a lot of BS. I'm sorry but her friend says this was not a ploy to be famous this was "love". Love? How can you fall in love with a married man? And why would you put yourself in a position where you are coming between a man and his wife? If they are having problems then tell him to either shit or get off the pot as my mother would say. No use in straddling the fence. 

When I read this article I was so angry not at Lamar but at Jennifer. She entered into the relationship under the guise of knowing that Lamar was married. His marriage is very public and we all know who he was married too. But she decided to see him anyway. You may have fallen in love, Jennifer I'll give you that but your intentions were not good by any means. All you cared about was yourself. You damn sure didn't give a damn about Khloe. 

And this whole "Kardashian" thing is BS. If Lamar didn't like the fact that the Kardashian name is major and overpowers their marriage or that he had to participate in the show Keeping Up With the Karsdashian's, Khloe would've done anything to make him feel comfortable and secure in their marriage. She took his last name when she married him. Kim didn't even do that in her 72 year marriage (SideBar: I wonder if Kim will take Kanye's last name if they get married? Hmm anyway I bet it won't be on tv, believe that). Khloe seems to be very good at assuring her man that she gonna ride for him. She does it all the time on the show. Think about? If you watch Keeping Up With The Kardashian's Khloe is very vocal about ensuring that she is an Odom. She understands that she is a married woman and that comes with responsibilities to him and your household. 

I just don't see this being true. If it was then why did she wait until now to come out with it? Why didn't she just cut her losses with Lamar after she allegedly told him off for being MIA for several months? And by the way you can't get territorial over a man that wasn't even yours in the first place. Know your place. If you constantly put yourself in a Sideline Hoe position that's what you will get treated like: SIDELINE HOE, PERIOD. 

I don't mean to be mean but its strange to me how you can act like he treated you so bad and did all these things but you ALLOWED THIS TO HAPPEN TO YOU. This wasn't a mistake or he lied to you. You knew what you were getting into and you tried to take Khloe position. But it didn't work and now your bitter and trying to get even. And just to be clear I AM NOT TAKING UP FOR LAMAR. BECAUSE HE CAUSED ALL THIS DRAMA ALL HE HAD TO DO WAS COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE OR LEAVE IF HE DIDN'T FEEL LIKE IT WAS WORKING OUT. BUT NO HE COULDN'T DO THAT, CAUSE #REALTALK LAMAR WOULD NOT BE FAMOUS WITHOUT KHLOE! HE'S MEDIOCRE BASKETBALL PLAYER AND HAS THE PERSONALITY OF A WET BLANKET #ImJusSayin if all this is true then you have truly embarrassed your wife and your family.

Pull together Lamar. If this isn't true then fight tooth and nail to prove it! Protect your family and your wife. Ensure that this is refuted to the end!

Source: RadarOnline

Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 2, Sigh

Kirk has been under fire for his disrespectful and hurtful antics on last weeks episode of LHHATL. Now he's eating humble pie via Nicki Minaj. Let me explain......

You see last week Nicki took to twitter and told everyone how she felt about Kirk and his cheating. Everyone including me agreed with her tweets. Here's some of what she said:

“Damn my n***a, after 15 yrs u wld embarrass the mother of your child while she’s pregnant on nat’l tv like that? cornballs on deck. for reality tv tho? My n—a…that s–t ain’t worth it,” the curvy rapper tweeted. “If you’re trying to convince someone you’re not gay that’s the wrong way to go about it. Your wife is pregnant. U do that on nat’l tv? GTFOH.”

“Having problems is one thing, broadcasting it on a tv show for some air time is another. That woman stayed by your side. how dare u? And i dare u to say it ain’t none of my business. u done sold it to vh1. Its everybody business,” the Twitter rant continued. “Its levels to this s–t…lol…the lower level minds will never understand that. You’re willing to ruin a 15 yr bond for vh1? el stupido.”

Kirk has decided to break his silence about her tweets. TMZ talked with Kirk and asked him what he felt about it, here's what he said:

“Nicki Minaj is a woman and she was speaking about me doing inappropriate things. I can’t fault her for that. Every woman in America who watched felt the way Nicki did,” he said. 

“Not only was doing it on the show inappropriate, but it was inappropriate period. And I hurt my wife.”

Kirk even told TMZ that Rasheeda is "DONE" with him. This is all reported by TMZ, considered a rumor to me until confirmed. I don't know if she officially left Kirk or not. Probably won't know that until the reunion. The fact that he did this to her on television I think is hardest part for people to understand. Cheating is bad enough but he did it on a grand scale. Guess we'll have wait on the reunion.

Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta airs every Monday @ 8pm on VH1 (Channel 335 on DirecTV)

Sources: VH1 & TMZ

Oh What A Tangled Web We Weave...The Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 1

Alexis Miller is allegedly pregnant and is telling everyone to "Hide their Husbands". Kirk you are such an idiot. You have royally screwed yourself and have embarrassed your wife 30x over.

On MadameNoire.com its being reported that model and self professed lover of married men Alexis Miller was not shy about her recent sexual trist on Monday's episode of LHHATL. She had no regard for a pregnant Rasheeda and her feelings or the fact that Kirk was married. In fact she preferred it that way. In the hot tub she was the main one instigating that Kirk have his fun with them and worry about his wife later. It was disgusting and just flat out wrong.

But Ms. Miller didn't give a damn. After the show aired she was tracked down by "#BlackTwitter" and basically massacred called everything from a hoe to a home wrecker. She defended herself against the flood of hatred she righfully deserved by saying:

“F**k how u feeling cause business is business, its Strictly financial…”
“Best thing to do is fall back Stay in ur lane and ima stay in mine… Cause this not what u want!!!”
“2 for that Team! Lmao guess its ok to kiss once cast member one day then another the next Who’s a h*e again? Ohh right.” “Stop tweeting me just Hide Your Husbands…”
“I’ll be the BAD gyrl…” -See more at: MadameNoire.com

And on top of all of that. There are pictures of Alexis and Rasheeda actually being friendly or rather cordial before all this went down. SMDH.

On the flip end of that HelloBeautiful is reporting [via Mediatakeout] that she telling friends and family that she's PREGNANT. And in talks with the shows producers to get on the show as a part of the storyline for next season. This is alleged and none of it has been confirmed.

Personally this entire story is messed up. Kirk was dead ass wrong for what he did. He has been asked about his alleged cheating in countless interviews and he has dodged answering the questions and even blamed it on something being put in his drink. Ridiculous. Kirk and Rasheeda have been out promoting her song "Hit it from the Back" on popular radio stations around the country. They always say the same thing when asked about the cheating scandal and their relationship. "We're trying to make work." "Kirk has a lot of work to do to get back into my good graces. And he's been trying." Always something along those lines.

As a married woman this kind of behavior by other women doesn't surprise me. I've seen women like that with my husband, just the thrill of being able to take a man from his wife is enthralling to them. That chick Alexis knew what she was doing. She also knew that Kirk was married and Rasheeda was pregnant. And they were somewhat friends. Your trifling and its sad that you could do that to a friend or someone you know.

Money or not, real or not this was broadcasted all over the United States. You look like a tramp that was willing to do anything for fame and fortune. You look like a home wrecker and a hoe. I think this entire thing, encouraging Kirk to cheat by condoning his carefree attitude and her entire attitude toward the situation is a ploy to be a reality star. She wants her own fame and fortune and she had to be the other woman in order to do that. Think about it she said it herself: "This is business. Strictly Financial". I don't know sounds real suspect to me. Mona Scott-Young hasn't said a word about putting the woman on the show but knowing Mona I wouldn't put it past her if she wanted to or did. Because drama pushes ratings and high ratings brings in the money. Point Blank Period!

Kirk if this is real, your bastard and deserve to be by yourself. Rasheeda I hope you get yourself together go back to Deb hire her as your manager and get your music out there for everyone to hear.

Sources: Mediatakeout, HelloBeautiful, WordOnDaStreet, & MadameNoire

In Facebook News.....Woman Catches Her Man In Bed with Another Man!

Saw this on Facebook and I just couldn't discuss it here. So here's the skinny:

This man below cheated on his wife with a man while she was at work. 

Check out her recount of the whole ordeal below and then see what I have to say.

HER WORDS ARE HERE BELOW:

This is a real pix. I live in 5 minutes from Atlanta, but I work 2 hours away. A month ago my supervisor let me off early because there was damage to the ceiling from a rain storm.

I walked in my house and saw clothes on the hallway floor. I walked in my bedroom and saw what you are seeing.

The man with the thumb in his mouth is my husband. I have no idea who the other man is. I took this pix with my camera. I did not wake my husband. I just left. He has not seen me since. He has not attempted to call me or even drive to my work place.

My 2 Cents...

This is just sad. As a woman you already have insecurities or are threatened by another woman who is prettier, more confident, the list goes on and on. Now having to deal with men too, is too much. I'm an avid believer in the saying "To Each His Own". I believe who your attracted to is your business. But if your a married man sleeping with men on low, that's messed up. Its difficult for a woman to deal with a man cheating on them with another woman. Your parts are the same, they work, probably so the question is always "What does she have, that I don't?". Its a whole different ball game when you catch your man in bed with another MAN! Nothing that this man has can be provided by a woman. 

How can you be so disrespectful that you would bring another person into your marital home and bed. The nerve of this man to do something so trifling and disrespectful. Then the woman left and never returned home, but the crazy part about that is he never contacted her after that. So no divorce proceedings, no phone calls, no text messages, no nothing. I couldn't believe what I read and saw. Why wouldn't you just divorce your wife and leave it at that? Instead you go out and cheat with another man? Not ACCEPTABLE!

I know some people agree with cheating, but to me cheating is about greed and selfishness. Your not willing to let go of your spouse or partner and let them be free. No you need to hang on to them and bang out on some side piece. Nothing about that says Good Idea! Everything about that screams insecure, selfish, greedy, hurtful; the list goes on and on. It just seems like your trying to punish them. Cheating is a ripple effect of emotion that can turn into a tsunami and consume a person. Some people will forever question every person in their life and never fully trust anyone because of one incident. How powerful is that? 

The woman posted the picture on Facebook to forever put the man on blast for his disrespectful ways. I don't blame her. Honestly what really shocked me the most is that this guy didn't try to track down his wife or even call her after she left without a warning. It worries me when my husband goes to the store up the street! This story is sad and disappointing. I hope and pray that another woman never has to go through this type of idiotic bullshit again. 


Tell me what you think about this story and what would you do if this is what you came home to?

Kirk the Jerk Explains All...Personally I Don't Give A Damn, But I'm a Tell It Anyway

Its no secret that Kirk has been acting like a total JERK toward his pregnant wife Rasheeda and unborn child. Now honestly I'm not a big fan of Rasheeda's but she is a real chick and real recognize real. And in this case I would be a damn fool to side with Kirk. But I'm a break it down for those who are unclear why everyone has been raging against Kirk in this season of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta.

Since the beginning of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta they have not been the perfect couple. In the 1st Season everyone sided with Kirk. Rasheeda was being completely unreasonable with Kirk as her manager. She completely disrespected him by going behind his back and seeking management somewhere else. And on top of all of that she neglected him to focus on what she called her rising career. Personally I thought she was being selfish spoiled and ignorant. She wanted this independent label career and she got it but what was unhappy with the result. Rasheeda wasn't willing to work with Kirk, she expected everything to be completed the way she wanted by Kirk without her being involved behind the scenes. But anyway the problem got resolved and everything was fine or so people thought.

Season 2 begins and I admit I missed many of the episodes but the jest of the situation is Rasheeda is pregnant and the way she told him to me was crazy. She tells she's pregnant like it's a burden and something she didn't want. Which I'm sure in her eyes it was. Her career was beginning to move again and they were making moves in her favor. But none the less she is pregnant. And instead of Kirk consoling his wife and being there for her. You know like saying something along the lines of "Baby I know its something you didn't want right now, but its okay we gone work through it let's try and focus on what we can while your pregnant and put a few other things on hold until you give birth." But Kirk just went off like Rasheeda got pregnant on her own. Telling her to get an abortion and being really just flat out evil towards her. She was holding her own though but it was terrible to see Kirk's stupidity play out on TV like that. Going to Benzino's house with strippers in the background talking about how he pulled out and used condoms. Just a big idiota!



Recently on Streetz Morning Grind, Kirk and Rasheeda stopped by to talk up some of their projects and of course their drama on Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta. Here's some excerpts of what he said:

“I mean if you feeling a certain kind of way…At that moment in time, it was a lot going on. It’s so long to explain. It was one of them things where I was saying what’s on my mind, I was pissed off about a few things. Then Rasheeda mom all in the marriage. I mean I was like ‘Come on, it’s between me and you [Rasheeda.] You paying some bills over here? Let me handle mine.” - See more at: Bossip.com

Rasheeda and Kirk go back forth about the accusations of her cheating (including his admitted infidelity) and Rasheeda explained why she went to see her mother about her relationship with Kirk. When the topic was brought up about the DNA test; he explains it by recalling an DNA test he had with another woman over the paternity of her child who she claimed was his. Here's what he said:

“Here’s an example for me. This is one of my examples. And I know everybody gone be like ‘Ahh, what that got to do with…’ Let’s see, three years ago, all of a sudden, I get a phone call right? Somebody says ‘Yo, I need you to go take a blood test. I think this child may be yours.’ So another man is raising a child, I go take the little swab test, come back and it’s my son. So I found out I had a kid three years ago. But for me, as a guy…You can’t just always believe in what a woman tell you just because [she's your wife.]…Somebody else just raised my kid ’til he was almost 18 years old. He just found out that I’m his father…It’s women in general. You gotta understand…Listen, why not check and make sure a child is yours? Why not?” - See more at: Bossip.com

Here's the interview below:




It's really sad actually. Kirk is an absolute clown. There is no reason for a man to be that old and that stupid. Rasheeda girl you've really bagged a good one, I GUESS. But I'm not hating. Because you know what marriage is hard work. It takes time, dedication, love and trust. A child is a huge responsibility and should never be aborted over anything trivial. It is important that every decision regarding a child is well thought out. If you didn't want a baby then you should've stayed wrapped up at all times. Plenty of performers have gotten pregnant had their children and still been able to do what they do everyday. Its hard true enough but with some clear level headed thinking it can be done.

First off it seems like Waka Flocka's mother Deb knows what she's doing. She told Rasheeda that the video basically looked ratchet with her being pregnant, rapping about hitting it from the back (at least thats what I thought about it and took from what she said). And for the record it was ratchet be it a metaphor or truth. Further more Deb is also right about Rasheeda focusing on the endorsement deals. You can still do meet ups, grand openings, all of that. And your studio time will be focused, you'll have better quality music all that. But Rasheeda is not aware of how to do this on her own and she's making mistakes that can't be undone. I thought the photo shoot was a good idea. But the video was not. She looked pregnant and it just seemed so wrong to shoot a video about sex when your pregnant. I don't know but if I was Rasheeda's manager and I found out she was pregnant I would have made sure she was clear on the circumstances and laid out a clear plan for her while she was pregnant and then after she had the baby about 3 or 4 months depending on she feels then we can start the videos and photo shoots again.

I hope Kirk has been on his hands and knees apologizing to Rasheeda for the stupidity and idiotic attitude he has had lately. He is a true dope and no matter what he says everyone will view him as the biggest jerk in the world. Point, Blank, Period.

Rasheeda I hope everything works out for you, your unborn baby, and dumb ass Kirk too. Girl marriage is a marathon not a sprint probably one of the best things to remember when your in a marriage. Trials and tribulations is par for the course.

Source: Bossip.com

Kordell v. Porsha - Round 2

Well I knew it was coming, it was just a matter of time. According to Bossip [via TMZ], Kordell Stewart has locked his soon to be ex-wife Porsha out of the house and changed the locks!

This divorce between them is getting really ugly. Apparently Porsha had to move in with her mother because Kordell locked Porsha out of the house and changed the locks. Porsha had to ask her attorney to persuade Kordell's people to give her a copy of the key but he won't budge. Porsha has filed new documents in family court asking the judge to force Kordell to ensure she has a key made or fork over some dough so that she can have a suitable residence to live in. But Kordell ain't having it. Recently Porsha tried to be amicable with Kordell but he wouldn't play ball, he called it "a waste of every ones time".

Porsha honey you better do battle. Kordell I don't know what the hell is going and personally I don't care. You wanted a woman who was at home with you and waiting on you, well baby you got it! Your very old fashioned and insecure it seems. Funny now you blindside this woman publicly with this divorce and refuse to pay her any alimony or anything. Porsha you need to pull yourself together. Fight for everything you deserve. The judge should and probably will side with you. Kordell wanted a stay at home wife and he got it.

Porsha you need to further your education in media since you are a reality star. Go another route beyond what most reality stars do (beyond the clothing lines, cosmetics, shoes, etc). Find a niche in television that you like. Be it in front or behind the camera. You'd be a great TV personality. Seriously, I think you need clean Kordell out! Get everything you can out of this divorce and then move on with your life.

Good Luck Porsha!

Source: Bossip.com & TMZ.com

Fake Divorce? Really Porsha & Kordell, REALLY?!

Apparently this wasn't as treacherous on Kordell's part after all. It actually was a ploy to keep Porsha and Kordell on the show. And IT WORKED! Here's the skinny according to an insider Porsha and Kordell were both informed that their contracts for Bravo's Real Housewives of Atlanta would not be renewed. To stir up some mess for themselves as well as ratings the created this fake divorce complete with lawyers, rumors, everything you could think of. 

According to the insider Kordell and Porsha never planned on getting a divorce. They've been living together this entire time as man and wife. The entire story of Kordell blindsiding her with a divorce was a complete LIE! Well their little ploy worked. A Bravo executive has confirmed that they have asked them to return to the show and they've accepted. The insider claims they thought if they pulled a "NeNe" and create a fake divorce they would be more valuable to the show. WHATEVER?!!!!

What do I think? Total BS!

If this is true then Porsha you are ratchet as hell and Kordell your just as dirty. First off why can't these shows ever be real? Why can't they be about people who have real friendships, who hang around each other and chronicle that? Instead of throwing people who might run in the same circles into a situation with fake parties and fake vacations. 

Second I don't think NeNe and Greg had a fake divorce. It was clear they had marital problems and it wasn't just on TV. But if the divorce was fake that is despicable. Putting their youngest son through all the drama they had. I HOPE that it was not all a ploy. Seriously, by either Porsha or NeNe. It would be in very poor taste if it was! 

I really hope this is just another rumor and not real. Cause if it is the press is going to have a field day. And Bravo's going to have to make some major changes to their "Reality Franchise" with Kenya creating boyfriends and "Possible" fake divorces by Porsha and NeNe. Whats next fake pregnancies? I HOPE NOT!

SOURCE: zHipHopCleveland.com & Mediatakeout.com

Update on RHOA Divorce: Porsha Fires Back!

This divorce between Kordell and Porsha is getting worse. Porsha is fighting back and she's gut punching that fool! She filed papers in court to get the house and alimony. Kordell had already filed a document with his divorce documents, in court saying that she was able bodied and didn't need support of any kind. Newsone.com reports Porsha and her legal team claim that Porsha gave up her life/career. Devoted herself to him and to being a stepmother for his son from a previous relationship. While Kordell was deceiving and conniving about divorcing Porsha. Porsha was committed to working on their marriage and remained loyal.

There are so many different reports it's hard to keep this story straight. First I was researching to find an update on Porsha and Kordell's divorce I found several reports that they are reconciling. What?! Reconciling after all that, that can't be true. There was one report saying that Kordell is divorcing her because she can't get pregnant. WOW! I hope that this is not true. Because if it is that would be the most despicable and disgusting thing I have heard. Then I read another report saying that Kordell had a new woman just days after the divorce! OMG! You can't be serious!

Let me put this way: I don't know one way or the other if these reports are actually true. I'm going play devils advocate here and say that they are all false and this divorce is happening. Kordell and Porsha are going to fight naturally because of the way this divorce went down. I hope Kordell does right by Porsha.

My initial thoughts of Porsha was that she was naive and inexperienced. That hasn't changed and but this will give her the opportunity to be stronger and become wiser. I think being on the show will really give Porsha the time she needs to find herself. It's sad that it had to happen this way but  things happen for reason. And now its time for Porsha to stop walking in Kordell's shadow and stand on her own two feet. It'll be a liberating experience and she'll never want to go back to being subservient. I promise you that!

Source: Newone.com

Unbelievable! Aries Spears Gives Custody of His Son to His Estranged Wife

Aries Spears reportedly relinquished full custody of his son to his soon to be ex-wife Elisa Larregui. Apparently this occurred after a domestic dispute between the estranged couple. Elisa and Aries have been married for a little more than 2 years. Their relationship according to his wife was less than perfect. She alleges that Aries swung a bat at her (nearly killing her) recently during a spat the couple was having. She also claimed that Aries was verbally abusive to her child from a previous relationship. 

Aries Spears has been court ordered to stay at least 100 yards away from his estranged wife and children. Elisa filed for divorce last month and has plans to move to Florida which Mr. Spears will paying for. Her reasoning for divorce is "irreconcilable differences".  A common reasoning for divorce in Hollywood. 

Aries Spears lawyer released a statement saying (via NewsOne.com):

“The family is mending and for the moment, they have chosen to place some distance between themselves. Aries and Elisa have been communicating peaceably and have worked things out between themselves. Aries looks forward to spending quality time with his son.”

I'm glad things are working out for him. I'm a big fan of Aries Spears, I think he's hilarious. But its unfortunate that he and his ex-wife have to go through this problems. I don't know what he was thinking with the bat situation, if that's true. If it is that's messed up. I hope that he's communicating with his ex-wife peacefully and worked everything out. For the sake of the kids, I hope he gets himself together so that he doesn't react like this again if put in the same situation. 

Good luck to you Aries and Elisa! I hope everything works out with you and your kids. 

Source: NewsOne.com

IT'S OVER! Porsha and Kordell are Getting DIVORCED!

Photo of Porsha & Kordell Stewart via Bossip.com

Kordell Stewart former quarterback in the NFL has filed for divorce from his wife of 2 years Porsha Stewart. Its coming as a complete to shock to the fans of the show (including me!) as well as Porsha. In a report at Us Weekly, Porsha was completely blindsided by the news. Kordell Stewart has released a statement through his lawyer Shiel G. Edlin here's a copy via Bossip.com:

Well apparently their picture perfect world wasn't as perfect as Porsha led the world to believe. They played the part well. Loving toward each other, laughing and joking. They appeared to be happy. But obviously behind closed doors one of them was just looking for the exit and they found it! It seems things were rocky from the very beginning. They've only been married for  2 years. It seems to me likeKordell didn't formally tell Porsha up front that he was divorcing her. She found out just like you and I, through the media! She is devastated according to her reps. Its really sad and my heart goes out to Porsha.

Here's an excerpt from Us Weekly on Porsha's well-being:

Picture of Porsha Stewart via UsWeekly.com

"She was 100 percent completely blindsided. Friends are trying to contact her but she's not picking up her phone or returning texts,"

Read more: http://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/kordell-stewart-divorcing-porsha-stewart-shes-completely-blindsided-2013263#ixzz2OhCU5Z4K 

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Wow I never thought this would come. Kordell seemed like a really standup dude. I didn't think that he would go about it this way. But I have to say we don't know the dynamic of their marriage or what happened. All we know is what is being said and whats being implied. Lord please have mercy on both of their souls. They look like they need some prayer. It was clear during the show that Porsha wasnt completely plugged in as far as knowing what she wanted in life and in her marriage. Kordell was swifter and it was easy for him to keep control over things. But I think Porsha liked it that way. I don't think she really thought about what she wanted to do for herself until she was on the Real Housewives of Atlanta. Sometimes when you see others moving and shaking it lights a fire under you to want something to claim for yourself.

I know that if Porsha surrounds herself with positive minded people she will pull herself up and she'll be happy. Her Real Housewives cast mates are supportive, even those who aren't too keen on Porsha. Here's some of those support tweets:

Good Luck, Porsha. You'll be just fine. Once you realize this is for the best everything will come together. Stay strong Porsha, I'm a pray for you.

Source: UsWeekly.com & Bossip.com

Kevin Wins Bargain in Divorce Settlement Against His Ex-Wife Torrei

Kevin Hart

Kevin Hart probably one of the funniest and most sought after comedian of our time has finalized the legalities of his divorce from his ex-wife and the mother of his 2 children,  Torrei Hart. Kevin and Torrei were married for 7 years. In 2010 it was alleged through many different media outlets (such as mediatakeout.com & tmz.com) that Kevin Hart had been cheating on Torrei and they were in the process of a divorce. After the 2011 release of his highly successful comedy standup film Laugh at My Pain, Kevin was spotted out with a woman NOT his wife and rumors began to swirl. Kevin and Torrei's marriage was officially over in November of 2011.

They still had some small kinks to work out of course. Its being reported that there was a pre-nuptial agreement in place during their marriage. So Kevin of course would be protected. Under the guise of the pre-nup Torrei gets to keep her jewelry and the Escalade truck. After Kevin's attorney finished working out the kinks here's what they agreed to: Kevin will pay Torrei a lump sum of $175,000 and a monthly stipend for child support of $19, 785. Kevin Hart's net worth is reportedly 9 million. For a divorce in hollywood this is probably the most communicable and quiet one ever. Compared to Kelsey Grammar and his ex-Kamille this is a heavenly divorce.

Kevin Hart & Now Ex-Wife Torrei Hart

No one knows what happened or why they really got a divorce but it seems to be working out for the both of them. They seem to have a great relationship with their children and I think they will co-parent beautifully. Torrei has a great YouTube channel and Kevin Hart has a hilarious tv show on BET "The Real House Husbands of Hollywood" & 2 new movies this year "Let Me Explain" and "The End of the World". They both seem to be driven in what they want to do with their lives and careers and it seems to be working for them right now. People are skeptical at why Torrei isn't getting more money from Kevin but honestly I don't think she wants it. I don't think this was about money for her. They gave her a little over 100k and she gets the child support. This speaks to the character of the woman and the man as well as the nature of the relationship.

Let's hope everything goes well for the both them. I wish them both the best of luck on their journey and hope for a friendly co-parenting relationship if they don't already have one.

Source: HelloBeautiful.com