OMG! In Gross News...Pedophiles and SOME Psychiatrists Are Asking for the Same Rights As Homosexuals?!

Hurbert Van Gijseghem, psychologist and
retired professor
of the University of Montreal

This is probably one of the most disgusting and downright creepy blogs I will ever write. I was on Facebook this morning trolling through my timeline and I came across a news article about Pedophiles fighting to be able to legally have sex with children. Their claim is that their "lifestyle" should be considered a sexual orientation not a crime. Here's an excerpt from the article that I want you guys to see so its going to in BIG BOLD LETTERS, here it is:

In 1998 The APA issued a report claiming “that the ‘negative potential’ of adult sex with children was ‘overstated’ and that ‘the vast majority of both men and women reported no negative sexual effects from childhood sexual abuse experiences.”

When asked if he should be comparing pedophiles to homosexuals, Van Gijseghem replied, “If, for instance, you were living in a society where heterosexuality is proscribed or prohibited and you were told that you had to get therapy to change your sexual orientation, you would probably say that that is slightly crazy. In other words, you would not accept that at all. I use this analogy to say that, yes indeed, pedophiles do not change their sexual orientation.”

The IASHS lists, on its website, a list of “basic sexual rights” that includes “the right to engage in sexual acts or activities of any kind whatsoever, providing they do not involve nonconsensual acts, violence, constraint, coercion or fraud.” Another right is to, “be free of persecution, condemnation, discrimination, or societal intervention in private sexual behavior” and “the freedom of any sexual thought, fantasy or desire.” The organization also says that no one should be “disadvantaged because of age.” - To read the entire article click here

First off this is just wrong on so many levels. I saw this story and I just couldn't believe what I was reading. It weighed heavy on mind and I couldn't not post this to my blog. So here it is: You would have to be an idiot to believe that this okay? First off, homosexuality is between consenting adults. A child can not consent to something that it can not understand. Sex is a very complex physical action that can bring about emotions that are difficult to comprehend and navigate. Hell most adults have difficulty dealing with the emotions of sex so I know for a fact that children cannot understand it at all. Not to mention the physical aspect, it would be too much for a child to take on at one time and it simply destroys their innocence and sense of safety.

Being a pedophile is a sickness not a sexual preference. It is something that probably cannot be controlled and honestly that doesn't matter to me. But it is a dangerous and highly damaging sickness to the person who has it and the child that has to be subject to his or her perverse thoughts and fantasizes. To even consider this normal behavior would be absolutely destructive. And you would be doing an extreme disservice to victims who are mentally and physically affected by these individuals.

If this were ever to be considered it would be a travesty. And speaking of homosexuality as a something that is as perverse as molestation is wrong. Just because you don't agree with a person's lifestyle doesn't mean you have to disrespect them. Being gay whether a person chose it or not is not a perverse act. What CONSENTING ADULTS do in their bedroom is their business. There is no need for any of us to judge. That is up to god. So leave the gay community out of this discussion.

But I will stand up for children who may be subjected to a sexual perversion like this. I understand the psychologist are trying to understand but not at the risk of innocent children. I hope that this story is not getting any legs to move past just a discussion amongst colleagues. Thousands of innocent children are molested everyday by close family members, friends, other children. This has to stop somewhere. It may not be able to be treated but damn it don't subject innocent children to their perversions.

This is a insane gesture and should not even be considered. I AM 100% AGAINST THIS 100%!!!!!!!!

Y'all this ain't right! Read the articles, I'm telling you its crazy!

Source: Northern Colorado Gazette and Pat Dollard

Kanye West WANTED for Felony Attempted ROBBERY!!!!

There is a warrant for the arrest of Mr. Kanye West! I thought this was a joke when I read it but its REAL!

Apparently Kanye was outside LAX today and assaulted a photographer/paparazzi! The photographer was doing his annoying job by hassling Kanye about his current album Yeezus. Instead of ignoring the guy Kanye assaulted him! The photographer was injured and taken to the hospital. He pressed charges against Kanye and it was taken to the D.A. Instead of assault charges being filed, the D.A. charged him with Felony Attempted Robbery!!!!

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Don't know where the felony attempted robbery part came from but this is messed up. First off everyone knows these freelance photographers, paparazzi, blogger photographers, etc are so rude and invade people's privacy. There needs to laws put in place to protect the celebrities and their children from being bombarded and damn near killed. Its ridiculous and annoying. No matter how much money they have or notoriety they gain, they are still people and should be treated as such. Kanye, I know you're frustrated because everyone is in your business but this is what you have to deal with being a musician, actor, or celebrity. Its unfair I know but you have to keep your cool. Also you are dating a woman who is hungry for the limelight. She will do and has done just about anything to keep her name in the media. Understand your position in life and make your peace with it. Before you end up in jail with no career, no music, no girlfriend, and no North West. Think about it man, was beating this dude up really worth it? I don't think so.

Ya'll tell me what ya'll think are the charges justified? Comment below!

Source: UrbanDaily

Shay v. Erica...Shay "Buckeey" Johnson @ The Breakfast Club Just Riding Erica. Hmm...Seems Like Erica was On to Something about Her Mouth

Well Shay is trying to keep herself in the limelight by busting Erica allegedly. Shay was on The Breakfast Club on Power 105 and she was there to basically out Erica and discredit her from being the victim of Scrappy's infidelity to alleging that she was the original cheater during her relationship with Scrappy. Mind you all the information Shay is spewing came from Scrappy. Just something to keep in the back of your mind. 

Now the reunion for Love and Hip Hop Atlanta was tapped last week. It was a lot revealed at the reunion apparently. One of the things Shay decided to share with the entire world including the Breakfast Club was that at the reunion Scrappy revealed how Erica was sleeping with a married man and got pregnant by him! Wow shocking! She also alleges that Erica cheated on Scrappy first. She claimed Erica cheated early on in the relationship and that's when Scrappy started sleeping with other women, that's when he officially began cheating.

Let me tell you why this information that Shay is releasing is not surprising. First off all Shay is doing all this because of something that happened last year. But her anger is misguided. Yeah she and Erica have words on twitter or whatever but on the flip Shay knew exactly what was going on between Erica and Scrappy and she didn't care about her daughter or Erica. Her main focus was getting next to Scrappy and being his main woman. When it backfired she turns into a scorned woman who vents her anger at the very woman she tried to burn.

If Erica was with a married man and got pregnant that was poor decision made her part. But does it surprise me, Hell Naw! I'm going tell you why. She chose to be with a man [Scrappy] and accept his proposal after she saw his infidelity on national TV and after he left her the first time for Diamond. So her being with someone else who was also unavailable does not shock me at all.

Shay is always on this tip of saying she does not care for Erica. But honestly who can believe you when you do shit like this? Your always trying to discredit her. Like your trying to prove that you're the better woman and everyone should be on your side rather than hers. Here's the harsh reality: NO MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU TRY TO BASH HER, YOU AND HER WILL NEVER BE JUDGED THE SAME. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE JUDGED AS A SIDE LINE HOE, A PART OF THE BOTTOM BITCH THEORY. ERICA WILL ALWAYS BE JUDGED AS THE MAIN CHICK WHO KEEPS MAKING THE SAME DUMB ASS MISTAKES AS FAR AS CHOOSING A MAN WHO YOU KNOW IS NOT READY FOR THE COMMITMENT THAT YOU WANT.

Shay here's some advice: Let This Shit Go new acronym L.T.S.G. I just feel like this doesn't do anything for you, your career or anything. It's difficult to take your seriously when seeing you act like a jester in the court, trying to entertain the masses. Girl pull it together go back to video modeling, male magazine modeling, etc. Do your work and be on your hustle. Find a dude that really digs you and wants you for you. Not some little boy who still sucking on his momma titty! Honestly I think your a cool chick but if you are blinded by dick that much then honey you have a serious problem.

Erica you seem like a strong woman and there is no reason for you to be fighting or putting up with this foolishness. Honestly I hope that you care enough about yourself not to entertain this nonsense. Shay is not worth your self pride and your daughter looks up to you. Is this the type of woman you want your daughter to idolize? I don't think this is what you want.

Just stop fighting with her. You don't have to be her friend. But you can be cordial. BE AN ADULT. There is no reason to fight with her. Sit down with her woman to woman and tell her this: Listen I know we've had our differences but I'm willing to let bygones be bygones just to keep the peace. There is no reason for me to argue with you or be fighting you. I'm done with it. I will speak to you and at least acknowledge your presence when your in a room but other than that we go our separate ways and move on with our lives.

Both of ya'll need to pull it together. Really, Scrappy is a master manipulator for ya'll (for some reason). He has a strong hold on you and honestly whatever the culprit please let it go. Here's the interview, I'm going to be honest it doesn't look like they welcomed her to the show it just seemed like the let her get on the show because she was there. Take a look for yourself:



Source: HelloBeautiful

A Letter to George Zimmerman....from Lance Gross, Look Inside and See What He Said

Lance Gross isn't lying this is the absolute truth. Again we need to just let Trayvon's family grieve. So rest easy Trayvon we gotcha back. #RIPTrayvon

Source: NewsOne

Oh Wendy...Wendy Williams Goes In on Kirk and Rasheeda!

Wendy Williams show yesterday was pretty I actually watch it regularly. Sometimes I agree with what she said and sometimes I don't. But I can honestly say that her show is very entertaining.

Basically on Wednesday's episode of Wendy she confessed that she regularly watches Love and Hip Hop Atlanta. She was obviously embarrassed to say that she watches the show but her focus was on the Kirk and Rasheeda saga that has been dominating the show. For the most part on the first season of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta, the relationship between Joseline, Mimi and Stevie J was the main storyline. Adding in some fights between Karlie Redd, Rasheeda, and K. Michelle as well as the secondary storyline which was the relationship with Scrappy and Erica along with Scrappy sideline chick Shay.

Well Wendy decided to speak her mind and tell the nation that the story behind Kirk's infidelity was a ploy to get more face time on the show and put some of the other cast members to back. Making them the stars of the show. Anyway here's Wendy, take a look at the clip:

Well I can't say that I don't agree with Wendy. Cause in this instance I do. Kirk and Rasheeda had small drama on the show last season. It wasn't explosive like this season. But it was drama. This is far beyond what anyone expected from Kirk. He seemed so much better than that, and on the first season he seemed to genuinely love his wife. So for him to do a complete 180 like that is mind boggling. Another reason I can kind of agree with Wendy is that when people tracked down Mary Jane on twitter and started just ripping her to shreds, she responded to one of the tweets by saying "This is all about making money. This is strictly business." That kind of made me say "Hmmm, business huh."


Now let's SPECULATE: Maybe Rasheeda and Kirk wanted more relevance on the show, so on their down time they got in contact with Mary Jane and came up with this plan to make up a fight. But that's far fetched. like I said I was just SPECULATING but it could explain why Mary Jane is so callous about the situation. And Kirk's nonchalant attitude would also be explained. It just seemed messed up. But on the flip side Rasheeda is pregnant and I don't think she would involve her unborn child in some mess like that. I'm just saying.

Hopefully Wendy is just talking and none of this is true. What made me laugh a little bit at the show though was when Wendy's talking to the TV and telling the cast members of Love and Hip Hop ATL: "Don't call to ask for an interview. You are not the caliber of guests that I want for my show except for my Puerto Rican princess Joseline. Only I can't understand a word she's saying so we'll just use the close captioning." As ratchet and messy as Wendy is, if she don't want you on her show you know something is wrong. #RealTalk

I hope this isn't true and that this played out in front of the cameras due to the fact the Kirk is a jerk. I hope and pray. For Real.


Source: MadameNoire & WendyShow

In Alleged News....Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom May Be Divorcing, Due to Lamar's Infidelity

THIS IS ALL ALLEGED! KHLOE DISPUTES BUT I HAVE SOMETHING TO SAY SO I'M GOING TO TELL THE STORY AS IS AND GIVE MY TWO CENTS!!!!!! CAUSE I'M GONNA 100% I'M VERY SKEPTICAL. 


 Okay so here is the story. Radaronline and Star magazine are reporting that Khloe and Lamar may be ending their marriage over a year long affair Lamar had with a stripper (it's questionable whether she is a stripper or not) named Jennifer Richardson. Apparently the affair started in January of 2012 while Lamar was in Washington, D.C. after a game he had with the Dallas Mavericks. According to a friend of Jennifer's he took her out to dinner that night that they met. He took off her shoes and rubbed her feet a the table. She was smitten and he was smitten. Then at 3am that morning Lamar called her to his hotel room and of course she showed up. He took her phone and broke it down into pieces including removing the battery. According to her friend Jennifer assumed he was protecting himself from photos or recordings (Sidebar: WTF?) . Well once he broke down her phone he began caressing her and kissing her. Jennifer told her friend he was an amazing kisser (Sidebar Again: Right?!). She also claimed they didn't have sex, but they did everything else ;). They talked for hours apparently and really connected. Well Lamar left town after that, but before he did he gave her $3,000 (Sidebar: For Her Troubles I Assume? LOL) and promised to see her again. 


But with Lamar's hectic schedule and his trade to the Los Angeles Clippers it was awhile before Jennifer saw her lover again, 11 months to be exact. Until the Clippers had a game in Charlotte and they "happened" to run into each other at the Ritz-Carlton in the Lobby (Sidebar: YEAH RIGHT, Hmm). Sources for Radaronline and Star Mag say that Lamar ran up to her and gave her a big hug exclaiming that he had been looking for her and was glad to see her. Well right after that they had consummated their "love" and had sex all night. Lamar couldn't enough of his new love, he was insatiable says a friend of Jennifer's. That began the actual affair that went on for several months. Flying Jennifer all over the country so that he can see her. He even went so far as to tell Jennifer he wanted a threesome which she obliged with one of her friends. 


As the Clippers entered in the playoffs and filming for Keeping Up with Karshadians began it was difficult for Lamar to find time to see Jennifer and their relationship tapered off. Causing heartbreak for Jennifer. But when the Clippers were put out of the playoffs he reportedly ran back to her only to find an angry heartbroken woman who wanted nothing to do with him. 

Well Khloe got wind of the tryst and threw Lamar out! This story is alleged and Khloe's rep denies the cheating at all. Says this never happened. Since this story broke Lamar and Khloe have tried to make it work but it was Lamar who walked out and moved out of Khloe's home. Apparently he's tired of being a "Kardashian".

The mistress claims she has proof of the affair. Hotel invoices, ticket stubs, plane tickets, and more. She says that Lamar put her up in hotels and used his friend Anthony McNair as a cover. All the hotel stays, tickets, etc were put in McNair's name to cover his tracks. Jennifer claims she didn't do this for fame but I beg to differ.

My 2-Cents

First off if Lamar was cheating that's terrible for Khloe. I feel really bad for her. And if he was tired of being a "Kardashian" I can understand that too. But that doesn't condone his behavior or his actions. As for this woman Jennifer I have to say this seems to be a lot of BS. I'm sorry but her friend says this was not a ploy to be famous this was "love". Love? How can you fall in love with a married man? And why would you put yourself in a position where you are coming between a man and his wife? If they are having problems then tell him to either shit or get off the pot as my mother would say. No use in straddling the fence. 

When I read this article I was so angry not at Lamar but at Jennifer. She entered into the relationship under the guise of knowing that Lamar was married. His marriage is very public and we all know who he was married too. But she decided to see him anyway. You may have fallen in love, Jennifer I'll give you that but your intentions were not good by any means. All you cared about was yourself. You damn sure didn't give a damn about Khloe. 

And this whole "Kardashian" thing is BS. If Lamar didn't like the fact that the Kardashian name is major and overpowers their marriage or that he had to participate in the show Keeping Up With the Karsdashian's, Khloe would've done anything to make him feel comfortable and secure in their marriage. She took his last name when she married him. Kim didn't even do that in her 72 year marriage (SideBar: I wonder if Kim will take Kanye's last name if they get married? Hmm anyway I bet it won't be on tv, believe that). Khloe seems to be very good at assuring her man that she gonna ride for him. She does it all the time on the show. Think about? If you watch Keeping Up With The Kardashian's Khloe is very vocal about ensuring that she is an Odom. She understands that she is a married woman and that comes with responsibilities to him and your household. 

I just don't see this being true. If it was then why did she wait until now to come out with it? Why didn't she just cut her losses with Lamar after she allegedly told him off for being MIA for several months? And by the way you can't get territorial over a man that wasn't even yours in the first place. Know your place. If you constantly put yourself in a Sideline Hoe position that's what you will get treated like: SIDELINE HOE, PERIOD. 

I don't mean to be mean but its strange to me how you can act like he treated you so bad and did all these things but you ALLOWED THIS TO HAPPEN TO YOU. This wasn't a mistake or he lied to you. You knew what you were getting into and you tried to take Khloe position. But it didn't work and now your bitter and trying to get even. And just to be clear I AM NOT TAKING UP FOR LAMAR. BECAUSE HE CAUSED ALL THIS DRAMA ALL HE HAD TO DO WAS COMMUNICATE WITH HIS WIFE OR LEAVE IF HE DIDN'T FEEL LIKE IT WAS WORKING OUT. BUT NO HE COULDN'T DO THAT, CAUSE #REALTALK LAMAR WOULD NOT BE FAMOUS WITHOUT KHLOE! HE'S MEDIOCRE BASKETBALL PLAYER AND HAS THE PERSONALITY OF A WET BLANKET #ImJusSayin if all this is true then you have truly embarrassed your wife and your family.

Pull together Lamar. If this isn't true then fight tooth and nail to prove it! Protect your family and your wife. Ensure that this is refuted to the end!

Source: RadarOnline

Kirk & Rasheeda Saga Continues....Volume 2, Sigh

Kirk has been under fire for his disrespectful and hurtful antics on last weeks episode of LHHATL. Now he's eating humble pie via Nicki Minaj. Let me explain......

You see last week Nicki took to twitter and told everyone how she felt about Kirk and his cheating. Everyone including me agreed with her tweets. Here's some of what she said:

“Damn my n***a, after 15 yrs u wld embarrass the mother of your child while she’s pregnant on nat’l tv like that? cornballs on deck. for reality tv tho? My n—a…that s–t ain’t worth it,” the curvy rapper tweeted. “If you’re trying to convince someone you’re not gay that’s the wrong way to go about it. Your wife is pregnant. U do that on nat’l tv? GTFOH.”

“Having problems is one thing, broadcasting it on a tv show for some air time is another. That woman stayed by your side. how dare u? And i dare u to say it ain’t none of my business. u done sold it to vh1. Its everybody business,” the Twitter rant continued. “Its levels to this s–t…lol…the lower level minds will never understand that. You’re willing to ruin a 15 yr bond for vh1? el stupido.”

Kirk has decided to break his silence about her tweets. TMZ talked with Kirk and asked him what he felt about it, here's what he said:

“Nicki Minaj is a woman and she was speaking about me doing inappropriate things. I can’t fault her for that. Every woman in America who watched felt the way Nicki did,” he said. 

“Not only was doing it on the show inappropriate, but it was inappropriate period. And I hurt my wife.”

Kirk even told TMZ that Rasheeda is "DONE" with him. This is all reported by TMZ, considered a rumor to me until confirmed. I don't know if she officially left Kirk or not. Probably won't know that until the reunion. The fact that he did this to her on television I think is hardest part for people to understand. Cheating is bad enough but he did it on a grand scale. Guess we'll have wait on the reunion.

Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta airs every Monday @ 8pm on VH1 (Channel 335 on DirecTV)

Sources: VH1 & TMZ

Rick Ross (SMDH) is Getting Sued!

Well Mr. Ricky Rozay is some legal trouble. A jewelry company is suing Rick Ross for his unpaid bill. He agreed to 3 diamond Rolex's and didn't pay the balance. He owes almost $90,000!

OMG Ricky keep your hood antics at home. Pay these people the money if this story is true! Allegedly he owes this company and they are beginning the process to sue him. Well I hope not Rick Ross been going through. Partially his fault but still, this is getting really cray cray!

Source: Streetz945.com

Kirk the Jerk Explains All...Personally I Don't Give A Damn, But I'm a Tell It Anyway

Its no secret that Kirk has been acting like a total JERK toward his pregnant wife Rasheeda and unborn child. Now honestly I'm not a big fan of Rasheeda's but she is a real chick and real recognize real. And in this case I would be a damn fool to side with Kirk. But I'm a break it down for those who are unclear why everyone has been raging against Kirk in this season of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta.

Since the beginning of Love and Hip Hop Atlanta they have not been the perfect couple. In the 1st Season everyone sided with Kirk. Rasheeda was being completely unreasonable with Kirk as her manager. She completely disrespected him by going behind his back and seeking management somewhere else. And on top of all of that she neglected him to focus on what she called her rising career. Personally I thought she was being selfish spoiled and ignorant. She wanted this independent label career and she got it but what was unhappy with the result. Rasheeda wasn't willing to work with Kirk, she expected everything to be completed the way she wanted by Kirk without her being involved behind the scenes. But anyway the problem got resolved and everything was fine or so people thought.

Season 2 begins and I admit I missed many of the episodes but the jest of the situation is Rasheeda is pregnant and the way she told him to me was crazy. She tells she's pregnant like it's a burden and something she didn't want. Which I'm sure in her eyes it was. Her career was beginning to move again and they were making moves in her favor. But none the less she is pregnant. And instead of Kirk consoling his wife and being there for her. You know like saying something along the lines of "Baby I know its something you didn't want right now, but its okay we gone work through it let's try and focus on what we can while your pregnant and put a few other things on hold until you give birth." But Kirk just went off like Rasheeda got pregnant on her own. Telling her to get an abortion and being really just flat out evil towards her. She was holding her own though but it was terrible to see Kirk's stupidity play out on TV like that. Going to Benzino's house with strippers in the background talking about how he pulled out and used condoms. Just a big idiota!



Recently on Streetz Morning Grind, Kirk and Rasheeda stopped by to talk up some of their projects and of course their drama on Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta. Here's some excerpts of what he said:

“I mean if you feeling a certain kind of way…At that moment in time, it was a lot going on. It’s so long to explain. It was one of them things where I was saying what’s on my mind, I was pissed off about a few things. Then Rasheeda mom all in the marriage. I mean I was like ‘Come on, it’s between me and you [Rasheeda.] You paying some bills over here? Let me handle mine.” - See more at: Bossip.com

Rasheeda and Kirk go back forth about the accusations of her cheating (including his admitted infidelity) and Rasheeda explained why she went to see her mother about her relationship with Kirk. When the topic was brought up about the DNA test; he explains it by recalling an DNA test he had with another woman over the paternity of her child who she claimed was his. Here's what he said:

“Here’s an example for me. This is one of my examples. And I know everybody gone be like ‘Ahh, what that got to do with…’ Let’s see, three years ago, all of a sudden, I get a phone call right? Somebody says ‘Yo, I need you to go take a blood test. I think this child may be yours.’ So another man is raising a child, I go take the little swab test, come back and it’s my son. So I found out I had a kid three years ago. But for me, as a guy…You can’t just always believe in what a woman tell you just because [she's your wife.]…Somebody else just raised my kid ’til he was almost 18 years old. He just found out that I’m his father…It’s women in general. You gotta understand…Listen, why not check and make sure a child is yours? Why not?” - See more at: Bossip.com

Here's the interview below:




It's really sad actually. Kirk is an absolute clown. There is no reason for a man to be that old and that stupid. Rasheeda girl you've really bagged a good one, I GUESS. But I'm not hating. Because you know what marriage is hard work. It takes time, dedication, love and trust. A child is a huge responsibility and should never be aborted over anything trivial. It is important that every decision regarding a child is well thought out. If you didn't want a baby then you should've stayed wrapped up at all times. Plenty of performers have gotten pregnant had their children and still been able to do what they do everyday. Its hard true enough but with some clear level headed thinking it can be done.

First off it seems like Waka Flocka's mother Deb knows what she's doing. She told Rasheeda that the video basically looked ratchet with her being pregnant, rapping about hitting it from the back (at least thats what I thought about it and took from what she said). And for the record it was ratchet be it a metaphor or truth. Further more Deb is also right about Rasheeda focusing on the endorsement deals. You can still do meet ups, grand openings, all of that. And your studio time will be focused, you'll have better quality music all that. But Rasheeda is not aware of how to do this on her own and she's making mistakes that can't be undone. I thought the photo shoot was a good idea. But the video was not. She looked pregnant and it just seemed so wrong to shoot a video about sex when your pregnant. I don't know but if I was Rasheeda's manager and I found out she was pregnant I would have made sure she was clear on the circumstances and laid out a clear plan for her while she was pregnant and then after she had the baby about 3 or 4 months depending on she feels then we can start the videos and photo shoots again.

I hope Kirk has been on his hands and knees apologizing to Rasheeda for the stupidity and idiotic attitude he has had lately. He is a true dope and no matter what he says everyone will view him as the biggest jerk in the world. Point, Blank, Period.

Rasheeda I hope everything works out for you, your unborn baby, and dumb ass Kirk too. Girl marriage is a marathon not a sprint probably one of the best things to remember when your in a marriage. Trials and tribulations is par for the course.

Source: Bossip.com

The Paula Deen Saga...The TRUTH...Research, READING IS KEY!

Paula Deen is being accused of being a racist. She has been dropped from every endorsement deal she has had. Its really sad. This whole situation started because of a lawsuit that began in 2012. A disgruntled employee had filed a complaint against Paula Deen and her brother Bubba. She (meaning the employee) claimed she was sexually harassed and discriminated against.

I've read all the claims that have been said about her through every social media outlet, blogger site, and news. Here's one from HelloBeautiful.com:

This statement is completely false. It was not said like this at all.

“The whole entire waiter staff was middle-aged black men, and they had on beautiful white jackets with a black bow tie. I mean, it was really impressive. That restaurant represented a certain era in America… after the Civil War, during the Civil War, before the Civil War… It was not only black men, it was black women… I would say they were slaves.”

The southern wedding bit also false!

 “What I would really like is a bunch of little n******s to wear long-sleeve white shirts, black shorts and black bow ties. You know in the Shirley Temple days, they used to tap dance around. Now, that would be a true Southern wedding wouldn’t it?” “It’s just what they are — they’re jokes…most jokes are about Jewish people, rednecks, black folks…I can’t determine what offends another person.” “I think black people feel the same prejudice that white people do.” 

This quote is wrong! This absolutely bogus. Its not what she said. Here is an excerpt from her deposition, what she really said:

The deposition Deen gave on May 17, taken by Atlanta attorney Matthew Billips and filed June 17, was in preparation for trial of the Jackson case before U.S. District Judge William T. Moore Jr.
“Have you ever used the ‘N’ word yourself?” Billips asked.
“Yes, of course,” Deen responded, referring to the fact it happened in reference to a black man who put a gun to her head during a bank robbery where she worked.
“Have you used it since then?”
“I’m sure I have, but it’s been a very long time.”
There is no time frame associated with the response.
“Miss Deen, have you ever told racial jokes?”
“No, not racial.”
Deen went on to say the “N” word is not one she used as time passed.
“Things have changed since the ’60s in the South,” she said. “And my children and my brother object to that word being used in any cruel or mean behavior.”
In another exchange, Deen discussed jokes targeting groups, conceding that “most jokes target. ... They usually target, though, a group. Gays or straights, black, redneck, you know. ... I can’t determine what offends another person.”
“And would you consider telling jokes, racial jokes, to be an example of using the ‘N’ word in a way that’s not mean?
“No I wouldn’t — I wouldn’t tell it. ... I mean, that’s not my style.”
Later in the deposition, Deen was questioned about plans for her brother’s wedding and a restaurant she and her husband visited in “Tennessee or North Carolina or somewhere.”
“The whole entire wait staff was middle-aged black men and they had on beautiful white jackets with a black bow tie. I mean it was really impressive.
“And I remember saying I would love to have servers like that, I said, but I would be afraid that somebody would misinterpret.”
She told Billips she would use the word “black” to describe the race of what she called “professional black men doing a fabulous job,” adding, “I don’t usually use African-Americans.”
She went on to testify she had said, “I would love for Bubba to experience a real Southern-style wedding,” referring to the food. Deen denied using the word “n---” to describe the servers.
“Before the Civil War, those black men and women who were waiting on white people were slaves, right?” Billips asked.
“Yes, I would say that they were slaves,” she responded. “But I did not mean anything derogatory by saying I loved their look and their professionalism.”
“Is there any possibility, in your mind, that you slipped and used the word ‘n-----’?”
“No, because that’s not what these men were. They were professional black men doing a fabulous job,” she responded.
When asked about racial harassment, Deen said she thought she would recognize it and said, “We don’t tolerate that.”

Don't believe me read the deposition your self. You have to research everything now a days. Here's the Paula Deen deposition:

Paula Deen's deposition

Before you judge please do your research. The media is completely wrong. This quote seen above consistently reprinted by many other blogger sites including the listed HelloBeautiful.com is a compilation of words that were used during the deposition but they are being misinterpreted and pieced together to make Paula Deen appear to be racist. That is not what she said at all. If you don't believe me read the deposition in full you will see that this quote is a compilations of questions and answers by the attorney and Paula Deen. They are not her full statements given during her time on the witness stand or what she has said throughout her time as a public figure. With all the controversy surrounding Paula Deen she was dropped from the Food Network one day after her public apology (which by the way I didn't think she needed to do). She was also dropped by Wal-Mart (they no longer want to carry her products) and her Smithfield Ham endorsement deal has also been killed. All this happened within a week of the rumors surfacing about Paula Deen. Her children have rallied for her and they have also been crucified for defending her. I think they were damned if do and damned if they don't. She defended herself and people are still saying "Oh your apology is baseless and not sincere at all." When her children Jamie and Bobby stepped up to defend her people called it a stunt and chastised the boys, including that gossipy queen Wendy Williams. She said that they did more damage to their mother by speaking out. Not to mention the day before she said that the kids have to step up and be responsible for the parents when things like this happen. So like I said the Deen's would have been damned if they did or damned if they didn't.

I did not watch her interview with Matt Lauer I saw pieces of it from some of the news channels. She was being sincere and I know a lot people are going to be mad at me but I'm going record saying I believe that she is not a racist. I think people have a tendency of judging others and doing anything they can to latch on to anything that turns into a major controversy when in all honesty this is not anything to call the dogs on. Seriously, rappers both white and black, normal people use the n-word daily. I don't see anyone chastising them for their poor choice in words.

Its funny to me with my people. I am an African American and and I wear my skin color proudly. I know that racism exists and I'm fully aware of the world I live in. But you have to also believe that not everyone in the world is that ignorant to people with different views and looks. We as African Americans are ready to crucify this woman for something that I know for sure we just heard our brothers, sisters, cousins, mother and many others say. Some of us have even called each other the n-word. Variation or no variation (ga or ger) on the end it still means the same thing. We repeat it everyday, in our comedy, in our television programs, in our music, or even just in a passing fancy. Not even just African Americans I know for a fact there are Caucasian, Hispanic, Asian, etc people who have used the n-word but haven't admitted to it and probably never will. I've heard people call asian chinks, hong kong phooey, I've heard caucasians being called hill billy's, red necks, white trash, crackers, honkys, and I've heard Hispanics being called wetbacks, beaner, border hopper, burrito, and the list goes on and on. These are not things that are said by just opposite races but they are said to people about their own race. Its just sad all the way around. Stop being judgmental unless your prepared to crack the hammer on yourself.

*And another thing Wendy Williams if your really about giving your opinion and being straight forward telling like it is then do your research first. If your hot topics team is good enough they would have found the same deposition I found and would have seen that these racist statements are untrue and honestly just a bunch of BS! But your not about giving your opinion your about drama and juicy gossip so I'm not even mad at you for that cause you never claim to be a true source of information. You just deliver the gossip and your opinion on it. So, that is all!

Below is Paula Deen's interview with Matt Lauer. She defended herself adamantly. 

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Paula I don't believe your a racist. But one thing I agree with Wendy Williams about on this whole story is to end your publicity coverage for this. There is no need for you to be out and about speaking about this anymore. You've done enough. Everything that has been said or said is done and over with. Wash your hands of this and let it go. 

*FYI - Split hairs if you like the n-word is not just used to describe african american people. It can be used to describe anyone. Seriously. Just saying. 

Good Luck, Paula don't worry everything will work out in the end.

Source: SavannahNow.com, HelloBeautiful.com, HuffingtonPost.com & WendyShow.com

Foxy Brown Puts the Rumors to Bed!

Previously I discussed an alleged letter that was supposedly written by Foxy Brown about her relationship with Jay-Z, some for their sexual trysts, and her feelings of Beyonce. In a interview with Combat Jack she discussed her on going struggle with her skin color and the rumor that has had the Internet Foxy says this rumor is a complete lie. She says that the first thing Jay-Z did when he became the President of Def Jam was reach out and sign her as an artist. She says she encourages young boys to read his book Decoded and she really couldn't understand where the rumor came. She adamantly maintains the position that she did not say those things about Jay-Z.
I'm paraphrasing but here's what she said:

“I stood up for him and Bey because I love both of them. That took me back. I was ready to lace my Timbs up and go back to old Inga because it was so disrespectful. The slander. It was disrespectful to me and all of the people who have done things for me. Do you understand I can hear now because of Jay-Z? [cries]” 

“….People believed something that wasn’t even a story, it never was said. It’s not about immortalizing Jay, it’s about me having a reputation. I’m always coy about my personal life. There was no story, no audio, no interview….just someone maybe in Milwaukee somewhere just made up some story. When a story is saying YOU said someone is a controversial and someone gave you Herpes…when you’re insulting people’s families that’s a different level. Jay-Z is someone who I love and respect dearly and he’s always been nothing but great to me and my family period. Beyonce has been nothing but classy and sweet and loving and respectful to me. Those are my friends. They were disrespected. I was disrespected.” 

“I come from a time of real journalism and now, this new day in age someone can just sit behind a computer and say whatever. Even the tone of the article was so ill-written. The words and grammar used, it’s not even me. My mom is an educator. And anyone who knows me knew immediately I don’t speak like that. And all these little hip hop sites just ran with it…”- See more at: MadameNoire.com. 

Her interview also included her emotional struggle with her skin color. She says that for awhile she was very insecure about her skin color. She discussed this insecurity with her friend Lauryn Hill. Who embraced her skin color early on in her career. She says as a dark woman she envied light skinned women for a long time. She was the darkest person in her family besides her father and it made her feel kind of left out. Like she wasn't good enough. But since then she's learned to embrace her natural beauty and live life as a strong confident dark skinned woman.

They of course mentioned her friendship with Nicki Minaj. She explained how she tells Nicki the times that she and Lil Kim were coming into the game were different. She says that Nicki doesn't need to be overly sexualized to get her message across. She's says that she's told Nicki that shes amazing and talented and she doesn't have to do all of that.

To hear the whole interview listen here:

What Do I Think?

I was informed that this was a rumor and not a true quote from Foxy Brown. If you don't know what was rumored to be said by her about Jay-Z and their relationship read my previous blog click here. 

Like I said in my previous blog I didn't believe the rumor at all. It was just out of the blue. Anyway, I'm glad she spoke up about it and is letting people know about herself on a more personal level. I miss Foxy Brown. She was one of my favorite female rappers. She is pretty, smart, and can out rap most of the male and female rappers out now. I hope she can return to the game soon. I love Nicki Minaj, but I miss hardcore female rappers. Foxy being one of them. As far as her friendship with Nicki Minaj I see that she was trying to school Nicki in a good way. She wants her to shine through her talent not her body and that is a real woman right there trying to help you. I like that. She also discussed her body image issues with her skin color. I would have never known. I always thought she was so confident in herself. She explained how she discussed this topic with her Lauryn Hill. I actually embraced my brown skin because of women like Lauryn Hill and Foxy Brown. They are beautiful women and I wished my skin tone was that deep and smooth. Honestly! I hope by using this outlet to straighten some things out between her fans and by killing some rumors she really does come back on the scene. 

Good luck to you Foxy Brown and I hope to see you on the Charts SOON!

Source: MadameNoire.com

Update: Whoooo Drama Drama! BET Fires All Four New Hosts! BET Confirms!

BET Has Confirmed This!!!!!!

BET has sunken to all time new LOW! They have recently let go of all their hosts on 106&Park. A show that is the last of its kind and probably never be another like it. I was a kid when 106&Park first started coming on. It was competing with FUSE Top 20 and the worlds #1 Video music show TRL (Total Request Live) hosted by Carson Daly. However the show got built up because of its awesome hosts Aj and Free. Everybody and I mean everybody loved Aj and Free. Free had a suave new york swag, her fashion sense was on point (she always had on the hottest shoes), with her trendsetting afro and Aj was very cool laid back, kind of bohemian vibe going on; with the long flowing dreadlocks. They talked to the hottest artists and were just all around cool people to watch. Then after they both left in 2005, I was upset. I really thought they would stay for a while before they left. To me 5 years wasn't enough! I don't remember a farewell episode for them. I remember hearing rumors about their departure and then all of a sudden Julissa and Tigger were hosting. Didn't like that at all.



Fast forward almost 10 years and now they are circulating rumors of ending the new hosts run. They set up 106&Park to be a new brand. All new hosts and entirely new concept. They are following in the steps Entertainment Tonight or Access Hollywood. Providing the masses with an abundance of entertainment including interviews, talk segments, social media interaction, and more.

Well within recent weeks or rather months, 106&Park has been going really RATCHET and fans of the show are not happy. Let me break it down:

1st Sign of Trouble - Some of the segments flop. Case in Point: The Miss Mykie Report. Miss Mykie is supposed to have a segment on 106&Park that discusses the latest issues and topics related to Hip Hop. According to HipHopDetroit.com, the segment failed to impress. Miss Mykie seemed to be lacking information and her interviewing skills need major work. Because Miss Mykie's background lacks those skills she should've been the last one interview or discuss anything without proper preparation. In any situation that requires a Q&A you need to be divulged in your topic. In order to have as much background on each topic, you need to study. Immerse yourself in the topics, formulate your opinion after the facts are given and then discuss the topic with your peers. Its painfully obvious Miss Mykie didn't do that.



2nd Sign of Trouble - The Hosts are GONE! Paigion and Shorty da Prince have not been on the show for a solid week. Fortunately this is not a bad sign because BET has a GET SCHOOLED campaign that they are promoting and Paigion and Shorty were apart of the promotional deal. Ms. Mykie may be on vacation (I'm just speculating) if not its unknown to the public at this moment where she is or if she's coming back. To keep the show moving BET decided to have some "celebrity" guest co-hosts and those women were all exes of Mr. 106&Park himself Bow Wow, exes that included Draya & Angela Simmons just to name a few. How tre' chic of BET LMAO!

Draya & Bow Wow Hosting 106 and Park

3rd Sign of Trouble - There's no explanations?! About the hosts whereabouts. Even when Rocsi and Terrence were on vacation or took small breaks the audience was informed before the absence and during the absence. No one explained anything according Hot107.5. That's really unprofessional and a slap in the audiences face.

Meanwhile all of this is going the CEO of BET is tweeting about partying in Miami. While one of your flagship shows is basically going down the toilet. Slowly but surely.

Well the fans are outraged they took the social media to voice their disdain with the poor choice of celebrity guest hosts and the show in general.

I stopped watching 106&Park a long time ago and it wasn't because it wasn't a good show I just out grew it. It was time to shake up the show and they had a good concept. But the corny segments between segments and the nonchalant conduction of segments is ridiculous. Pull yourself together BET. Its time for you revamp your style. Your busy trying to keep up that your losing what you stood for in the beginning. Black Entertainment! Sometimes BET is embarrassing, like when the had their award show after Michael Jackson died and it was so ratchet and disheveled. That man deserved better. Personally I thought adding the little tributes by the stars between each segment was a nice touch but the performances added was too much. It need to be simple montage, the tributes and that's it!

Listen BET you need to give all the hosts another chance. Put the right people on the right segments and you can't go wrong. If you want to voice your opinion directly to the executive producers of 106&Park then click here!

What do you guys think? Tell me you opinions below!

Update!!!!!

Its OFFICIAL Paigion, Shorty Da Prince and Miss Mykie are GONE! BET released a statement early yesterday about hosts firing and gave the "Best of Luck on your Future Endeavors" speech. Its sad. I hope that it works out for those guys. But you'll never guess who's replacing them, Angela Simmons! Yes! She's their replacement or rather who they are considering to replace them. I guess they are going to their original format. 2 hosts of the opposite sex constantly hinting around the fact that they are together. Really attractive BET, really attractive!

Source:  zHipHopCleveland.com & Hot107.5

Michael Clarke Duncan's Grave was Vandalized! OMG Let the Man Rest!

TMZ is reporting that beloved actor Michael Clarke Duncan's grave was vandalized with racist graffiti. This is just SAD. Here's what the report on TMZ.com said: 

We’re told … a family friend stopped by Forest Lawn Cemetery in the Hollywood Hills to deliver flowers to the spot where MCD was interred in Sept. 2012 … when she noticed a figure of a cartoonish black face had been attached to the center of MCD’s tomb. 

The friend believes the black face is an image of “Sambo” — a character that has long been considered an offensive and racist depiction of a black person.

MCD’s friends and family were shocked by the discovery — wondering what kind of lowlife would desecrate Michael’s final resting spot.

 We’re told the family contacted the LAPD — and were told the incident could be considered a hate crime. Cops are currently investigating the situation

The family tells us … Forest Lawn immediately removed the “Sambo” from MCD’s tomb — but they won’t be satisfied until they find out who violated the tomb.

Let this man rest in peace. Seriously what was the point of that! Unfortunately hatred does not stop at the grave and even if they find out who did vandalize the grave there are at least 50 more racist idiotic ignorant douche bags just waiting for their chance to make life miserable for everyone who doesn't look, talk, walk, or even think like them.

It seems like Michael won't resting without drama and controversy for a while. From Omarosa making a mockery of Michael's funeral to her suing La Toya Jackson or rather threatening to sue to his own sister accusing Omarosa of getting Michael to change his will before he died to this! My god please stop this! Someone is dead, they deserve to rest in peace, I know Michael Clarke Duncan is turning over in his grave!

Here is a shot of the of is believed to be a Sambo character mask placed on Michael Clarke Duncan's grave. These are actual images of Michael's grave via TMZ.com:

Either way the mask is disrespectful. I hope they find out who did this and then give them what they deserve.

Rest In Peace Michael Clarke Duncan. You were taken away so soon, but on the bright side you are getting a well deserved rest. Much Love and Rest Easy! God Bless You and Your Family!

Source: TMZ.com & HelloBeautiful.com

On Strike! Love & Hip Hop New York Stars Are Angry Vh1 Execs!

TMZ.com is reporting that there is trouble in the Love & Hip Hop Universe! Apparently the stars of the show are not happy with their pay checks nor the way they are being portrayed on the show. Mona Scott's empire is slowing crumbling. Basically the entire cast of Love & Hip Hop: New York were set to film next season's trailer but only half of the cast showed up. The half that didn't were protesting, claiming they weren't satisfied with the contract negotiations. The rumor is that they wanted double what they were originally got.

Then the cast members that were on set decided protest too. They wanted more input in the revisions of their contracts so they walked off set. That coupled with the casts gripes of the way they were portrayed on the show is the main reason why Love & Hip Hop NY is at a stand still. Emergency negotiation meetings have been set for sometime next week. If they get their demands met they plan on continuing their protest until the get what they want! Mona Scott-Young can't be happy about this, but she has not voiced her opinion on it. Vh1 has yet to release any comments.

What do you think?

Well in my opinion they need Love & Hip Hop not the other way around. Yes the show probably wouldn't be the same but come on. They were able to find new guys and girls to replace the original cast all except Olivia of course. So of course they can find new candidates and it can be just as ratchet as before. Honestly if you want the REAL they can scrap the show really. I mean I love Joe Budden and I like Yandy & Olivia but everybody else I can do without. Seriously Love & Hip Hop ATL is their main attraction now. Everybody knows it. The bad part about it is Love & Hip Hop ATL was a spin-off Love & Hip Hop NY was the original. I never liked the original show in the beginning and then I watched Love & Hip Hop ATL and I wasn't really hooked I just needed some drama to watch and it filled the void. Like I said these cast members better be careful. They can seriously lose out on their show. 

Source: MadameNoire.com & TMZ.com

K. Michelle & Chad Johnson are DATING! Why?!

K. Michelle and Chad Johnson are dating. K. Michelle confirmed it. Well K. Michelle has another single coming out and she was on Power 105 The Breakfast Club this morning. She was asked about the rumor that her and Chad Johnson were dating. She stated the following [via HelloBeautiful.com]:

“We are going to dinner and we are being friends, and we’re talking on the phone, and he’s courting,” said K., who clarified that they’ve not crossed the line into a physical relationship.
“We have not slept together. I’ve been through a lot with this dating thing,” she explained. “We are friends and I think that’s what it needs to be. I think I hopped into something that I shouldn’t have hopped into so quickly last time, and I feel like now I have to pace it.”

Well K. Michelle I'm not mad at you. I'm just thinking with the drama that went down between him and Evelyn and her accusations of abuse, I figured you would steer clear of that situation because of your experience in domestic violence. But its obvious you know something I don't about the situation so I'm a keep it short and sweet.

I hope this new route for you works. I really do. Chad may be the one for you. MAYBE! Just keep your eyes open and think with your head not your heart. Thinking with your can get you into trouble. It blinds you from thinking clearly. So just stay in the friend zone for now. If its meant to be it'll develop into a lasting relationship . Any good relationship has a good solid foundation. Hope it works out for ya K.

Source: HelloBeautiful.com

Kordell v. Porsha - Round 2

Well I knew it was coming, it was just a matter of time. According to Bossip [via TMZ], Kordell Stewart has locked his soon to be ex-wife Porsha out of the house and changed the locks!

This divorce between them is getting really ugly. Apparently Porsha had to move in with her mother because Kordell locked Porsha out of the house and changed the locks. Porsha had to ask her attorney to persuade Kordell's people to give her a copy of the key but he won't budge. Porsha has filed new documents in family court asking the judge to force Kordell to ensure she has a key made or fork over some dough so that she can have a suitable residence to live in. But Kordell ain't having it. Recently Porsha tried to be amicable with Kordell but he wouldn't play ball, he called it "a waste of every ones time".

Porsha honey you better do battle. Kordell I don't know what the hell is going and personally I don't care. You wanted a woman who was at home with you and waiting on you, well baby you got it! Your very old fashioned and insecure it seems. Funny now you blindside this woman publicly with this divorce and refuse to pay her any alimony or anything. Porsha you need to pull yourself together. Fight for everything you deserve. The judge should and probably will side with you. Kordell wanted a stay at home wife and he got it.

Porsha you need to further your education in media since you are a reality star. Go another route beyond what most reality stars do (beyond the clothing lines, cosmetics, shoes, etc). Find a niche in television that you like. Be it in front or behind the camera. You'd be a great TV personality. Seriously, I think you need clean Kordell out! Get everything you can out of this divorce and then move on with your life.

Good Luck Porsha!

Source: Bossip.com & TMZ.com