Shay v. Erica...Shay "Buckeey" Johnson @ The Breakfast Club Just Riding Erica. Hmm...Seems Like Erica was On to Something about Her Mouth

Well Shay is trying to keep herself in the limelight by busting Erica allegedly. Shay was on The Breakfast Club on Power 105 and she was there to basically out Erica and discredit her from being the victim of Scrappy's infidelity to alleging that she was the original cheater during her relationship with Scrappy. Mind you all the information Shay is spewing came from Scrappy. Just something to keep in the back of your mind. 

Now the reunion for Love and Hip Hop Atlanta was tapped last week. It was a lot revealed at the reunion apparently. One of the things Shay decided to share with the entire world including the Breakfast Club was that at the reunion Scrappy revealed how Erica was sleeping with a married man and got pregnant by him! Wow shocking! She also alleges that Erica cheated on Scrappy first. She claimed Erica cheated early on in the relationship and that's when Scrappy started sleeping with other women, that's when he officially began cheating.

Let me tell you why this information that Shay is releasing is not surprising. First off all Shay is doing all this because of something that happened last year. But her anger is misguided. Yeah she and Erica have words on twitter or whatever but on the flip Shay knew exactly what was going on between Erica and Scrappy and she didn't care about her daughter or Erica. Her main focus was getting next to Scrappy and being his main woman. When it backfired she turns into a scorned woman who vents her anger at the very woman she tried to burn.

If Erica was with a married man and got pregnant that was poor decision made her part. But does it surprise me, Hell Naw! I'm going tell you why. She chose to be with a man [Scrappy] and accept his proposal after she saw his infidelity on national TV and after he left her the first time for Diamond. So her being with someone else who was also unavailable does not shock me at all.

Shay is always on this tip of saying she does not care for Erica. But honestly who can believe you when you do shit like this? Your always trying to discredit her. Like your trying to prove that you're the better woman and everyone should be on your side rather than hers. Here's the harsh reality: NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU TRY TO BASH HER, YOU AND HER WILL NEVER BE JUDGED THE SAME. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE JUDGED AS A SIDE LINE HOE, A PART OF THE BOTTOM BITCH THEORY. ERICA WILL ALWAYS BE JUDGED AS THE MAIN CHICK WHO KEEPS MAKING THE SAME DUMB ASS MISTAKES AS FAR AS CHOOSING A MAN WHO YOU KNOW IS NOT READY FOR THE COMMITMENT THAT YOU WANT.

Shay here's some advice: Let This Shit Go new acronym L.T.S.G. I just feel like this doesn't do anything for you, your career or anything. It's difficult to take your seriously when seeing you act like a jester in the court, trying to entertain the masses. Girl pull it together go back to video modeling, male magazine modeling, etc. Do your work and be on your hustle. Find a dude that really digs you and wants you for you. Not some little boy who still sucking on his momma titty! Honestly I think your a cool chick but if you are blinded by dick that much then honey you have a serious problem.

Erica you seem like a strong woman and there is no reason for you to be fighting or putting up with this foolishness. Honestly I hope that you care enough about yourself not to entertain this nonsense. Shay is not worth your self pride and your daughter looks up to you. Is this the type of woman you want your daughter to idolize? I don't think this is what you want.

Just stop fighting with her. You don't have to be her friend. But you can be cordial. BE AN ADULT. There is no reason to fight with her. Sit down with her woman to woman and tell her this: Listen I know we've had our differences but I'm willing to let bygones be bygones just to keep the peace. There is no reason for me to argue with you or be fighting you. I'm done with it. I will speak to you and at least acknowledge your presence when your in a room but other than that we go our separate ways and move on with our lives.

Both of ya'll need to pull it together. Really, Scrappy is a master manipulator for ya'll (for some reason). He has a strong hold on you and honestly whatever the culprit please let it go. Here's the interview, I'm going to be honest it doesn't look like they welcomed her to the show it just seemed like the let her get on the show because she was there. Take a look for yourself:



Source: HelloBeautiful

Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 2, Sigh

Kirk has been under fire for his disrespectful and hurtful antics on last weeks episode of LHHATL. Now he's eating humble pie via Nicki Minaj. Let me explain......

You see last week Nicki took to twitter and told everyone how she felt about Kirk and his cheating. Everyone including me agreed with her tweets. Here's some of what she said:

“Damn my n***a, after 15 yrs u wld embarrass the mother of your child while she’s pregnant on nat’l tv like that? cornballs on deck. for reality tv tho? My n—a…that s–t ain’t worth it,” the curvy rapper tweeted. “If you’re trying to convince someone you’re not gay that’s the wrong way to go about it. Your wife is pregnant. U do that on nat’l tv? GTFOH.”

“Having problems is one thing, broadcasting it on a tv show for some air time is another. That woman stayed by your side. how dare u? And i dare u to say it ain’t none of my business. u done sold it to vh1. Its everybody business,” the Twitter rant continued. “Its levels to this s–t…lol…the lower level minds will never understand that. You’re willing to ruin a 15 yr bond for vh1? el stupido.”

Kirk has decided to break his silence about her tweets. TMZ talked with Kirk and asked him what he felt about it, here's what he said:

“Nicki Minaj is a woman and she was speaking about me doing inappropriate things. I can’t fault her for that. Every woman in America who watched felt the way Nicki did,” he said. 

“Not only was doing it on the show inappropriate, but it was inappropriate period. And I hurt my wife.”

Kirk even told TMZ that Rasheeda is "DONE" with him. This is all reported by TMZ, considered a rumor to me until confirmed. I don't know if she officially left Kirk or not. Probably won't know that until the reunion. The fact that he did this to her on television I think is hardest part for people to understand. Cheating is bad enough but he did it on a grand scale. Guess we'll have wait on the reunion.

Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta airs every Monday @ 8pm on VH1 (Channel 335 on DirecTV)

Sources: VH1 & TMZ

Drake v. Chris Brown No More! Drake Wants to Talk it Out! Time for Peace

Now usually I'm all for the drama. But in this case I'm tired of it! Chris Brown and Drake have been feuding over Rihanna and other DISS topics for years and its getting old. Chris tried to extend an olive branch once before but Drake wasn't having it and feud continued. Now Drake is on the giving end, he's officially ready to talk it out with Chris and end their feud. Although there have been reports that Chris Brown has said that he will continue to blast Drake, I don't believe that. I believe after he was denied the peace the first time Chris is not going to be suckered into no pissing match with anyone again. The last time that happened people were injured and people sued! Drake has also said that he doesn't want another confrontation, but if he it happens he's not going to back down.

Never the less I think a sit down is a great idea. These two guys are the biggest stars on the planet right now. Fortunately it wouldn't be nothing just say "Look lets let by bygones be bygones and start fresh. No diss tracks, no ill talk in the media nothing. Let's just do what we do best and work on building a friendship. If there is no friendship to be had then let's be professional and cordial. I respect you and you respect me." That's how you do it. Real Men, don't fight over a Woman. I'm sorry but there are millions of women in the world and as far as I'm concerned Rihanna was not the one for either one of you. It's time for y'all to grow up! Stop acting like cavemen and act like the gentlemen I know you both can be.

June Issue of GQ: Drake Clean Cut, LOVE IT!

Drake, I just want to say this to you whether you read this or not. You are a man of many talents your music is awesome (sometimes) and I can listen to just about all of your albums all day long. But your attitude sucks. I don't know if that's how people are portraying you or if this is how you present yourself to the world but I feel like you need to have some humility. The first time you were in GQ magazine I was stoked! I was like YES! One of my favorite rappers/actors is in my favorite men's fashion magazine. I'm copping it 100%! Then I get it on my iPad and you look GOOD, nice smile, scruffy hair but that's OK lol, and you had a on a good looking suit. So far so good right? But then I read your interview and every other word was Mutha****** this and S*** that. It was horrible. Listen as a black man you have too many strikes against you. There is a way to conduct yourself in public. Don't act like your mother didn't teach you any manners. Conduct yourself like a gentlemen, act all times. Its time out for this rude rapper persona. Lil Wayne, brilliant artist but no one is going to tolerate that thug mentality all the time (let's hope in this month's issue of GQ you have curbed that). You have to EVOLVE. You idolize Jay-Z then take your cues from him. Do you see him cussing and acting like he ain't got no home training? No! Jay-Z conducts himself like a well educated business man, because that's what he is PERIOD. I think you trying to end this drama between you and Chris is a great idea. But you are just now seeing the light. You did an interview on the radio a couple months ago blasting the man. So I wouldn't expect the sit down to happen any time soon. You should've done this a while ago instead holding on to your ego like its prize to be won. Just L.I.G. it Drake. It's time to grow up.

January Issue of XXL Magazine: Chris Brown, It's Hot!!

Chris, I think your music is awesome. But you also have work to do. I was watching Fuse a couple days ago and you were answering questions (on the set of Tanks new video Shots Fired) about people taking shots at you through the social/media. It amazed me how you said you didn't care about it. You have made some questionable decisions in your youth. Decisions that you will probably have to pay for the rest of your life. It's time to just accept it. Don't get me wrong I think you have grown so much and you've tried to shake that image that people have of you. Its been a long hard road. You owned up to your mistakes and you've continued to pay the price for what happened between you and Rihanna. It's sad but true. As a man you need to let it go with Drake. Stop and think for a second, Drake would never have been able to be with Rihanna unless she welcomed it. Nobody ever steals a mate, they usually go willingly. You have to understand that that was a long time ago. Your feelings, Drake's and Rihanna's have changed drastically. You need to make up with him not for the world or him but for yourself. When you carry around all that hatred, it takes its toll on your body and mind. It affects you. Its a burden that doesn't need to be carried. Just forgive, don't forget. Start fresh with Drake. You don't have to be buddy buddy, but I think you should at least make an effort to squash this ridiculous feud between you two.

There is no need for this to even be going on. Hip Hop and R&B are so competitive. Why can't you guys work together like Country Western artists do. Most of them are really good friends with each other. They work well with each other. Its so simple and easy to do. And by the way all of them, all of them have their multi-platinum albums, Grammy awards, and world wide tours just like you. Trust me being civil towards each other is the best route to go. It will be better than the alternative: being thrown out or banned from clubs for fighting, being sued for damages, constantly having to answer questions about your feud, debating whether your going to an event because the other guy might be there, constantly being angry for NOTHING, never ending media amping up the feud, etc. Just L.I.G. it! For Real!

I say these things out of love for the both of you. I don't think I can go a day without either one of your music on my phone, computer, iPad or iPod. I listen both of you at least once a day both old and new music (including mixtapes). Seriously I wish you both the best of luck and I hope that you two work it out!

Source: RollingOut.com

Fake Divorce? Really Porsha & Kordell, REALLY?!

Apparently this wasn't as treacherous on Kordell's part after all. It actually was a ploy to keep Porsha and Kordell on the show. And IT WORKED! Here's the skinny according to an insider Porsha and Kordell were both informed that their contracts for Bravo's Real Housewives of Atlanta would not be renewed. To stir up some mess for themselves as well as ratings the created this fake divorce complete with lawyers, rumors, everything you could think of. 

According to the insider Kordell and Porsha never planned on getting a divorce. They've been living together this entire time as man and wife. The entire story of Kordell blindsiding her with a divorce was a complete LIE! Well their little ploy worked. A Bravo executive has confirmed that they have asked them to return to the show and they've accepted. The insider claims they thought if they pulled a "NeNe" and create a fake divorce they would be more valuable to the show. WHATEVER?!!!!

What do I think? Total BS!

If this is true then Porsha you are ratchet as hell and Kordell your just as dirty. First off why can't these shows ever be real? Why can't they be about people who have real friendships, who hang around each other and chronicle that? Instead of throwing people who might run in the same circles into a situation with fake parties and fake vacations. 

Second I don't think NeNe and Greg had a fake divorce. It was clear they had marital problems and it wasn't just on TV. But if the divorce was fake that is despicable. Putting their youngest son through all the drama they had. I HOPE that it was not all a ploy. Seriously, by either Porsha or NeNe. It would be in very poor taste if it was! 

I really hope this is just another rumor and not real. Cause if it is the press is going to have a field day. And Bravo's going to have to make some major changes to their "Reality Franchise" with Kenya creating boyfriends and "Possible" fake divorces by Porsha and NeNe. Whats next fake pregnancies? I HOPE NOT!

SOURCE: zHipHopCleveland.com & Mediatakeout.com

K. Michelle is Leaving Love & Hip Hop: ATL!

K. Michelle claims she's tired of the drama on Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta. And on several occasions she has mentioned that this season will be her last on the hard hitting reality drama. During a DC concert K. Michelle made a big announcement about her departure and had a little message for her co-stars as well. Here's what she said via Madamenoire.com: 

“I’m announcing that, I won’t be on ‘Love & Hip Hop’…I just feel like when God is brining you to the positive, it’s very hard to say ‘Thank you Jesus and f**k you b****es’,” she told fans during a D.C. concert. 

Read more at http://madamenoire.com/272533/k-michelle-nabs-spin-off-with-vh1/#1gXjTx8gq5zFWmAq.99 

There was a rumor that K. Michelle was getting her own show on VH1 and she confirmed that on a radio station during an interview in February via Madamenoire.com:

“God is just bringing me to a whole different place. My mouth is still bad. I drink and act a fool. But, I just don’t think that [Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta] is where I need to be. I do have my own show coming on VH1. You guys are gonna like that one a lot. You really are,” she said before going into her popular “I Just Wanna F**k” track.
Read more at http://madamenoire.com/272533/k-michelle-nabs-spin-off-with-vh1/#1gXjTx8gq5zFWmAq.99 

Its also being reported by theJasmineBrand, that K. Michelle (as well as Lil Scrappy & Karlie Redd) was a no show to a premiere party for Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta Season 2.

K. Michelle...K. Michelle, oh lawd you are just a mess but I love that about you! Listen, I actually dig K. Michelle. She's brash, outlandish, and her mouth has no filter. But thats one of the things I love about her. She's an awesome singer and entertainer. But sometimes if people don't understand it they will get offended. I just think she needs to tone it down for a little bit. Her strong opinion and I don't care attitude is what making her look like a true "villain" on the show. Most of the time the things she says are true and need to be said but she doesn't sugar coat what she says it just comes out and you have to accept it regardless. 

I'm glad she's moving on. It really doesn't do her justice to be on the show. Its a messy show with a lot of drama and back biting. If it was scripted it would be a show that you watch like Scandal or the Good Wife. But because its reality it really does look BAD! On Mona Scott for putting it out there and for the cast members of the show. Case in point: When Flavor of Love and I Love New York were popular it was because of the devious nature of these people to win. They were never in love with the man or the woman of the show. They were in love with being on tv. It got so bad that VH1 shied away from those types of shows and began what I call the "Housewive/Frenemy" format. Throw a set group of people into a situation some of them are around each other on occasion, others are meeting for the first time. And just let them have it out. Force them to throw a few parties, go on vacation together and just let the cameras roll. People would believe it more if these people were TRUE friends. For them to turn on each other the way they do I don't think they were ever real friends. 

K. Michelle, Im glad this show is all about you and no one else. It should chronicle your love life and career. Just get away from Rasheeda, Mimi and the other women (no offense to any of them but you guys have to admit that mixing K. Michelle in with those women is a recipe for disaster). Do your thing, which is music. I can't wait for the album and the show. 

Good Luck K.K. and in your words "Rock Out wit Yo Cock Out" LMAO!

Sources: MadameNoire.com & TheJasmineBrand.com

Drake Disses Chris Brown Again, This Ish Is Getting Old!

Drake and Chris Brown are at it again. Quite frankly ya'll I'm sick of it. Drake was interviewed by Rap Radar’s Elliott Wilson over at East Village Radio. He was interviewed on a number of topics. But you and I know they zeroed in on Chris Brown, Rihanna, and other idiotic topics. Here's the interview Via NecoleBitchie.com:

On why he doesn’t do a lot of media:
Media, it’s just all entrapment. I’m not in the entrapment game. I came up here today because we actually have rapport, we’re friends, and you’ve always shown me respect but everything else is entrapment. People just go up to radio, start talking too much and make mistakes.

On Chris Brown
For any media outlet that listens to this interview, don’t ask me sh-t about that man when I come up there. Leave that man alone and stop preying on his insecurities man. His insecurities are the fact that I make better music than him, that I’m more popping than him, and that at one point in life ,the woman that he loves fell into my lap and I did what a real n-gga would do and treated her with respect. So she’s not out there talking down on me. All of those things combined creates a n-gga that comes up to your radio station and is just gonna do dumb sh-t. But it shouldn’t be about tearing that man down, it shouldn’t be about wanting to see me and him tear each other down. We have an issue and it’s either gonna drag out, or maybe in ten years we’ll laugh about it over drinks, but let us solve that sh-t. It’s not me and Kendrick [Lamar], it’s not me and Hov, you’re not gonna get anything out of it. I don’t wanna hear that man rap, you know what I’m saying? Nobody wants to hear me rap against him, you’re not even going to get anything out of it. I just urge media to leave that sh-t alone.

What do people wanna see from it? You don’t wanna see two black men tearing each other down. I understand when it’s entertaining, when you feel that you might get some music out of it, but at the end of the day, nothing good can come of that situation, just leave that sh-t alone. That’s part of the reason why I don’t go up to radio. Sit up there and talk, talk, talk, I don’t wanna talk. People talk themselves into a mess. Playing my beat when he comes up there and try to get him to rap, c’mon man! That sh-t is like terrible.

I feel for him too. Every interview he does, they talk about me. It is what it is. I’m focused on this album and everything else that’s going on. I’m not thinking about that man…or that girl.

On being involved in beef and gossip
If it’s anything to do with me, if I ain’t say it [out of my mouth], chances are [I didn't say it].  Their job is to create stories. It’s not like I’m in some anti-media space. I just hate when it fuels people’s days. Get out of the house. F-ck all that bullsh-t.  At the end of the day, we are just two guys and a girl. We are regular people too. You shouldn’t care that much.

On taking responsibility for his rhymes
Just realizing that when I get in that booth, not only is the microphone on, but the microphone is on. The world is listening. I think the situation the other day with the Rocko song is a wake up call for all of us. Rap is important. The world is listening. It’s a wake up call. If you are going to say something that is going to put you at risk, make sure it’s a message worth fighting for. Not to scrutinize Rick Ross, I know him very well, that’s my guy, by all means I don’t mean to speak on another man’s situation, but just for me, it clicked, like “Wow!” And watching [Tu]pac, he felt like that message was worth fighting for. In this day and age, he would have lost corporate sponsorships and he would have lost money, but he thought that message was worth fighting for.

On why he doesn’t do a lot of endorsement deals
We love saying “No.” That’s why we are still here and we are still exciting. Preserving the brand and not just jumping out there doing every single thing that’s offered to me for a million dollars. To me a million dollars isn’t worth the mystique that I still possess when I drop a record. I don’t want to be in your face all of the time doing bubble gum ads and ads for trash bags. I’m not just going to take the first million dollar check that you give me. I’ll make a million dollars somewhere else to preserve the integrity that I still have.

On if he and The Weeknd parted ways
I mean, not necessarily. OVO was OVO and will always be OVO. All we did was embrace someone that we felt was extremely talented from our city and instead of hating on it and rejecting it, we completely embraced it and that was a big part of why it is where it is now. I mean, people make their own decisions. He went on to do something that he felt was a great decision and more power to him. I talk to him all of the time and I look forward to what he has coming in the future. I wouldn’t call it a parting of ways, I just think people reach a point when they need to make decisions and whatever decisions they make, that’s on him. OVO was always three letters and it will always stay like that.

Listen to the interview for yourself!

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Well let me just say this: this feud between ya'll is dumb and idiotic. Ya'll have been arguing about the same ish for YEARS! That gets tiring after a while. I'm a need for ya'll to just L.I.G. it. Cause seriously reading about this is so old and over with. Rihanna is obviously not phased and ya'll are arguing over pride. Nothing about this situation is prideful and every time ya'll argue about this it doesn't do anything but feed into the media that BOTH of ya'll hate.

Question: Do I think Drake's music is much better than Chris Brown's music? Eh...not so much. If your comparing the singing then answer is no. Chris Brown is a much better singer than Drake. Drake can skate by on his minimal singing but he ain't no singer. Lyrically their both in the same boat. Drake ain't no Jay-Z or Biggie and Chris Brown ain't no Tupac or Easy E..PERIOD

On a Real Talk Moment, comparing their music is like apples and oranges. They cannot be compared because each has its own little niche that makes them stand alone and unique. You never heard of Gap Band arguing with Frankie Beverly and Maze over a woman. Or the Ohio Players fighting with O'Jays. They did their thing regardless of their fellow peers and competition. The ignorance that is being exuded is amazing. 

Chris Brown hasn't said one bad thing about Drake recently (besides rapping over Drake beat in a recent radio interview). He's been interviewed countless times and he's been very mature about the situation. I can't say the same thing about Drake. Obviously he is still raw about the situation and I wish he and the rest of the world would just Let It GO! Seriously he's not even with Rihanna anymore and from the reports neither is Chris Brown. All this over a effing woman?! Half of ya'll industry dudes are passing around women like a bad cold. 

Drake accused Chris Brown of being insecure, SERIOUSLY? Who's still taking jabs? Why can't you take the high road? Compliment the man on his new single and give him a good luck on his future endeavors. Tell him I'm an adult and I harbor no hard feelings toward you. 

Well this my first and last time talking about this subject. I'm so done with this whole BEEF. 

Message to Mr. Brown & Mr. Drake

Please GROW UP! If you haven't already! This negativity will do nothing but bring you down in the end. While your constantly hating on the other person they're sleeping at night. Honestly its not a good look and no respective woman wants to be a with a weak ass man who is constantly talking about how much better his work is. Your arrogance is not attractive its a major turn off. Please practice humility. #andimthrough

Source: NecoleBitchie.com 

Omarosa is being Investigated? Why? Because of Michael Clark Duncan's Altered Will!

Source: WENN via Madamenoire.com

So Omarosa is being investigated for the drastic change in Michael Clark Duncan's will just months before he died. When Omarosa appeared on the Wendy Wiliams Show last month she was asked by Wendy if she was left anything in the will. Omarosa replied

“Let me just tell you that Michael was just the most incredible, generous soul and probably the most shocking aspect of this is that he did want to make sure that I was cared for, very, very well.”

Well Michael's sister Judy is implying that Omarosa isn't as "shocked" as she's letting on. According to TMZ, Judy Duncan hired a lawyer and is investigating the change in the will that occured in April, a couple months prior to his death. The big change was that Omarosa was named the main beneficiary in will. Judy goes on to explain that she thinks her brother was not fully coherent to understand the decision that he was making. She goes on to further explain that his speech was slurred and he had been stumbling.

Omarosa says otherwise. Here’s her statement to TMZ, “I don’t control the estate or the finances and Judy knows it. If you saw all of her emails and texts to me you would see that she is just trying to get money from me, and threatened going to press if I did not give it to her and that is a crime!” she told TMZ.

OMG! Then Judy revealed that Omarosa sold a lot of Michael's belongings including his cars, watches, awards, The Godfather Memorabilia, and his director's chair from The Green Mile. She did this without informing his family. Very distasteful!

Read more at http://madamenoire.com/271247/michael-clarke-duncans-family-believes-omarosa-may-have-coerced-him-into-adjusting-his-will-just-before-his-death/#BiBVm4XJMKe7zvh3.99 

 I have NEVER been a fan of Omarosa. But I never knew or thought she was really how she portrayed herself. I always thought she just loved the spotlight and did everything she could to be in it! But with the stories that are being told about her, I believe it. If these stories that Claudia Jordan, LaToya Jackson, and Judy Duncan are saying is true then I would have to say that Omarosa is probably one of the most disgusting people I've ever seen in my life. A man is dying and instead of caring for him and loving him, you decide this is your opportunity to get everything you think you deserve.

I'm severely angry and this isn't even my family. I hope and pray that this is not true and that she is just misunderstood or something like that. Cause if it is she'll be the most hated woman in america. She's earned that moniker once before when she was on the Apprentice the first time. But I again I hope this is not true. I hope Omarosa is better than this.

Source: Madamenoire.com

Update on RHOA Divorce: Porsha Fires Back!

This divorce between Kordell and Porsha is getting worse. Porsha is fighting back and she's gut punching that fool! She filed papers in court to get the house and alimony. Kordell had already filed a document with his divorce documents, in court saying that she was able bodied and didn't need support of any kind. Newsone.com reports Porsha and her legal team claim that Porsha gave up her life/career. Devoted herself to him and to being a stepmother for his son from a previous relationship. While Kordell was deceiving and conniving about divorcing Porsha. Porsha was committed to working on their marriage and remained loyal.

There are so many different reports it's hard to keep this story straight. First I was researching to find an update on Porsha and Kordell's divorce I found several reports that they are reconciling. What?! Reconciling after all that, that can't be true. There was one report saying that Kordell is divorcing her because she can't get pregnant. WOW! I hope that this is not true. Because if it is that would be the most despicable and disgusting thing I have heard. Then I read another report saying that Kordell had a new woman just days after the divorce! OMG! You can't be serious!

Let me put this way: I don't know one way or the other if these reports are actually true. I'm going play devils advocate here and say that they are all false and this divorce is happening. Kordell and Porsha are going to fight naturally because of the way this divorce went down. I hope Kordell does right by Porsha.

My initial thoughts of Porsha was that she was naive and inexperienced. That hasn't changed and but this will give her the opportunity to be stronger and become wiser. I think being on the show will really give Porsha the time she needs to find herself. It's sad that it had to happen this way but  things happen for reason. And now its time for Porsha to stop walking in Kordell's shadow and stand on her own two feet. It'll be a liberating experience and she'll never want to go back to being subservient. I promise you that!

Source: Newone.com

Unbelievable! Aries Spears Gives Custody of His Son to His Estranged Wife

Aries Spears reportedly relinquished full custody of his son to his soon to be ex-wife Elisa Larregui. Apparently this occurred after a domestic dispute between the estranged couple. Elisa and Aries have been married for a little more than 2 years. Their relationship according to his wife was less than perfect. She alleges that Aries swung a bat at her (nearly killing her) recently during a spat the couple was having. She also claimed that Aries was verbally abusive to her child from a previous relationship. 

Aries Spears has been court ordered to stay at least 100 yards away from his estranged wife and children. Elisa filed for divorce last month and has plans to move to Florida which Mr. Spears will paying for. Her reasoning for divorce is "irreconcilable differences".  A common reasoning for divorce in Hollywood. 

Aries Spears lawyer released a statement saying (via NewsOne.com):

“The family is mending and for the moment, they have chosen to place some distance between themselves. Aries and Elisa have been communicating peaceably and have worked things out between themselves. Aries looks forward to spending quality time with his son.”

I'm glad things are working out for him. I'm a big fan of Aries Spears, I think he's hilarious. But its unfortunate that he and his ex-wife have to go through this problems. I don't know what he was thinking with the bat situation, if that's true. If it is that's messed up. I hope that he's communicating with his ex-wife peacefully and worked everything out. For the sake of the kids, I hope he gets himself together so that he doesn't react like this again if put in the same situation. 

Good luck to you Aries and Elisa! I hope everything works out with you and your kids. 

Source: NewsOne.com

Keyshia Cole Throwing Shade? Michelle & Beyonce Caught in the Wrath

In the last couple of weeks or rather months things have been fired up between Beyonce and Keyshia Cole. This whole things started with Beyonce's performance at the Superbowl this year. As with anything on tv now a days Beyonce's performance was dominating social media from instagram to twitter to Facebook.  From pictures to comments she was the topic of the conversation. Even the winners of the super bowl took a back seat to her performance. There was a power outage shortly after her performance and people blamed her for the delay of the game, the outcome of the winner and everything! But I digress, Beyonce's performance in my opinion was great she put on a full blown show. She even included her former girl group mates Michelle and Kelly of Destiny's Child for a small performance. And thats when all hell broke loose. Apparently people were not pleased with Michelle's performance and the main person voicing their disdain for her singing was the always controversial Keyshia Cole took to her twitter and tweeted the following (Read from the bottom up): 

While Michelle got the brunt of Keyshia Cole's fury she was not the only one on stage during Beyonce's performance. Kelly Rowland was there as well to make the Destiny's Child appearance whole. Keyshia apparently had nothing to say about Kelly's performance her only gripe was Michelle's. People decided to defend Michelle on twitter ripping Keyshia Cole to shreds via her mother, husband, sister, and just her in general. So what was Kelly's response? According to TheBoomBox.com here's what she said: 

"It didn't even make it on my radar until other people brought it up," Rowland says. "It didn't even matter. We had a wonderful performance, and that's all I cared about. I was with my sisters and the three of us matter to each other, and that's all that counts. We matter to a lot more people, with all due respect, than her. So, I really don't care what she said."

Allegedly Michelle responded to the Keyshia Cole's tweets, but Michelle actively denies responding.  As far as this situation goes Beyonce' didn't respond either. She was just happy in her moment and relished every bit of it. 

Then, last week Beyonce released a snippet of 2 of her new songs Bow Down/I Been On. Bow Down is the song that has people talking. The song suggests that women should Bow Down to the moniker that has been given to Beyonce by fans and her peers "Queen Bey". Which by looks of this song she is so "graciously" accepting. Well once Keyshia Cole got wind of the song and she took to twitter again to give her shade..I mean two cents lol. Here's what Keyshia said:

Die hard Beyonce fans let her have it every chance they got. But Keyshia seems unfazed.  However Keyshia's not the only one who is turned off by the song. Controversial talk show host Wendy Williams is disappointed in the song as well. On her hot topics show thursday afternoon she felt this was unnecessary of Beyonce. Because of her status and where she is in the music industry Wendy feels she doesn't need to put out music like this claiming "it is beneath her". 

No response to Keyshia, Wendy, or any of Beyonce's other critics. 

Honestly I don't think Beyonce feels this way truly. Yeah, yeah I know what your all saying. "Girl bye okay! Look at her, her life, the way she is, her alter ego Sasha Fierce, Come ON NOW!" But let me explain, LOL. 

First off Beyonce has pulled this card once before. "Run the World" was not the big hit maker people wanted Beyonce off her last album. She was being massacred in the news by bloggers, music critics, anyone that heard the song either really liked it or really hated it. But she pushed on and 4 became a platinum album, with multiple hits (like Best Thing I Never Had, Love on Top, Party, 1+1, End of Time, & Countdown) despite the hatred for the first single. Personally I think this is just a ploy to stir up conversation and media on her next album/concert tour. She knew that the previous tactic worked so why change the format.

I don't take the music so personally. I'm not bowing down to anyone. If the song really irritates you think of it this way: You hold the power when it comes to artists like Beyonce, Keyshia Cole, etc. They would be nothing without our support as fans. That real, actual FACT. I have no opinion on the song its just music to me, and thats REAL. 

Like I said she's not talking about me and I'm not taking it personally. So as far as I'm concerned do what you do Beyonce! Your record sales will show how people really feel. I bet they'll get over it ;p. Just one more thing, I find it funny ya'll are mad at Beyonce for her song Bow Down but you say nothing about Two Chains asking for a big booty chick for his birthday and BS like that! Women have been treated like sexual objects for a while in the music industry. We're not people or worth anything more than just a trophy, something to be acquired. Guys like Lil Wayne, Baby, Soulja Boy, etc they don't rap about anything but sex, money, cars; things they've acquired after being in the industry. When all you women begin to hold them accountable for their music then this can be a legitimate conversation. Oh and by the way if you say we have your a lie. You really haven't. Cause if you did it would be front page news and subject of conversation for every media outlet in the world just like Beyonce's music lyrics. Whew! Now I'm through LOL. 

*If you haven't heard the song here's the snippet from SoundCloud.com: 

Source: HelloBeautiful.com, HypeTrak.com, & TheBoomBox.com